delishpot: Pele. Na so some men dey.

okparaugo:

Lecturer !

delishpot:
Try to keep yourself busy now. Learn hand work or any thing you are passionate about. Even if you are a student. Be in company of friends and don't rush into another relationship soon. Men can be mean most times if it was other way round you would have seen men trooping here to bash women.
Pele jare, God will judge him four you.
You self, nor dey give man ya money. Haha, forget all the bullshit men come here to yarn. You can drink Garri with a bf but don't make fried rice for him with your cash. He judges you by that. They are not too smart to appreciate help instead they will be wondering who gives you the money you are using to help him. Then he will think you are having an aristo somewhere.
Biko if he is broke, treck with him, drink garri with him, visit him in his tiny room near the toilet of the building but don't ever buy him a car, rent him a good house, cook him good meals etc
Haven't you noticed such babe's get dumped 90% of the time?
Men appreciate a woman that surfers with them not a woman that makes them enjoy. They are scared cos in their mind Amaka drinks Garri with them while oninye can't, she is always cooking expensive soup. chei if I marry Amaka now and get broke In future, she will stay and endure but oninye is used to good things of life, if I go broke she won't be able to cope.
That is how most men reason.

Liability: my boyfriend of 2 years, broke my heart by telling he doesnt want me anymore. I cant believe that someone i sacrificed my all for, i gave him my virginity, i sometimes gave him my best by always encouraging him in his studies. I gave him money at times.

We just graduated from the same university.

Where do i start from? All even promised to marry me.
*sobs*

Am new in this forum. Please no insult. Just advise

delishpot:
Try to keep yourself busy now. Learn hand work or any thing you are passionate about. Even if you are a student. Be in company of friends and don't rush into another relationship soon. Men can be mean most times if it was other way round you would have seen men trooping here to bash women.
Pele jare, God will judge him four you.
You self, nor dey give man ya money. Haha, forget all the bullshit men come here to yarn. You can drink Garri with a bf but don't make fried rice for him with your cash. He judges you by that. They are not too smart to appreciate help instead they will be wondering who gives you the money you are using to help him. Then he will think you are having an aristo somewhere.
Biko if he is broke, treck with him, drink garri with him, visit him in his tiny room near the toilet of the building but don't ever buy him a car, rent him a good house, cook him good meals etc
Haven't you noticed such babe's get dumped 90% of the time?
Men appreciate a woman that surfers with them not a woman that makes them enjoy. They are scared cos in their mind Amaka drinks Garri with them while oninye can't, she is always cooking expensive soup. chei if I marry Amaka now and get broke In future, she will stay and endure but oninye is used to good things of life, if I go broke she won't be able to cope.
That is how most men reason.

mstik: eyah, sorry. Don't worry,you'll find a better man.

Liability: my boyfriend of 2 years, broke my heart by telling he doesnt want me anymore. I cant believe that someone i sacrificed my all for, i gave him my virginity, i sometimes gave him my best by always encouraging him in his studies. I gave him money at times.

We just graduated from the same university.

Where do i start from? All even promised to marry me.
*sobs*

Am new in this forum. Please no insult. Just advise

Liability: gosh, does it really work? Though i wouldnt like to wish him ill luck. I have human sympathy.