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5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by prodiG(m): 9:08am On Jul 30, 2014
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The Guy You Date:Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you’re attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis. He is hoping you will be a good match for him.
The Guy You Marry:Thinks about what he has to offer you. He loves you because of who you are- he appreciates your quirks, your flaws and strange sense of humor, the way you snort when you laugh and everything he’s come to know about you. He is hoping he will be a good husband for you.
2.
The Guy You Date:Is quick to become jealous when you’re around other guys. He gets angry easily, which often ends up in long, petty arguments. He is possessive over your time, and although that can be cute at times, it can also become just downright annoying.
The Guy You Marry:Places his trust in you, and gives you the benefit of the doubt. He tries to understand your point of view before asserting his own, and is willing to give you space when you need it. He is always open to talking things out, and continues to exercise patience that you may not always deserve.
3.
The Guy You Date:The guy you wear make-up for. You spend hours preparing for a date because you want to impress him. You want him to think you are pretty and you hope he will give you a kiss at the end of the night, reminding you that he’s yours.
The Guy You Marry:The guy who you are no longer self-conscious around. He tells you that you are beautiful with or without makeup, because he loves you for your heart, mind, and soul. You don’t need his kiss to affirm his affection, but he gives you one anyways, which still sends butterflies fluttering around inside your stomach.
4.
The Guy You Date:He’s a mystery. You like that he is a puzzle for you to solve, and you try to be enigmatic around him as well to keep him interested. You’re afraid that eventually, you may grow bored of each other.
The Guy You Marry:You know him like the back of your hand. You let down your guard around him because you feel comfortable with revealing all your secrets to him. Although there are times when you are bored out of your minds together, you are still happy just to be in each other’s company.
5.
The Guy You Date:The guy you have fun with; the guy you are with because you have feelings for him.
The Guy You Marry:The guy you have fun with, but also cry with, laugh with, fight with, love with, and will be with for the rest of your life. You have feelings for him, but you are not with him solely because of your emotions. You are with him because you will love him apart from how tired, depressed, or angry you feel. He understands that loving you denotes sacrificing his time, energy, and other aspirations, and is still more than willing to make the commitment. He loves you not with a selfish or envious love, but with a patient, enduring, humble, faithful and selfless one.
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by MizMyColi(f): 9:10am On Jul 30, 2014
Hmmmm. Noted.

What's with this butterflies in the tummy anyway? I don't think I've experienced one, Like seriousy undecided

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Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Nobody: 9:12am On Jul 30, 2014
MizMyColi: Hmmmm
Don't break up with him just yet. wink
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by MizMyColi(f): 9:13am On Jul 30, 2014
Ceasar1:
Don't break up with him just yet. wink
On the contrary, actually.
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by BoiledCorn: 9:13am On Jul 30, 2014
MizMyColi:
What's with this butterflies in the tummy anyway? I don't think I've experienced one, Like seriousy undecided
go to ya local doctor. You have low something...
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Nobody: 9:14am On Jul 30, 2014
What happens when the guy you are dating wants to marry you?
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Nobody: 9:15am On Jul 30, 2014
softsparkyy: What happens when the guy you are dating wants to marry you?

Eh? undecided
You mean you don't know?
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Donlino(m): 9:16am On Jul 30, 2014
softsparkyy: What happens when the guy you are dating wants to marry you?

Good question.... oya OP answer.
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by MizMyColi(f): 9:17am On Jul 30, 2014
BoiledCorn: go to ya local doctor. You have low something...
Huh? undecided undecided
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by BoiledCorn: 9:18am On Jul 30, 2014
testing boil corn
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:18am On Jul 30, 2014
Hogwash!!
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Nobody: 9:19am On Jul 30, 2014
1AngryBird:

Eh? undecided
You mean you don't know?
I don't ooo.
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Nobody: 9:22am On Jul 30, 2014
prodiG: 1.
4.
The Guy You Marry:You know him like the back of your hand. You let down your guard around him because you feel comfortable with revealing all your secrets to him. Although there are times when you are bored out of your minds together, you are still happy just to be in each other’s company.
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by loswhite(m): 9:25am On Jul 30, 2014
softsparkyy: What happens when the guy you are dating wants to marry you?
transfiguration occur on the wedding night.... grin. Op u can lie ooooooooooooo
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by prodiG(m): 9:27am On Jul 30, 2014
softsparkyy: What happens when the guy you are dating wants to marry you?
seal the deal and make him commit
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by prodiG(m): 9:30am On Jul 30, 2014
loswhite: transfiguration occur on the wedding night.... grin. Op u can lie ooooooooooooo
bia mr man,wetin be your own sef?
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 30, 2014
Nice one but I won't ever date any guy I can't marry. smiley. What's the point?!
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by PrettySpicey(f): 10:48am On Jul 30, 2014
No.2 had me Roflmao till tears flowed... what a crock!

Not ur fault though, OP, I used to believe that until last week Monday... then my world came crashing down my ears.... I'm still caught in the quagmire of rubbles and dirt....

*funny everyone else involved thinks they got the worst deal* M***er f**king men!!!
Re: 5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marry(For ladies) by Misblah(f): 12:07pm On Jul 30, 2014
@op...tuale for you abeg grin

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