temigracie: ..you av wasted her tym already...7 yrs s jst too long..u shud av atleast let her knw ur intentions all dis while....because of u she go don loss many opportunities....

ajasbaba: honestly speaking 7yrs is not a joke,

why keep a lady for seven yrs when you know u wont marry her,

really i think she have a point falling in love can be difficult for her again,

dont marry out of pity,but marry her because she is worth it.

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wikiman: That why we advice ladies against Sex before marriage...now she bearing the whole emotional baggage....never think you can impress a guy to glue to u with sex....i pity her..wish she had proper counsel before moving into this useless relationship

LaurelP:

Who told you we had sex?

Linzo: op you are jst an heartless creature, how wicked could you be? that you spoil a child at the age of 17, and after seven yrs of having a joyful relationship with her you want to abandon her. For who?. Maybe you might have led her into series of abortions and now she has become a dumping ground for you. If you leave that girl God in heaven and nature will never forgive you. . I rest my case.

wikiman:

where did i mention your name in my post?

LaurelP: I have this girl whom I've been dating since my Jambite days. That's over 7 yrs ago. This girl loves me a lot, there's no doubt abt it. Infact I'm the one trying make her reduce d love she has for me.

I love her character and she has all I nid in a woman but I just don't love her as a person. Sth tells me I won't value her as much as I really want to value my wife. But she's been on my neck trying to use all sorts of tricks to get me to marry her. I've let her know wisely dat I can't marry her but she keeps crying and and pestering me, and her cry gets to me.

Pls what do I do? Shud I marry her out of pity or insist she let me be? She said she can't live with no other man but me, dat she's gonna harm herself if I live her. Pls serious advice needed, ignore if you don't have nothing to say.

LaurelP:

is every relationship supposed to lead to marriage?
She's still a young girl of abt 24 so d issue of wasting her time isn't there

andromida:

When you say "wisely" how do you mean? Can you marry her out of pity?

Linzo: op you are jst an heartless creature, how wicked could you be? that you spoil a child at the age of 17, and after seven yrs of having a joyful relationship with her you want to abandon her. For who?. Maybe you might have led her into series of abortions and now she has become a dumping ground for you. If you leave that girl God in heaven and nature will never forgive you. . I rest my case.

Jesus christ!!!

People are so dumb

Oga what is the help you have rendered to the Op

You just ended up spewing trash

temigracie: ...its still long..just imagine all dos opportunities she has missed all because of u

wikiman: That why we advice ladies against Sex before marriage...now she bearing the whole emotional baggage....never think you can impress a guy to glue to u with sex....i pity her..wish she had proper counsel before moving into this useless relationship

laivwire: Bro, I know your feelings cos I had/ have been in this situation. Seeking for advice led me to a conclusion. First, and very solid, it pays for you to be in a marriage where the girl loves you more. I know yu've been scared all this while to let her go, perhaps cos you feel you would put her through immense emotional trauma and people will see you as wicked. Sorry, unfortunately its too late now.

One thing is, you may not find any other girl that loves you as much as she does. If in a relationship with a girl you love more, you would get to suffer for it cos you will feel she doesn't love you back. This babe loves you and if you think another guy will steal her away, you're on a long thing. Shes stuck on you mehn.

Sadly, its gonna be sooooooo boring when you not with a girl you trip for afresh anytime you see her. You can take another option and 'actively' I mean INTENTIONALLY dump her. (Cos that's the only option she'll give you) hoping you find a better candidate. Then you'll have to do that NOW, like right NOW and face the consequences. Choose which one you want.

P.S; Hope you haven't met her parents or she met yours. OYO oh

LaurelP:

is every relationship supposed to lead to marriage?
She's still a young girl of abt 24 so d issue of wasting her time isn't there

okparaugo:

7 Years is too long. When a girl wanted to pester me to death after 2 years dating. The first one after 4 Months.

There is nothing you will tell that girl for her to agree to leave you. You have wasted her time.

But how did you keep dating a lady who you didn't love for some long 7 years ? That's being insincere, insensitive, selfish and punny struck...

I quit my relationship once there is no love in less than 6 months..

You may never find a girl who loves you so much again as age progresses. She will likewise find it difficult in her next relationship too.

Well, its life..

LaurelP:

Pls read my post and comments again
And u didn't give any advice

LaurelP:


I believe there's a level of feelings u shud have for someone b4 going into marriage wit dem
I understand d essence and importance of marriage so I don't joke with it
I like sticking with a particular person in order to really "know her"
She started pushing for marriage, but I don't have enuf feelings for her to marry her
I wudnt want to abuse her emotionally in marriage