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| A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 3:30pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
So, you’ve been called a LovePeddler, you’ve been labelled “cheap or finished goods”. You’ve been told either directly or indirectly; by words and/or action that you could never possibly attract the man/woman of your dreams. There’s this nagging voice inside of you which keeps reminding you – especially at those moments when you decide to pick up the pieces of your life and move on – that you’ll never be good enough, that you’ll keep having failed relationships, that Love, no matter how badly you desire it could never happen to you! In your quest for true love, you’ve probably lost count of the number of guys/ladies you’ve dated and or slept with. Perchance, you now subtly consider yourself abominable and unworthy of a good man/woman. I am here to implore you to change that mind-set, change it because Good is about to happen to you, change it because your worth and value could never be determined by your actions. Every condemnation or guilt that you feel within is either from you or the cosmic rebel, certainly not God (or whichever name you know Him by) such thoughts cause more harm than good in the long run. You must reject them. You are whole, you are worthy, you are a perfect representation of all that is good. You are royalty, you are beautiful. What you think of yourself right now is inconsequential as long as the eternal truth stated ^^^ above remains imho, *nodding my head*  you should fall in line Yes, you find yourself making the same mistakes over and over. Yes, you keep doing those things which you know quite well are against your principles and they upset the inner core of your being. More oft than not, you consider yourself a failure having not been able to live up to your set values, principles and orientation. Deep down, beyond your popularity, beyond that killer smile/charm and figure/build you possess, there are those moments when you do some deep soul searching and all you consider yourself as is “One Colossal Mess!” Well, Guess What?! [size=14pt]YOU ARE NOTHING SHORT OF THE BEST THERE IS.[/size] There are those times too, when you know – deep within, that you’re one priceless treasure who’s just getting most of his/her priorities wrong. Sometimes you feel you have it all together, only to realize you’ve been living an illusion. Listen Sweetheart, there is hope for you, hope for your future and the fact that you’ve read to this length means you desire real change in your life. So, I’m going to ask two questions: 1. In as much as you desire a package deal for a Husband/wife, considering your flaws, do you really believe you can attract a man/woman that noble/virtuos in your lifetime? In other words, when it comes to romantic relationships, is your head thought in tune with your heart thought? 2. What value do you place on yourself? If your answers to the above questions were in the negative, or quite hazy – You are welcome to read on  .3 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 3:32pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Now, all you need do is make a conscious decision this moment, to take charge of your life and in cooperation with your maker, create the kind of experience you sincerely desire of life. You’ll need a journal with which to write down the things you desire in your man/woman of the future and your life as a whole. You’ll also make a bullet list of positive confessions, which you should recite whole-heartedly at least 2 times daily or as you’re led. Let those words become a part of you, when conversing with people, look for a way to infuse those words in your conversation. If you used to think and say “Love only happens in movies” you could change that phrase to something like – “Love Can and Will Happen to Me”  If you used to think of yourself as unworthy and incapable of attracting AND sustaining anything good in your life, you might wanna cancel that thought process by confessing “I am good, I am worthy, priceless people and things are attracted to me, for I am priceless!” If you continue ^^^ this way, you’ll feel peaceful and stronger, with a sense of direction and perspective. Thank you for taking time to read. My writing’s a bit rusty seeing as I haven’t done so in a looong while, so please forgive my grammatical and punctuation blunders *facepalm* Oh! & while writing this piece, a very good e-friend’s siggy to’ally resonates: “We CANNOT become what we need by remaining what we are It gets better! As you’re inspired, feel free to add your own words of encouragement. It doesn’t have to be epistle-ish like mine. 2 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by mstik(f): 3:42pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
All you can do is all you can do but all you can do is enough 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Enegod(m): 3:47pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
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| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 3:52pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
^^^ I don't expect you to gerrit.
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| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 3:52pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Coli these are powerful lines you've got here. I'm touched even though I'm not a victim  Good work boo - Good work. 2 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 3:52pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
mstik: All you can do is all you can do but all you can do is enough |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 3:56pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
AirborneLacer: Coli these are powerful lines you've got here.  Thanks Hun. Say something to inspire someone na  |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by mstik(f): 3:59pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
“Good things come to those who wait… greater things come to those who get off their butt and do anything to make it happen 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
This MizMyColi is one of the reasons I visit nairaland often. God bless you MizMyColi. |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Enegod(m): 4:17pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi: ^^^ I don't expect you to gerrit.I don't get moved easily... |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:17pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Hehe - Inspire ke, I doubt if my words can exert such powerful effect. Anyways, this line have been running through my mind all day. . . ''I'm not afraid of change, I once lost something good for something better''. Any correlation there? 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MissSlimbody(f): 4:19pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
God bless ur soul sis 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
softsparkyy: This MizMyColi is one of the reasons I visit nairaland often. She's the best poster this Section have got. 2 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
faithpaul2: Do you need a sugar mummy? I I bet no one can beat this uplifting words of encouragement. Coli you've got a fan over here |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 4:37pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
softsparkyy: This MizMyColi is one of the reasons I visit nairaland often. and God bless you too Love.Oh my! I feel somewhat emotional, especially considering that I hesitated making this post because I had this wrong feeling that it wouldn't make sense to anyone. Thank You Sis. More Encouragers like you are needed 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by obayaya(m): 4:38pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
wow!!! Mizmycoli This is so nice 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 4:38pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
AirborneLacer:That's my Guapo 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
obayaya: wow!!! Mizmycoli  Thank You Sir. |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Idowuogbo(f): 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Even the smoothest road is full of stones.Confidence is half victory, do not try to fit in, you were born to stand out. 3 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
AirborneLacer:You are right . I really admire her. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Idowuogbo: Even the smoothest road is full of stones.Confidence is half victory, do not try to fit in, you were born to stand out.Ma'am.....  are you a prophetess? |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by dollyptosh(m): 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Idowuogbo: Even the smoothest road is full of stones.Confidence is half victory, do not try to fit in, you were born to stand out.nice one Id |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
May we never let the things we dont have or can't have spoil the enjoyment and happiness of the things we have or can have. Your happiness is in your hands. 3 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Idowuogbo(f): 4:50pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Ma'am.....Upcoming 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Idowuogbo(f): 4:52pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
dollyptosh: nice one Id 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 4:53pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
AirborneLacer:and mi Guapo is become a prophet!!! See?! That ministered to me |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver. Make a difference now!!! 4 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by Acidosis(m): 4:55pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Idowuogbo:Market Woman No derail dis thread abeg |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by pickabeau1: 4:56pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
whats cosmic rebel |
| Re: A Thread For Mature Uplifting Words Of Encouragement. by MizMyColi(f): 4:57pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
MissSlimbody: God bless ur soul sisAmen Sweerie, You too! |
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