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Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 10:06am On Aug 04, 2014
With my Experience when it comes to Love n
Relationship. I still find my self in a Relationship
with this attractive young lady.
Despite knowing that she might have lied about fidelity issues (we've been together for 6 Months )with valid
reasons. I can't seem to break up, cos I was d first
to have her in bed. My heart still feels for her
Even though my brain knows better. She's quick to cover her tracks n
Apologise, gives n assures me I'm
her Only Boyfriend, saying If i
can't trust her, we shouldn't be in a Relationship.
Love is very complex n full of sacrifices to keep it
going.
So Over to you Nairalanders. What's your take and what would you do?

Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 04, 2014
When you're in a relationship, try to use your head more than your heart. Some offence cannot be overlooked especially cheating. If you play "temper justice with mercy" game, you'll find yourself wallowing in self-pity at the end. To me, it depends on the gravity of the past that will make me neglect it and move on. Brother, you need to leave the relationship. She just told you that she's a whor.e and you're believing the rooster and bull story about not sleeping with them. Bros, u de fall hand sha. She even gave u ultimatum! Obobs! This situation dan pass BREAKUP na BREAKOUT u need now.

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Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by pasqal09: 11:20am On Aug 04, 2014
MAGA ALERT!!

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Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Liability(m): 11:34am On Aug 04, 2014
i think you should quit the relationship. She is more wiser and smarter, playing you. I as a lady wont do that.

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Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 11:54am On Aug 04, 2014
chinziaski: If you play "temper justice with mercy" game, you'll find yourself wallowing in self-pity at the end.
. I can't really comprehend this statement, but I get your drift. I still enjoy her company, but I'm loosening myself emotionally from her.
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 11:59am On Aug 04, 2014
Liability: i think you should quit the relationship. She is more wiser and smarter, playing you. I as a lady wont do that.
I don't spend money on this girl, she even tells me girls don't eat d guys they r really in love with. I'm honesty still with this girl cos I get all d attention I need from her.
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by rex41e(m): 12:14pm On Aug 04, 2014
Flip the tables around... Would she keep you if it were the other way round? Don't tie sentiment and history to wrong. Wrong is. Wrong! Being her first doesn't guarantee she'll be your last.

Use your head and cut your losses. The talk of "MAGA" is intolerable. Oh and the chances she hasn't slept with at least one of them is BS.
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by baralatie(m): 6:28pm On Aug 04, 2014
she is saying"maga don pay shout??"
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by angela98(f): 8:05pm On Aug 04, 2014
Deshannel, To be honest with you its not worth getting entangled in a relationship with that kind
Maga oriented lady. She is a bag of trouble walking..she might be telling same tale to the other guys that you are her maga or pleasure booster..please do not invest your emotions in the relationship just take it as pastime. Her kurukere movements too much. Be careful so you Dont get badly hurt.

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Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Aug 04, 2014
U don't forget the past. Instead you lean from it then forgive it.
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by GoodFaith: 8:39pm On Aug 04, 2014
Think with ur big head not ur small head =D??
U are getting play by smart B?
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 8:05am On Aug 05, 2014
OBIORAA: U don't forget the past. Instead you lean from it then forgive it.
true.
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 8:10am On Aug 05, 2014
GoodFaith: Think with ur big head not ur small head =D??
U are getting play by smart B?
yessur! The B is smart no doubt, but speaking about getting played. ive got enough moves to checkmate her.
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by dasparrow: 8:50am On Aug 05, 2014
Deshannel: With my Experience when it comes to Love n
Relationship. I still find my self in a Relationship
with this attractive young lady.
Despite knowing that she might have cheated on
me (we've been together for 6 Months )with valid
reasons. I can't seem to break up, cos I was d first
to have her in bed. My heart still feels for her
Even though my brain knows I shouldn't still be
loving her. She's quick to cover her tracks n
Apologise, gives me attention, n assures me I'm
her Only Boyfriend, other guys r just there as her
"Maga" n she doesn't sleep with them, saying If i
can't trust her, we shouldn't be in a Relationship.
Love is very complex n full of sacrifices to keep it
going.
So Over to you Nairalanders. What's your take and what would you do?

@Bolded

If I were you, I will stop fornicating. Sexxx was created by God for MARRIED folks only. If you cannot control your veracious appetite for sexxx, I suggest you get married. You are having all these relationship problems because you choose to disobey God and live an unrighteous life. Sexxx is a blood covenant in case you are not aware. This is how many of you get yourselves entangled in the spiritual realm and then you wonder why your life keeps going around in circles like a circus elephant.

How can you get her out of your mind when you have already contracted a blood covenant with her by having sexxx with her? Now you are stuck and coming to Nairaland to ask for our help. Did you remember to ask for our advice when you were busy sticking your blokos into her kitten? With HIV/AIDS and ebola ravaging, some of you are still acting like an animal on Viagra, having no self control over your sexxxual urges. Go and ask God for forgiveness and stop fornicating if you intend to make heaven someday by His Grace.

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Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by heatmeup(f): 8:52am On Aug 05, 2014
aimoye forget
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Blockus: 8:55am On Aug 05, 2014
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 4:51am On Aug 06, 2014
heatmeup: aimoye forget
. And by this you mean?
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Deshannel(m): 4:52am On Aug 06, 2014
dasparrow:

@Bolded

If I were you, I will stop fornicating. Sexxx was created by God for MARRIED folks only. If you cannot control your veracious appetite for sexxx, I suggest you get married. You are having all these relationship problems because you choose to disobey God and live an unrighteous life. Sexxx is a blood covenant in case you are not aware. This is how many of you get yourselves entangled in the spiritual realm and then you wonder why your life keeps going around in circles like a circus elephant.

How can you get her out of your mind when you have already contracted a blood covenant with her by having sexxx with her? Now you are stuck and coming to Nairaland to ask for our help. Did you remember to ask for our advice when you were busy sticking your blokos into her kitten? With HIV/AIDS and ebola ravaging, some of you are still acting like an animal on Viagra, having no self control over your sexxxual urges. Go and ask God for forgiveness and stop fornicating if you intend to make heaven someday by His Grace.
.

Story for the gods!
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by heatmeup(f): 8:39am On Aug 06, 2014
Deshannel: . And by this you mean?
enough forgetting
Re: Can You Forget The Past And Continue A Relationship? by Youngpo413: 12:20pm On Oct 24, 2014
Some guys sha...

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