Was discussing with a friend who was complaining about his wife he said he dated his wife close to 7yrs before there got married, after marriage thier sex life kind of declined abit, then after the birth of thier son d sex is completly off, when he is in the mode she always complianing of being tied or giving one excuse or the other. He said the child is 3months plus now but yet he practically have to beg just to have sex with his wife. He is not the kind of person that will want to cheat on her cause is not in his nature and keeping another woman outside marriage is just foolishnes and incuring unnecessary expenses according to him.
His issue now is how does one get her to be interested again in sex or is it a normal thing with nursing mothers, note before marriage and the child he had a very good sex life.

Ibeere to kpa baba ijebu...

Maybe she's collecting it from somewhere else na...

have nothing to say am a guy.. damn i just said something.

Na wah for this question o...which statistics you take measure say women hate sex after child birth...hmmm. Any woman who hates sex after childbirth doesnt have any emotional connection with her husband she just married out of pressure. As for me Na lai lai to marriage.

Its normal and child jst 3mnths, stres of work, slpness nights, home cleaning and u want to demand for sex everyday?
Abeg no kee the woman, help out too one way or the other so she can have some rest to do mum n dad style

She has given her reasons nd u're still asking why... Men & se.x
how many of u can go through all a nursing mother goes through in a day nd stil be in the mood for that?

jennylove7575: Na wah for this question o...which statistics you take measure say women hate sex after child birth...hmmm. Any woman who hates sex after childbirth doesnt have any emotional connection with her husband she just married out of pressure. As for me Na lai lai to marriage.

Slaps her, what did you just say?

Meestique: She has given her reasons nd u're still asking why... Men & se.x
how many of u can go through all a nursing mother goes through in a day nd stil be in the mood for that?

if the man goes outside now, its you ladies that will be crying like chinese radio...

A woman should be ready to submit herself to her husband, she might not be in the mood but she has to consider her husband or do you think is everyman that's in the mood to go to work everyday but he has to think of his family..

So if she says no sex or you are begging for sex from your wife then she's hiding something....#Gbam

jennylove7575: Na wah for this question o...which statistics you take measure say women hate sex after child birth...hmmm. Any woman who hates sex after childbirth doesnt have any emotional connection with her husband she just married out of pressure. As for me Na lai lai to marriage.

Madam, which statistics u sef use wey u reach dat conclusion? We can as well say any man dat doesn't give his wife breathing space after child-birth doesn't have emotional connection with her, just married her for se.x abi..

tobietticom:

if the man goes outside now, its you ladies that will be crying like chinese radio...

A woman should be ready to submit herself to her husband, she might not be in the mood but she has to consider her husband or do you think is everyman that's in the mood to go to work everyday but he has to think of his family..

So if she says no sex or you are begging for sex from your wife then she's hiding something....#Gbam

why can't the man consider the woman? Na only una get blood for vein? Women aint sex slaves Mr so if she's nt in the mood, go hug ur vaseline for dat night. #gbam

he has to b patient with her. make the woman rest oooooo he no easy ooo

Because sex starts with S

tobietticom:

if the man goes outside now, its you ladies that will be crying like chinese radio...

A woman should be ready to submit herself to her husband, she might not be in the mood but she has to consider her husband or do you think is everyman that's in the mood to go to work everyday but he has to think of his family..

So if she says no sex or you are begging for sex from your wife then she's hiding something....#Gbam

i dont agree. she must not b in the mood bt she must consider? the man nko? y cant he consider? she is stil nursing.

the man is not serious..

I am still a Virgin, so nothing to say...

Naetochukwu: I am still a Virgin, so nothing to say...

. The two both of we. Lol as for d topic am not married o but I feel its cos she just gave birth nd she ll be considering the conditon of her body still tying her tummy d stress, how widened her v has become etc so he shuld be patient nd dey shuld talk cos I rem wen I had my son he was abt 3months wen his father visited me nd we had sex, It wasn't pleasant @ all cos my v was very wide nd I wasn't feeling anything so he shuld be patient till she recovers

Spicylate:
i dont agree. she must not b in the mood bt she must consider? the man nko? y cant he consider? she is stil nursing.

i pity you.....my hear say ur husband no cheat on u

Meestique: why can't the man consider the woman? Na only una get blood for vein? Women aint sex slaves Mr so if she's nt in the mood, go hug ur vaseline for dat night. #gbam

i laugh in spanish for you ladies... don't go all foreign, remember you are still African. the ones that have had sex with their husband after given birth have died abi. Marriage is all about sacrifice and i agree women are not sex slave that's why he didn't rape her but he requested and begged her.. they don't beg slaves for sex, they rape them.. you get??
it's mean and wicked for a man to be Hot and he's wife his denying him of sex.. if you like deny him of sex, he will simply go outside *because he won't be thinking with his brain* and once the woman outside can perform better, he will just bring her into your home 'you don get 2nd wife be dat'.. don't act like a mumu because of all these feminist theory, you will just loose totally if you try and practice it in Africa.

Hypocrites, sanctimonious bullshitt spillers everywhere. its all abt understandin, read d original post again, the sex was good durin courtship, reduced after marriage, and died after childbirth, yet some r still arguin. Smh for the quality of our education system.

faithzy: i pity you.....my hear say ur husband no cheat on u

guy, dat will never be my husband. but eitherway, one's to always carry an extra slippers just in case. so i am prepared.

Undastandin Prblm