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Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Danhumprey: 8:36am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Roland17: Forgive me, but what is with the wave of ridiculous threads always trying to pitch men against women in the battle of sexes especially in marriages in the FAMILY SECTION, it's absurd and can be misinterpreted by tons.gbam! Don't mind the OP! |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by simpleseyi: 8:41am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Ask Arumah Oteh while she does not have a husband. Ask Genevieve while she does not have a husband. Ask Janet Jackson while she does not have a husband. Ask Oprah while she does not have a husband. Also Ask Ngozi Okonjo-Iwealla how she is keeping her home. Ask Remi Tinubu how she is keeping her home. Ask Justice Mary Odilli how she is keeping her home. Ask Justice Fatti Abubakar how she is keeping her home. Finally Ask Patience Jonathan how and why she is disgracing her husband. 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by simplex2: 8:42am On Jul 30, 2014 |
kennygee: Women were not created to head Men especially at home, according to Genesis, we are only help mates. The book of proverbs 31 goes further to praise us for the ways we help men and even calls us virtuous. The new testament crowned it all by asking that we submit. And to crown it all, it went further to command you not to speak in church: don't teach in sunday school, don't lead in praise and worship, don't give testimonies; WOMEN SHOULD NOT SPEAK IN THE CHURCH!!! Did you miss that part? What a holy book. 2 Likes |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by jeff1607(m): 8:43am On Jul 30, 2014 |
If we want want to look at d recent divorces when oe which period was dis more prevalent? But in times of old this hasn't been the case.in most cases the ladies always want to be treated equally if not more in control of the decisions. The major thing needed here is understanding and not putting your needs ahead of anyone. Your life aint yours anymore. Hrs |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by LogansShadow: 8:44am On Jul 30, 2014 |
fellis: I am not in the mood to read arguments from insecure children that are seeking self validation by running women down with their 'submission' theories so unfollowing thread immediately.Typical clueless Nlder.No valid points to give and next thing they do is turn the thread to personal war of words so as to deviate from the main argument of the thread as once again,they are clueless and don't have any valid points to post. You started your show of cluelessness by INTENTIONALLY choosing to ignore posters such as Oahray with valid points and shifted your focus to those who quoted the bible as if they are the only one on the thread just so you can sound smart.And then crowned it all,by calling people who opposes your motion "children seeking validation"!.Well,coming from a clueless one,I wouldn't read much into that. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by simplex2: 8:50am On Jul 30, 2014 |
AdeniyiA: EPHESIANS 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. You're taking marriage classes from Apostle Paul that NEVER-EVER MARRIED He would have known better than put up those letters if he ever experienced marriage. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by LogansShadow: 8:50am On Jul 30, 2014 |
simplex2:Where do you pple dig all these lies from?! Women give testimonies in @least nigerian churches,they lead praise and worship,and they also speak in church!. You want to make a point?,pls do but please stop with all the lies and exaggerations! |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Arsenate(m): 8:53am On Jul 30, 2014 |
personally, I hate trouble. now if the girl I intend to marry decides to tow the path of this recent feminists movement that is making wave on nairaland, no big deal; I'll let her have way. only not with me. she can go and meet the many "real men" in town who are ready for such headache and make their lives living hell with her feminist BS. no dragging, man. I no want wahala. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by simplex2: 8:54am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Double post... |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by simplex2: 8:56am On Jul 30, 2014 |
LogansShadow: Where do you pple dig all these lies from?! Dude, the bible, where you all get the inspiration of submission asked women not to speak in churches (1Cor 14:34). So if the bible is the standard for you all, don't get hypocritical by skipping some parts. Next time, read with comprehension before quoting me! 2 Likes |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by tk4rd: 9:05am On Jul 30, 2014 |
I just dey see one frustrated feminist op |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Jyde89: 9:07am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Am i missing something here, isn't that why God created the woman in the 1st place, to be of help to the man, any woman who isn't adding anything meaningful to her man isn't fulfiling the main purpose of a woman on earth. I hope this answer's your question. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Illuminatus(m): 9:09am On Jul 30, 2014 |
onoja12: GAY and LESBIAN movement,we are seeing you people,your plan for Africa can never work no matter how hard you people try,as for seun who is promoting this on his page please note,we the majority are the once that make you what you are,and when you begin to dance with the minority sick people,i can assure you,we would leave you What is wrong with you people?! Who said that there is a plan? Why are you so concerned that some people are gay?! BTW, Seen might be a public figure, but he still has a personal identity, beliefs and ideals. He won't give it up because you visit his site for information and entertainment. That you choose to be blind to reality doesn't mean that everybody else should do the same. 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 30, 2014 |
blueberryp: I find ur intelligence n depth sexy. I also love the way u presented ur points very logically. Now, no girl wouldn't submit to ur kind of man!!! Kudos broThanks |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Jonwesley(m): 9:29am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Oahray: When we say feminism is anti-marriage and anti-family, you femi-nazis would cry foul. Here: Absolutely! Beautiful reply, U wrote my mind and God bless ur beautiful soul. The OP must be suffering from dementia of the brain. Let her advocacy create lesbianism that she is. No sane person would ascribe such derogatory remarks on Biblical injunctions written of old. God is not mocked, U will reap what U have sown. Demented heart!!!.... 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by LogansShadow: 9:43am On Jul 30, 2014 |
simplex2:First of all,stop with the "your bible", "your religion".What do you mean by "You all get inspiration from"?.You don't know my religion or whether I'm even an atheist and neither have you seen me backing any of my claims with bible verses. And what do you mean by comprehension? Coz to me,inability to comprehend is when after my last post,all you could deduce from it is that I'm just another male who uses the bible to back up claims of subjecting women in to. Slavery. For the record again I'm not the typical male that quotes Bible up and down to support their claims(I don't even do bible arguments @ all ). You were only exaggerating your points and that's the only reason I quoted you. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Slickest(m): 9:49am On Jul 30, 2014 |
U ppl just kip misinformin naïve ppl...some ppl are so vulnerable to stuffs like this...the holy books told u 2do so 4 a longer nd fruitful relationship...u asking some certain questions wil only lead u 2 dryv ur slf crazy...like, why am I even existing?, is it by force 2 get married?, why would God create us nd stil kill us?, nd bla bla bla....see, women b submisiv 2ur husbands bcoz those dat did lived happily ever after.... |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Nobody: 9:52am On Jul 30, 2014 |
zboyd: For all those men and women that believe that a woman must submit to her husband and allow him to lead her, could you please answer the following questions: God is the same yesterday, today, tomorrow till world never ends. God has not change, His rules and commands still stands. Even when Jesus came he said that he has not come to abolish the commands but to throw light into them. This is end time, so lets expect different human definitions that is not of God. Jesus even said that at the end some will claim they called His name but he will say that he knows them not. Anything other than what has been stated is a strange fire. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by obi123: 9:58am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Oahray: When we say feminism is anti-marriage and anti-family, you femi-nazis would cry foul. Here: A submissive woman helps build up her home and earns the admiration/respect of her husband (if he's reasonable). May God bless you for this statement, IF HE IS REASONABLE is the key statement here, Naturally women like power , they like when a man shows that he is in charge, submission is easy when the man is reasonable , if the man in question isn't ,then submission to a man who has a brain the size of a fruit fly could be perceived as being in bondage ,there is also the feeling of insecurity and oppression hence the woman feels the need to defend herself and will be reluctant to give herself freely to this To be fair some women have been through tough situations in their families which has forced them to be leaders from a very young age, these women will be strong , tough, resilient , independent, decisive,sometimes rigid and unless they meet their match they will not find it easy to submit , it will take a strong focused man to get them to submit . 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by zboyd: 10:08am On Jul 30, 2014 |
drnoel: OP ask urself what it means first to be submissive. Then explain to us what it means when one is submissive to another. Then ask urself if being submissive in this time and age is a nightnare? Then ask urself why its that a problem as u say in 2014 to tbe modern man or woman? Then cucuma leave ur thread cos u are looking 4 trouble. Better questions... Why don't ALL men...Christian or otherwise subscribe to the concept of submission? Why are some women happier in egalitarian marriages, rather than traditional marriages? What is it about the concept of submission that rubs some women the wrong way? In what way does "submission" benefit women? What mixed messages are "submissive" mothers teaching their daughters - daughters who they're raising to be strong, intelligent, independent young women able to think for themselves, do for themselves and be an asset to any man they marry - not subordinate to him in any way? Why would any self-confident, self-assured man expect any woman to subjugate herself to him? Why is the concept of submission necessary in this day and age? Change ain't easy...but it's possible. 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by SAMBARRY: 10:09am On Jul 30, 2014 |
I see furious and insecure men every where all around the thread. Whenever they see any reasonable reason that threatens their ego the hairs on their head stands but when its a woman that's being abused in marriage she's tagged a real African Woman am sure if this men had their way they will say all women shouldn't be educated and employed all they should do is make babies anytime they are hornry and perpetually kiss their ass aka full time over dependent illiterate house wife hobiiiii pele o if the truth dey pain una 3 Likes
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Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by SAMBARRY: 10:18am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Gbam. You are so on point zboyd: 1 Like
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Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by zboyd: 10:19am On Jul 30, 2014 |
sauer: for some submission is probably a true recipe for success. As vile as that may sound, even to me, some women earnestly believe they need to submit as much as is possible to their husbands in order to get the respect they crave. First, yes a pastor wrote this. Second, I don't subscribe to the concept of submission...just not me. Third, some of the most unhappiest women I know are married and active in church, as are their husbands. Fourth, to each woman her own. Fifth, sometimes different perspectives change your own perspectives about certain things. 3 Likes |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Nobody: 10:19am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Alexcollins: those girls have been radicalized into suicide bombers. We have more than 200 of dem waiting 2 detonate. Same thoughts here.. this has been the method of terrorists groups the world over, why would it be different in Nigeria.. meanwhile.. our vaunted prophets have reduced their prophecy spitting rate to once per month instead of yearly... not one of those fake prophets foresaw Chibok incident |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Richy4(m): 10:23am On Jul 30, 2014 |
To summarize your question. You should realize that two captains cannot be in the same ship. Sorry it sounds harsh but every one had expectations and what they wanted in their relationship. OP try not to intrude on people's lifestyle. Remember what the priests say about what God has joined together. |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by GentleMimi: 10:25am On Jul 30, 2014 |
fellis:Fellis haf vex. What you've said is nothing but the bitter truth. Nobody takes the ''love your wife even as Christ loves the church'' part as serious as ''wives,be submissive...''. Talk of selective salvation. 3 Likes |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by SAMBARRY: 10:26am On Jul 30, 2014 |
The answer to all those questions is CHOICES simpleseyi: Ask Arumah Oteh while she does not have a husband. 1 Like
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Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by SAMBARRY: 10:31am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by zboyd: 10:33am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Oahray: isn't that obvious? Ask the op for confirmation. Em...I follow my own mind. I'm not a follow-follow type of woman who allows herself to be swayed by some mindset formulated by white women unhappy with their standing in the white man's world. That's THEIR lot in life - not mine. I think for myself. Is that confirmation enough? 3 Likes |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Nobody: 10:33am On Jul 30, 2014 |
LogansShadow: Typical clueless Nlder.No valid points to give and next thing they do is turn the thread to personal war of words so as to deviate from the main argument of the thread as once again,they are clueless and don't have any valid points to post. Ok. 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Oahray: 10:34am On Jul 30, 2014 |
blueberryp: nice point u have there but men make it look like its a birthright, if u want anyone to submit to ur leadership u should be worthy of the role of a leader. Its just like the case of the president nd d citizens, nigerians r the ones suffering d effects of the presidents wrong decision. I believe a woman should only be submissive to a man who is worthy of it not just every tom, dick n harry with a tail between his legsyes, many men make it look like a birthright, and it is not unrelated to the fact that the society promotes that idea. It starts from childhood. Some parents teach their boys that they deserve special rights or should lead because they are boys even if they have an intellectual or moral deficit. Same way many girls are taught that a man is a meal ticket and their body parts entitle them to preferential treatment. The men who know what true leadership entails do not abuse it, they know that leadership must come before submission, and they are never content to receive submission on a platter of golden female helplessness. When a man takes the lead in a loving manner, his wife naturally submits. 1 Like |
Re: How Does "Submitting" To A Man Improve A Woman's Existence? by Nobody: 10:36am On Jul 30, 2014 |
GentleMimi: My dear I just tire for all this male this, female that, topics on Nairaland these days. I know Mynd44 is the one putting them on front page, what I don't know is what type of happiness he gains from watching people fight endless gender wars. Everybody do what works best for you, if you want a wife that will lick your goddamn balls then look for her, don't try to force your misogynistic ideas on everyone because you're scared that your warped views about female inferiority might be wrong after all. 4 Likes |
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