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Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Decryptor(m): 10:18am On Aug 12, 2014 |
aisha2: Any man who wants submission should be ready to have unconditional love for his wife Yeah! Just like that Nassarawa man who got infected by his HIV Positive wife and she still wanted to leave him for another. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Sezua(m): 10:22am On Aug 12, 2014 |
b3llo: Secondedthirdonded |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by remsonik(f): 11:00am On Aug 12, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara:You will soon go on another ban!! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by KingsleySanchez(m): 11:54am On Aug 12, 2014 |
ameenahz: Unconditional love only truly exists in a Parent-child relationshiop. It is not really practical in marriage. And how are you sure that even the mother to child love is unconditional. There's always an atom of selfishness in love; even between parents and thier children. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 12:00pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
aisha2: Any man who wants submission should be ready to have unconditional love for his wife Were you not taught that a man is the 'head' and wifey must submit whether his head dey there or not? Stop it, I don't like it o! @OP: Let's say a couple should have unconditional love towards each other Tricky part is how is it achieved or what if one party is dropping the ball? 1 Like |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Trypant(f): 12:21pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Unconditional love does not exist in most Nigerian Men! 1 Like |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Deepfreezer(m): 12:38pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
it exists. fact it doesn't work for you don't mean it ain't working for someone else. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by yomi007k(m): 12:42pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Trypant: Unconditional love does not exist in most Nigerian Men! nor does it in most nigerian women! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by brilapluz(m): 12:47pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
joywendy: mmm....i once had an argument with someone over this love topic.I believe dat person is not taking love in its entirety... u cannot love someone that you can't respect....love comes with respect....! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Nobody: 1:19pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
brilapluz:exactly. Love comes with respect. If you can't respect your lover, you just like him or her, not love. 1 Like |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by RTFM(m): 1:37pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
It exists! I was fortunate to be married for 17 years to the one person who loved me so much. When you experience it, you will know. You never want to do anything that would hurt that person, you live your life for them and they for you. When you are apart you count the hours until you are reunited. You take pleasure in their company and all other women do not exist for you. You speak with one voice and all you ever want is for your partner to be happy. There is always trust, peace and comfort when that special person is around, you grow together and normal things that would drive a marriage apart are inconsequential. This was my experience until the death of my wife a few months ago. Whilst I am sad she is gone, I thank God that I had a chance to experience a perfect love. For the 19 years we knew each other, we were grateful for every day despite the fact that she was unable to have children. OP, unconditional love is not only practical, it is essential and I pray you are lucky enough to find it in your partner. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 2:09pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Lmao I read everything before the first 2pages were deleted I wonder why the ban o. If posin wan fain trobu, e nor go prepia for war? I nor h-understan' o! . E for wait me dia make I sssssssslap am weh-weh ke! MUCHECHECHECHECHE. You know say 'ad boxes' dey empty for NL! A broke NIGGA is a FRUSSSSSTREH-TED BABOOOOOOOOON! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 2:16pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
remsonik: Na today? I dey shake gaaaaaaaaaaaan o! Abi you hia say I wanno reach 50,000 posts before "the second CRASSSSSSSSSSSING" of NL? Levels abegggg!!!!! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 2:26pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Lmao I read everything before the first 2pages were deleted They have no idea what kind of SICK pleasure I derive from all these. Daft MOFOS! I look forward to them o! Like my mama dey call me those days. . . . "Oria a gba ra ISHI AKWARA". . . . Disease wey done grow tendons. . . . .aka only JEHOVAH can cure! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Nobody: 2:38pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: madam but Jennifer Lopez said love don't cost a thing na Well, Its so unfortunate jlo's had to shell out lots of money so as to keep most of her various lovers. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Nobody: 2:45pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
RTFM: It exists! I was fortunate to be married for 17 years to the one person who loved me so much. When you experience it, you will know. You never want to do anything that would hurt that person, you live your life for them and they for you. When you are apart you count the hours until you are reunited. You take pleasure in their company and all other women do not exist for you. You speak with one voice and all you ever want is for your partner to be happy. There is always trust, peace and comfort when that special person is around, you grow together and normal things that would drive a marriage apart are inconsequential. This was my experience until the death of my wife a few months ago. Whilst I am sad she is gone, I thank God that I had a chance to experience a perfect love. For the 19 years we knew each other, we were grateful for every day despite the fact that she was unable to have children. OP, unconditional love is not only practical, it is essential and I pray you are lucky enough to find it in your partner. Amen ooo...I grab ham in Jesus name.....People now a days Dont know what unconditional love is.....My parents have been married for 33 years now, and the way they've both loved each other through thick and thin??........I have vowed, that I will never settle for less...Meaning, I want a man who would love me whole heartedly and unconditional. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by finessela: 3:23pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Is it possible for human beings to love unconditionally? I don't we are capable of that, only God can love unconditionally |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Nobleacct: 3:36pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
akoka: until a man meet Jesus,he or she neva gets 2know wats love. You just hit the nail on its head. You are 100% correct. God himself is the foundation of REAL LOVE. He that findeth wife(love) findeth a good thing and obtain favour from the LORD. Proverb 18:22. May the Lord favour the unmarried IJN |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by omoadeleye(m): 3:43pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: your profile as if dem delete u from NL |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 5:29pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
omoadeleye: How many of the profiles since 2007? Dem go delete taya KE. No work for the next 6 years! IT MEANS SOMEBARRRRRY DON WOUND SERIOUSLY! All I do is collect welfare checks and food stamps! My American dream come true! Muchechecheche You nor see as NL advert boxes h-empty? CEO don BROKE-CRASSSSSSH! 419 website don turn IJEBU CYBER CAFE FOR YAHOO-YAHOO HACKERS! LWKMD!!!!! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Nobody: 5:41pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
finessela: Is it possible for human beings to love unconditionally? I don't we are capable of that, only God can love unconditionally I believe that many mothers and fathers love their kids unconditionally. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by Nobody: 5:42pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
RTFM: It exists! I was fortunate to be married for 17 years to the one person who loved me so much. When you experience it, you will know. You never want to do anything that would hurt that person, you live your life for them and they for you. When you are apart you count the hours until you are reunited. You take pleasure in their company and all other women do not exist for you. You speak with one voice and all you ever want is for your partner to be happy. There is always trust, peace and comfort when that special person is around, you grow together and normal things that would drive a marriage apart are inconsequential. This was my experience until the death of my wife a few months ago. Whilst I am sad she is gone, I thank God that I had a chance to experience a perfect love. For the 19 years we knew each other, we were grateful for every day despite the fact that she was unable to have children. OP, unconditional love is not only practical, it is essential and I pray you are lucky enough to find it in your partner. Thank you for this post. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by omoadeleye(m): 5:57pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: haahaa... you funny... but am not seeing anything, nothing be my own. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 5:58pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
omoadeleye: This is just a temp ID. I don't wish to invest time in fixing up temp IDs. My other IDs are still RRRRRRRROCKING! Others are in taking a break in PRISON! Dem still dey cry for this thread o! Mu che che che che che che https://www.nairaland.com/1850029/how-married-woman-almost-seduced "WE" made history on page 1! https://www.nairaland.com/1850029/how-married-woman-almost-seduced/1 |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by tranxo(m): 6:27pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
justi4jesu: I guess....i will know sooncongrats |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by joywendy(f): 6:38pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
brilapluz:exactly what I was saying but he said that love itself doesn't exist that the love we see now is lust and not love. True but you can respect someone you don't love. True or false? First of all, what is love and what is respect? |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by brilapluz(m): 7:22pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
joywendy: exactly what I was saying but he said that love itself doesn't exist that the love we see now is lust and not love. True but you can respect someone you don't love. True or false? but he said that love itself doesn't exist that the love we see now is lust and not love.i tink he is entitled to his own opinion about love but in some cases many confuse lust with love or maybe he doesnt understand the REAL MEANING OF LOVE AND LUST. True but you can respect someone you don't love. True or false?false...one introduces the other...in this case love begets respect...i give u an instance,if you dont love your parents,its obvious that you will surely disrespect or disregard them.. First of all, what is love and what is respect?LOVE--before i define the word love,be reminded that LOVE has a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts but the LOVE that concerns our discuss is TRUE LOVE...is love you have for a person whom you are deeply committed and greatly VALUE ! RESPECT--1.admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements. 2.esteem, admire, think highly of, have a high opinion of, hold in (high) esteem, think much of, appreciate, CHERISH, VALUE, TREASURE N.B--i never said love and respect are the SAME! |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by beeevan: 7:57pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Humans aren't capable of unconditional love, in or out of marriage. Only a mother's love stand a chance at being unconditional. |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by joywendy(f): 8:17pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
brilapluz:of course he is entitled to his own opinion. Probably he does and probably he doesn't. What is then the difference between the two? First of all, you are looking at this from one perceptive, it is very possible to respect someone you don't love. The case between a student and a teacher can be used as an example. A student can hate a teacher but still gives him/her respect. Just so that he/she can probably just have good grades and all. Would you say that love is neccesary here? What of the case between an empolyer and employee? You haven't defined love to me. You defined true love not love.You used the word I ask you to define to define what I didn't ask you to define. Mind you we aren't talking about true love here but unconditional love according to the thread. If true love is what you say then true love itself can fade which most people would argue that it isn't true. Good you defined respect well, so you agree that respect has different definitions? If you are not saying that love and respect are the same then why are the words admire and cherish both synonymous with the word love in bold font? So I ask again what is love? Please don't go round the bush,just hit the nail on the head.Thanks |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by omoadeleye(m): 8:59pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
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Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by brilapluz(m): 9:28pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
joywendy: of course he is entitled to his own opinion. Probably he does and probably he doesn't. What is then the difference between the two? of course he is entitled to his own opinion. Probably he does and probably he doesn't. What is then the difference between the two?atleast we agree on one thing:everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion You haven't defined love to me. You defined true love not love.you used the word I ask you to define to define what I asked you to define.i guess u never read what i said about love...let me repeat it again for you before i define the word love,be reminded that LOVE has a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts but the LOVE that concerns our discuss is TRUE LOVE hope we are clear on that...remember the love we are referring to is hinged or related to RESPECT..we werent talking about unconditional love...i hope u now understand my point! it is very possible to respect someone you don't love.well thats ur opinion which u r entitled to.. The case between a student and a teacher can be used as an example. A student can hate a teacher but still gives him/her respect. Just so that he/she can probably just have good grades and all. Would you say that love is neccesary here? What of the case between an empolyer and employee?...well i have had such experiences and believe me wen i tell you that the RESPECT i had for some(not all cos some were exceptional) of my teachers then were CAJOLED and not genuine and just like you 'indirectly said',it was done to gain favour or to obtain marks 4rm such lecturers or teachers...let me ask..have you ever admired or valued the undeniable qualities of a good teacher up until now? such persons will forever be treasured in your heart due to their impact in ur life..thats the respect am talking about not the one forced on you! You haven't defined love to me. You defined true love not love.You used the word I ask you to define to define what I didn't ask you to define.like i said previously, LOVE has a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts Also i must admit that i used true love,but i used it because its closely related to RESPECT... If true love is what you say then true love itself can fade which most people would argue that it isn't true.still its only ur opinion and i respect that...and am thankful you know ur opinion of true love is debatable Good you defined respect well, so you agree that respect has different definitions?lol..ok my friend let me explain...wen i said (true )love and respect are not the same,i only meant that they are closely related in the sense that one gives birth to another...just like belief produces faith and understanding produces trust...they may slightly have different meanings but are closely related to each other...shey u get my point? So I ask again what is love? Please don't go round the bush,just hit the nail on the headmy dear...its really difficult 2 give love a universal meaning unless you are specific ....but d kind of love i defined which is TRUE LOVE is closely connected to RESPECT...and that is d point am trying to stress...if you have something different that is connected to respect,please feel free to let me know.... finally,what i have said are based on my opinions,experiences and researches...and i do not intend to drag dis issue any further thereby derailing the thread...but if u want 2 discuss further,u can send me a pm and we can discus but dats ur choice not mine |
Re: Is Unconditional Love Practical In Marriage by amosdrizzy: 10:18pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
fu*k love |
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