Alishachris:

the right things are definite and they are universal bro. No matter where you come from, a woman must must always love a man with confidence, they are wired to do so from evolution

Kinkybraids:

i have to disagree. They will never love you. I had to learn this the hard way. If you are man maybe because women can learn to love. If you are woman loving a man that doesnt want you, he will eat the food you cook for him, keep you as his companion until he meets someone, use you for his sexual needs and even humiliate you for being so foolish to still love him. Men can be selfish

holamiday: I'm currently in that situation right now. My lover in secondary school, 7 years ago, is still head over heels in love with me. She calls, tries to convince me we are meant to be, advises our other friends of the situation so they can talk to me and all that. She tells me how she's turned down myriads of proposals from other guys & that she's still a virgin all because of me. Sometimes she even cries on the phone saying i was her first love. It's obvious she still has those long forgotten feelings. She's a good girl & quite good-looking on every level.

The problem is i do not love her at all anymore. I have met people over the years, i've been to places & she's no longer my kind of girl. I feel so much pity for her & i call just so my conscience doesn't make me feel like a wicked person but i know i do not & cannot love her anymore. It's quite serious.

Liability: i know at some point in life i have made that same grave mistake. This is so strange to me.

lanrefront1:

I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it.

The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right".

Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be.

If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you.

"When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because:

Maybe he/she from OSU caste

Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago

Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa.

Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers

Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins


Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival.

Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living......

Etcetera and etcetera......


So guys, understand and start commenting rightly...

So what would you do when the wrong love you right?

Luckygurl: Irony of life.
But then, what makes someone the wrong person and why must the wrong person be the one loving aright.

Atimes, to me, it's a matter of not being contented with what we have, always on the lookout for options that appear more promising than what we've got at hand.
At other times, I'd say perhaps we're still on the move, in search of true happiness and thorough satisfaction.
Whatever the reason is, we've all got to thread with caution.

linearity:

I think you just changed the original intentions of the OP.... The OP even stated:

"I know i have loved someone that doesnt deserve me and i may have ignored some great guys who genuinely loved me. "

which contradicts your conclusions.

The illustration you gave is more suitable and somewhat applicable to "when you fall in love with the wrong person" than "when the wrong ones love you right".

Krystalxxx:
I don't think you know me ....I'm the one person who is as thin as a toothpick...no matter what or how much I eat(or I'm forced to eat).lol...my plump frnd in sec skul used to vex,she had ulcers trying to lose weigt and I stay over slim no matter what I eat

iamtewwy: this might b off topic tho, but i have to du ds because it has been bothering me and giving me concerns am 21 and have not dated any gal before, my reason for not going into any relationship is dat,

1.) wat would i been gisting with this my gal: i see so many guys with there gals gisting and laffing on the road and am imaging wat are this guys talking abt, ok if i toast a gal der is an 80% chance that she might say yes!! but i dnt knw how i can keep the relationship to b lively, if mayb i went to visit her, wen we stay together what are we going to b talking abt, thats just my problem naw!! pls can any of u relationship gurus help me awt? or give me gist i can b gisting with these gal to keep my relationship lively, pls help me am seriousy in need of ur help tanx pls ignore how i typed this!!

fubbyy: and do you think its attractive?

lanrefront1:

I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it.

The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right".

Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be.

If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you.

"When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because:

Maybe he/she from OSU caste

Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago

Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa.

Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers

Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins


Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival.

Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living......

Etcetera and etcetera......


So guys, understand and start commenting rightly...

So what would you do when the wrong love you right?

asema646: this is what is happening to me right. There is this girl am crazy abt.ve talked to her but her answer is No, saying she's already has a boy friend. I love this girl so much that i think of her evey minute of the day and her love is affecting my life that i am not even my self anymore. we see each other everyday n she wil not even look at my face. it pains me that even she knws i love her but she never give me her attention. I have now come to realise that no matter what i do or say she will never love me back. it pains me!

lanrefront1:

I just use the above post as an example. There are many others similar to it.

The point is this: almost every commentator on this thread do not understand what the saying "when the wrong ones love you right".

Its not talking about un-reciprocated love which many are terming it to be.

If someone loves you and you don't feel like loving them back, then he/she is not loving you right because they simply are not the one for you.

"When the wrong one loves you right" means when a guy or girl comes along, exactly the type of person that you like, right type of beauty, right height, right built, right financial status, does the right thing says the right thing, considerate, kind-hearted, unselfish, cares deeply for you, but alas, he or her is the wrong person because:

Maybe he/she from OSU caste

Maybe you discover he has gone out with your elder sister some seven years ago

Maybe your parents wants you to marry an Ibo spouse and you've promised them you would and this person happens to be Yoruba or Hausa.

Maybe he is a Muslim and you happen to be a Christian girl, but you're at peace with him more than all the Christians brothers

Maybe after sometime you discover that you guys are second or third cousins


Maybe after a while, you discover that he or she is the child of your Father's business rival.

Maybe after a while, you discover he is a loan shark or she is or she is a singer who sings a night clubs for a living......

Etcetera and etcetera......


So guys, understand and start commenting rightly...

So what would you do when the wrong love you right?

Liability: i heard people said this so many times but i still dont understand the meaning behind it.

I know i have loved someone that doesnt deserve me and i may have ignored some great guys who genuinely loved me.

How ironical. Sometimes we barely have control over our emotions, we easily fall in love without giving deep thought about the person we want to give our heart. But surprisingly we get disappointed, hurt, and heartbroken.

Life is cruel.

Guys and ladies, what can you say about this giving examples, possibly life experience to this issue.

ihedinobi2:

Using your feelings to judge anything in life means that you will never be reliable because your feelings will always change depending on the current circumstances. Marriages don't succeed because feelings are great all the time, they do because two people choose each other no matter what.

Ruuchiinaa: I happen to be a victim of wen d wrong 1 loves U right. There's this girl I so much love. I'm so proud of everything about her. Each time I see her, I see my kids inside her and do pray we be forever. When I made my intentions known to her, she said she don't love me and will never do but I still have strong faith that she will be mine. I fell seriously ill for weeks after that scenario until she visited me and I recovered. We are so so close that even some elders adviced us to marry each other. We share things, believes, denomination, style of laughing and smiles, state of origin, close-by L.G.A, studied course and perspectives in common. Till now, she refuse abruptly to tell me about her former relationship and she had been. I do feel bad each time I remember her word that we can never be together without stating her reasons. Each time I discuss or mention anything about Love, she will leave me for weeks or months, though she is not comfortable with that. She said she wouldn't want to talk about love and that she sees me as her Brother since she have just 1. While I'm going crazy each day about her, she keep telling me that nothing about love enters her head. On 1 occasion, She said one Xteristics of her dream man is that He should be far more taller than her, not even the same height or shorter. She is 5.5ft and I am 5.4ft. I love her so much, don't even dream of losing her. Nairalanders, what do I do?

holamiday: So, are you saying it's wrong to stop loving someone?

ihedinobi2:
What makes you think I might be saying that?

holamiday: Your comment, the last time you quoted me.