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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by fubbyy(m): 4:37pm On Aug 03, 2014
Alishachris:

the right things are definite and they are universal bro. No matter where you come from, a woman must must always love a man with confidence, they are wired to do so from evolution
can you describe this particular confidence you are talking about, let me know if its the same one I know
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by lasheez(m): 4:41pm On Aug 03, 2014
Kinkybraids:

i have to disagree. They will never love you. I had to learn this the hard way. If you are man maybe because women can learn to love. If you are woman loving a man that doesnt want you, he will eat the food you cook for him, keep you as his companion until he meets someone, use you for his sexual needs and even humiliate you for being so foolish to still love him. Men can be selfish
I understand what you are trying to say but don't generalise it as all men.Come to think of it most girls hook up with guys for all the wrong reasons some knowing that the dont love the person and r just after his money.At the end the guys they r truly suppose to love become mere chewing gum boys.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Deshannel(m): 4:43pm On Aug 03, 2014
With my Experience when it comes to Love n Relationship. I still find my self in a Relationship with this attractive young lady.
Despite knowing that she might have cheated on me (wiv been together for 6 Months )with valid reasons. I can't seem to break up, cos I was d first to have her in bed. My heart still feels for her Even though my brain knows I shouldn't still be loving her. She's quick to cover her tracks n Apologise, gives me attention, n assures me I'm her Only Boyfriend, other guys r just there as her "Maga" n she doesn't sleep with them, saying If I can't trust her, we shouldn't be in a Relationship.
Love is very complex n full of sacrifices to keep it going.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by pxjosh(m): 4:44pm On Aug 03, 2014
holamiday: I'm currently in that situation right now. My lover in secondary school, 7 years ago, is still head over heels in love with me. She calls, tries to convince me we are meant to be, advises our other friends of the situation so they can talk to me and all that. She tells me how she's turned down myriads of proposals from other guys & that she's still a virgin all because of me. Sometimes she even cries on the phone saying i was her first love. It's obvious she still has those long forgotten feelings. She's a good girl & quite good-looking on every level.

The problem is i do not love her at all anymore. I have met people over the years, i've been to places & she's no longer my kind of girl. I feel so much pity for her & i call just so my conscience doesn't make me feel like a wicked person but i know i do not & cannot love her anymore. It's quite serious.
hmmm..this got me thinking. I became friends with a girl in my class in 100l. unknowingly I started liking her. I didn't even bother telling her because we're not going to work; she's a strong witness. sometimes I become depressed because the more I try not yo like her the more I do. and I get to see her daily. for 3 yrs I'm still trying not to like her. quite unfortunate.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by ceaser: 4:46pm On Aug 03, 2014
Liability: i know at some point in life i have made that same grave mistake. This is so strange to me.

Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by eightsin(m): 4:55pm On Aug 03, 2014
i still look forward to falling in luv.... dont know why i am yet to... i just think i like some certain ppl more bt it does nt really go with the definition of luv
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by linearity: 5:01pm On Aug 03, 2014
lanrefront1:

I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it.

The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right".

Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be.

If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you.

"When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because:

Maybe he/she from OSU caste

Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago

Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa.

Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers

Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins


Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival.

Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living......

Etcetera and etcetera......


So guys, understand and start commenting rightly...

So what would you do when the wrong love you right?

I think you just changed the original intentions of the OP.... The OP even stated:

"I know i have loved someone that doesnt deserve me and i may have ignored some great guys who genuinely loved me. "

which contradicts your conclusions.

The illustration you gave is more suitable and somewhat applicable to "when you fall in love with the wrong person" than "when the wrong ones love you right".
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Debiks: 5:09pm On Aug 03, 2014
Luckygurl: Irony of life.
But then, what makes someone the wrong person and why must the wrong person be the one loving aright.

Atimes, to me, it's a matter of not being contented with what we have, always on the lookout for options that appear more promising than what we've got at hand.
At other times, I'd say perhaps we're still on the move, in search of true happiness and thorough satisfaction.
Whatever the reason is, we've all got to thread with caution.
Great submission......
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by youngds: 6:18pm On Aug 03, 2014
Artist :- Celine Dion
Title :- When The Wrong One Loves You Right
Album :- Falling Into You
Contributing Artist :- None
Producer :- Me cool
Genre :- Blues
Track No. :- 8
File :- MP3 audio file undecided
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by lanrefront1(m): 6:35pm On Aug 03, 2014
linearity:

I think you just changed the original intentions of the OP.... The OP even stated:

"I know i have loved someone that doesnt deserve me and i may have ignored some great guys who genuinely loved me. "

which contradicts your conclusions.

The illustration you gave is more suitable and somewhat applicable to "when you fall in love with the wrong person" than "when the wrong ones love you right".


Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Ruuchiinaa: 8:17pm On Aug 03, 2014
I happen to be a victim of wen d wrong 1 loves U right. There's this girl I so much love. I'm so proud of everything about her. Each time I see her, I see my kids inside her and do pray we be forever. When I made my intentions known to her, she said she don't love me and will never do but I still have strong faith that she will be mine. I fell seriously ill for weeks after that scenario until she visited me and I recovered. We are so so close that even some elders adviced us to marry each other. We share things, believes, denomination, style of laughing and smiles, state of origin, close-by L.G.A, studied course and perspectives in common. Till now, she refuse abruptly to tell me about her former relationship and she had been. I do feel bad each time I remember her word that we can never be together without stating her reasons. Each time I discuss or mention anything about Love, she will leave me for weeks or months, though she is not comfortable with that. She said she wouldn't want to talk about love and that she sees me as her Brother since she have just 1. While I'm going crazy each day about her, she keep telling me that nothing about love enters her head. On 1 occasion, She said one Xteristics of her dream man is that He should be far more taller than her, not even the same height or shorter. She is 5.5ft and I am 5.4ft. I love her so much, don't even dream of losing her. Nairalanders, what do I do?
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by fubbyy(m): 8:34pm On Aug 03, 2014
Krystalxxx:
I don't think you know me cheesy ....I'm the one person who is as thin as a toothpick...no matter what or how much I eat(or I'm forced to eat).lol...my plump frnd in sec skul used to vex,she had ulcers trying to lose weigt and I stay over slim no matter what I eat
and do you think its attractive?
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 03, 2014
iamtewwy: this might b off topic tho, but i have to du ds because it has been bothering me and giving me concerns am 21 and have not dated any gal before, my reason for not going into any relationship is dat,

1.) wat would i been gisting with this my gal: i see so many guys with there gals gisting and laffing on the road and am imaging wat are this guys talking abt, ok if i toast a gal der is an 80% chance that she might say yes!! but i dnt knw how i can keep the relationship to b lively, if mayb i went to visit her, wen we stay together what are we going to b talking abt, thats just my problem naw!! pls can any of u relationship gurus help me awt? or give me gist i can b gisting with these gal to keep my relationship lively, pls help me am seriousy in need of ur help tanx pls ignore how i typed this!!
just date the girl.things will flow naturally...you dont need to be flashy.just be yourself..girls may love you as a quiet guy if they dont,you move ahead.not every relationship is flashy,partying,noisy.....if a girl likes you she will accept you.there are may fishes in the oceans.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Aug 03, 2014
one major problem in unreciprocated love is that the hurting party never speaks their mind...you are loving someone in silence and the person no dey look your face.tell the person how you feel even if you are rejected you dont feel downcast instead of carrying regrets.and on the other side of the coin if someone you are not into in a romantic way starts showing you special care try to get them to open up to you and dont belittle them,tell them why you cant date them in a direct,firm and considerate manner.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 03, 2014
fubbyy: and do you think its attractive?
Even if it's not am I going to kill myself for dat....If you can't change it you learn to accept it
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Ayostically: 10:52pm On Aug 03, 2014
lanrefront1:

I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it.

The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right".

Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be.

If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you.

"When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because:

Maybe he/she from OSU caste

Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago

Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa.

Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers

Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins


Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival.

Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living......

Etcetera and etcetera......


So guys, understand and start commenting rightly...

So what would you do when the wrong love you right?
Guess u'r ryt. Met dis gurl couple 'f yra bak, startd as fwens, cos she was d type of gal l dreamt of,d lov grew wit tym. Bt because she is a staunch JW n l'm catholic, d progress of events got stuck. We stil r friends n even nw dat l'm som1 else, l tink of her 24/7. Both families want d other 2 succumb denomination-wise
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by asema646(m): 12:28am On Aug 04, 2014
this is what is happening to me right. There is this girl am crazy abt.ve talked to her but her answer is No, saying she's already has a boy friend. I love this girl so much that i think of her evey minute of the day and her love is affecting my life that i am not even my self anymore. we see each other everyday n she wil not even look at my face. it pains me that even she knws i love her but she never give me her attention. I have now come to realise that no matter what i do or say she will never love me back. it pains me!
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by adexsimply(m): 2:40am On Aug 04, 2014
asema646: this is what is happening to me right. There is this girl am crazy abt.ve talked to her but her answer is No, saying she's already has a boy friend. I love this girl so much that i think of her evey minute of the day and her love is affecting my life that i am not even my self anymore. we see each other everyday n she wil not even look at my face. it pains me that even she knws i love her but she never give me her attention. I have now come to realise that no matter what i do or say she will never love me back. it pains me!
stories that touch. Just try your best to forget about her.
"Disdain things you cannot have: ignoring them is the best revenge "-Robert Greene
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by oluwashola4me(m): 6:11am On Aug 04, 2014
There's no one alive who doesn't need love#LetSomebodyLoveYou--2 face
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by CBNIM: 8:04am On Aug 04, 2014
Funny thread but TRUE though!

In my case it was someone of same sex that showed me an unimaginable love I never thought was possible nor ever experienced my entire life, that at a point I started wishing that same sex relationship weren't a sin! And that's a raw definition of WRONG ONE loving U right!

But I had to let the person go, coz there is no future to such relationship and in the process the person was really heart broken!
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by CBNIM: 8:16am On Aug 04, 2014
lanrefront1:

I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it.

The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right".

Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be.

If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you.

"When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because:

Maybe he/she from OSU caste

Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago

Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa.

Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers

Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins


Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival.

Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living......

Etcetera and etcetera......


So guys, understand and start commenting rightly...

So what would you do when the wrong love you right?

So on point! Most commentators here got it all wrong, even the op sef judging by the kind of example she gave.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by deavicky(m): 10:07am On Aug 04, 2014
Liability: i heard people said this so many times but i still dont understand the meaning behind it.

I know i have loved someone that doesnt deserve me and i may have ignored some great guys who genuinely loved me.

How ironical. Sometimes we barely have control over our emotions, we easily fall in love without giving deep thought about the person we want to give our heart. But surprisingly we get disappointed, hurt, and heartbroken.

Life is cruel.

Guys and ladies, what can you say about this giving examples, possibly life experience to this issue.
with this ur profile pic u cannot be loved properly.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by jesscastelloteh: 12:45pm On Aug 04, 2014
Jennifer Charles Omodibo portraiture painting by Ayeola Ayodeji

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2t2LiTLI00I
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Artist: Ayeola Ayodeji.
Mobile No: +234 7039409847, +234 8052272655
Website: http://www.awizzy.net
Skype id: ayeolaayodeji
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/awizzyArt
Follow him on twitter: https://twitter.com/ayeolaayodeji
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xP1MyIxajd0


tonto dike drawing the making by Ayeola Ayodeji Awizzy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jorddm3tVBc
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drawing of wizkid by Ayeola Ayodeji abiodun http://www.awizzy.net

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VzR8QYQwGI
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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by jesscastelloteh: 12:47pm On Aug 04, 2014
Artist: Ayeola Ayodeji.
Mobile No: +234 7039409847, +234 8052272655
Website: http://www.awizzy.net
Skype id: ayeolaayodeji
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/awizzyArt
Follow him on twitter: https://twitter.com/ayeolaayodeji
http://ayeolaayodeji..com/
http://www.google.com/+AyeolaAyodejiAwizzy
http://www.flickr.com/photos/awizzy/
http://awizzy.deviantart.com/

portrait painting of Lola Adefope by Ayeola Ayodeji Abiodun (Awizzy)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DF2qqZMKQ4
<iframe width="420" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/8DF2qqZMKQ4"

frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

Artist: Ayeola Ayodeji.
Mobile No: +234 7039409847, +234 8052272655
Website: http://www.awizzy.net
Skype id: ayeolaayodeji
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/awizzyArt
Follow him on twitter: https://twitter.com/ayeolaayodeji
http://ayeolaayodeji..com/
http://www.google.com/+AyeolaAyodejiAwizzy
http://www.flickr.com/photos/awizzy/
http://awizzy.deviantart.com/

Uloma Egbuna portrait painting by Visual Artist Ayodeji Ayeola

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DckWqBTotxY
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frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 11:25pm On Aug 04, 2014
People who matted don't mind,those who mind don't matter. I never love those who love me,Those who I love never love me.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 11:14am On Aug 20, 2014
ihedinobi2:

Using your feelings to judge anything in life means that you will never be reliable because your feelings will always change depending on the current circumstances. Marriages don't succeed because feelings are great all the time, they do because two people choose each other no matter what.
So, are you saying it's wrong to stop loving someone?
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 20, 2014
Ruuchiinaa: I happen to be a victim of wen d wrong 1 loves U right. There's this girl I so much love. I'm so proud of everything about her. Each time I see her, I see my kids inside her and do pray we be forever. When I made my intentions known to her, she said she don't love me and will never do but I still have strong faith that she will be mine. I fell seriously ill for weeks after that scenario until she visited me and I recovered. We are so so close that even some elders adviced us to marry each other. We share things, believes, denomination, style of laughing and smiles, state of origin, close-by L.G.A, studied course and perspectives in common. Till now, she refuse abruptly to tell me about her former relationship and she had been. I do feel bad each time I remember her word that we can never be together without stating her reasons. Each time I discuss or mention anything about Love, she will leave me for weeks or months, though she is not comfortable with that. She said she wouldn't want to talk about love and that she sees me as her Brother since she have just 1. While I'm going crazy each day about her, she keep telling me that nothing about love enters her head. On 1 occasion, She said one Xteristics of her dream man is that He should be far more taller than her, not even the same height or shorter. She is 5.5ft and I am 5.4ft. I love her so much, don't even dream of losing her. Nairalanders, what do I do?

Oh dear, don't throw yourself away in this relationship. I know you cannot forget her so enjoy what you have with her while it lasts you don't want to marry a woman who will manage you when all hope for her dream man is lost, you deserve a woman who sees you as her dream man.

Just enjoy whatever you have with her now and please start dating other women not sexing them (avoid std's and all) enjoy different minds and before you know it you will see the variety and beauty of this life.

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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by ihedinobi2: 1:50pm On Aug 21, 2014
holamiday: So, are you saying it's wrong to stop loving someone?
What makes you think I might be saying that?
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 21, 2014
ihedinobi2:
What makes you think I might be saying that?
Your comment, the last time you quoted me.
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by ihedinobi2: 6:51pm On Aug 21, 2014
holamiday: Your comment, the last time you quoted me.
I meant, what is it about my comment that makes you think I might be saying that?
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right. by marquiseT(f): 1:08pm On Oct 02, 2014
The irony of life

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