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MRSANITY: If i had my way, i won't marry, but society will not just allow me be

I wish the society can just leave people like us alone. #team single unique andcomplete#

You made some good points, but the problem with your comment is that it is grossly one sided cos you looked at it from the angle you find favourable, so i will discountenance them thus:

DBestDoc:

Ofcourse you are right but alota women have been left frustrated because of the "i must get married before having kids" mentality and notion they have.

A lot of women have also been left frustrated because of the stigma and dilemma associated with having kids outside wedlock, or are you by any chance saying you will still get married to the man who fathered your kids down the years??

What do you do if the marriage you are waiting for doesn't happen anytime soon? Would you rather waste your fertile and productive years waiting for the man to show up , force yourself into an unhappy marriage or have someone whom you will shower your love and attention on?

What do you do if the man you intend to get pregnant for isn't ready for kids?. What if you don't have a boyfriend or are not in a relationship as at the time you would like to have kids, would you force yourself on a man you love or beg him to impregnate you or would you pay your way to get pregnant?

I think those who desire to have kids and can give them good upbringing should go ahead and have them whether in or outside marriage. This will reduce the number of desperate and unhappy singles around, atleast they will have something and someone to live for.


My opinion!

And what if the woman that desires to have kids cant give them good upbringing?? should she go ahead and have kids she cant cater for? do you think there are no desperate and unhappy single mums who are caught between leaving behind their kids somewhere and marrying the man they love?

Women without kids have better chance(s) of getting hitched. Not everyone must get married thou. Just to point out your unbalanced views. Btw, your opinion is respected.

firstEVA:
That's too early if you ask me, what time will you see and 'enjoy' life.

see and enjoy life how?...or is marriage not enjoyable?

wasak:

which enjoyment are u talking about again? multiple heartbreaks or several partners??

several partners I guess,u know some ladies like to taste different dickkk sizes before getting married.

Youngpo413:



several partners I guess,u know some ladies to taste different dickkk sizes before getting married.

swthrt.

Vikkyk10:
swthrt.

I love you so so much,how are doing today?

wasak:

which enjoyment are u talking about again? multiple heartbreaks or several partners??

thank God u did nt get married then.u would ve wished u were single cos u so did nt knw anytin then. Ur immaturity wuld ve landed yr marriage in depression.Marriage knw b beans ma sister

Youngpo413:



I love you so so much,how are doing today?

am gud o u

I wouldnt even wana get married in d first place considering what is really hapenin in the society... Truth be told,,,,..better be single dan to live with someone dat wil cause me problem or i wil cause problem for...

Vikkyk10:
am gud o u

I miss you like crazy,have you seen my mail?

Youngpo413:




I miss you like crazy,have you seen my mail?

yp i av.

If there is one thing i can take back in life, it has to be early marriage. Would have married at 18. But no probs my daughter will marry at 18 and son at 20. Fortunately married at 24.

35 and amma surely have my way.

Tuktuk:
If there is one thing i can take back in life, it has to be early marriage. Would have married at 18. But no probs my daughter will marry at 18 and son at 20. Fortunately married at 24.

i hope u r not a nigerian

I wanted to marry at the age of 24. It cant just be possible now.

Youngpo413:



I love you so so much,how are doing today?

swthrt

Vikkyk10:
swthrt

My love, pls check your mail..

Youngpo413:



My love, pls check your mail..

check urs 2,i snt u anoda msg.

Youngpo413:




I miss you like crazy,have you seen my mail?

yp i av and i sent anoda1

Vikkyk10:
yp i av and i sent anoda1

Nkem!

Youngpo413:



Nkem!

wnt u slip 2nyt.

Vikkyk10:
swthrt

Youngpo413:

I miss you like crazy,have you seen my mail?

Vikkyk10:
swthrt.

Youngpo413:

I love you so so much,how are doing today?

Vikkyk10:
yp i av.

Vikkyk10:
swthrt

Youngpo413:

My love, pls check your mail..

Vikkyk10:
yp i av and i sent anoda1

Ayam shaking my head. SMH vigorously

Samakinr:



Ayam shaking my head. SMH vigorously

Whats wrong,Sir...

Youngpo413:




Whats wrong,Sir...

.. . Continue. My Blessing is on it

23 but I don pass that age


Because as at that time
I still dey do mah undergrad courses and project

Samakinr:



Ayam shaking my head. SMH vigorously

sam swty.It's nt wat u tink.Sam

Samakinr:



Ayam shaking my head. SMH vigorously

uncle sam gudmonin.

@vikkyk10 and @youngpo413. pls do you guys need a quite conducive room so you can express your feelings to each other well? i want to post my comment, but its like you guys are taking all the space.

amaprincess:
@vikkyk10 and @youngpo413. pls do you guys need a quite conducive room so you can express your feelings to each other well? i want to post my comment, but its like you guys are taking all the space.

am xori ma'am

Vikkyk10:
am xori ma'am

Hahahahah..dey don catch you lol

izaray:
Hahahahah..dey don catch you lol

hehe dre is ntn btwn us.But samakinr is my bestie