ElFenomeno1:
No it can happen.

ok then

firstEVA: yea, if I really dislike him simply means I cannot remain friends with him, shikena.

I hate my ex-

harffie:
I hate my ex-

she broke up with you?

firstEVA: she broke up with you?

I did! And she came back buh I said we shud chill out o for awhile na so I say make we end our break she jes vex!

Honestly, I don't understand why people make break-ups a big deal. Last week, I just spoke with my immediate past Ex. She called to find out how I was doing and stuff and we had a really good time on the phone. We even still share jokes and laugh anytime we see. She has a new fantastic guy now and I am happy (sincerely) for her.

Another one who now lives in SA usually chides (jokingly) me saying: "Jay, when are you going to marry nau? I wan come chop rice for ya head."

Guys, this Ex thing is not a big deal biko. I am friends with ALL of my exes. You can never tell which one of them could be in a position to be of assistance tomorrow.

Net you didn't mention anything about feelings and the manner of breakup

Becoming/ remaining friends with the ex, isn't a good idea; Its always ends in disaster, because someone will difinetly get hurt.

Crocz:

Hahaha..@ danced tango!

Na tango I dey call am.
You know say children full dis place.

glitest: Becoming/ remaining friends with the ex, isn't a good idea; It always ends in disaster, because someone will difinetly get hurt.

why do u say so? It s only a disaster if they both wouldn't wanna let go of their ill stricken past n forge ahead

WackyJ1: Net you didn't mention anything about feelings and the manner of breakup

She broke up with me. She said I wasn't ready for Marriage at that time (and quite frankly, I wasn't). She truly loved me and so did I, but I had to understand with her. Age was ticking very fast and it would have been cruel to hold her down when I know I wasn't ready (financially and emotionally).

At my age (early 30s), feelings rarely matter now o. They did when I was in my 20s - not now anymore. What matter to me now are duty and commitment. Any lady who provides these is good enough. Forget feelings.

.NET

Hell no!!....tried it once and it was awful so awful,den I just disappeared,blocked her on fb,whatsapp,deleted her contact on bbm and changed my line...end of story

Houseofglam7:
Na tango I dey call am.
You know say children full dis place.

True...and it's funny

Yes it can.

haitto99: Hell no!!....tried it once and it was awful so awful,den I just disappeared,blocked her on fb,whatsapp,deleted her contact on bbm and changed my line...end of story

change ur line cus of a lady...hell no

Actually it is happening to me.
The key there is knowing at an early time when it is no longer working and playing the game called "the beginning of the end".

The guy she left me for didn't really turn out as expected so she decided to take a break from relationship and I'm now the chairman of the Advisory Board

Strictly online only

it'll be awkward

there's no big deal.im friends with my ex- boyfriends except the very stubborn ones. you're in a better position to propose friendship if you're the one who quit the relationship. exes make very good friends.

elyna: there's no big deal.im friends with my ex- boyfriends except the very stubborn ones. you're in a better position to propose friendship if you're the one who quit the relationship. exes make very good friends.

please i am inquisitive to know what you guys talk about and if your current partner knows about this.

Friendship can work out
But being a friend to your ex is like hell on earth.especially when the memory still hurts you

observing

My ex is my best friend.

firstEVA: finditng, why the silence

Lol...eva .....just so many thns to catch up wf atm....hp u gd

firstEVA: lol, so I come across like what kind of person? Don't worry, say it, I won't be offended. finditng finditng finditng

Isn't it obvious?....its all summed up in a word : interesting

Greenified: My ex is my best friend.

then she is almost using u....and i bet she was the one that did the break-up

finditng:

Lol...eva .....just so many thns to catch up wf atm....hp u gd

yea I am, tot you were ignoring mua.

finditng:
Isn't it obvious?....its all summed up in a word : interesting

ok

firstEVA: yea I am, tot you were ignoring mua. ok

No no.....wasn't ignoring you.....
Wht will be my reason to turn down an interestn convo wf u?....lol....btw I see u doing gd @ em responses.....blazing yet stating your mind..cool ...enjoy urself

chidekings:


then she is almost using u....and i bet she was the one that did the break-up

Very Wrong! I broke up with her cos i'm too busy to give her attentions. She understood and we've been best of frnds.

Yes,it can!!
And it kinda worked out well for me!

finditng:

No no.....wasn't ignoring you.....
Wht will be my reason to turn down an interestn convo wf u?....lol....btw I see u doing gd @ em responses.....blazing yet stating your mind..cool ...enjoy urself

thanks

Greenified:
Very Wrong! I broke up with her cos i'm too busy to give her attentions. She understood and we've been best of frnds.

you broke up with her, and she's ok with being your best friend, لاتاااايتيتتيتتي, I laugh in Chinese, she is bottling up the hatred my brother, the day it explodes, e go be you like film.

Greenified:
Very Wrong! I broke up with her cos i'm too busy to give her attentions. She understood and we've been best of frnds.

sorry for concluding without knowing the full details

firstEVA: you broke up with her, and she's ok with being your best friend, لاتاااايتيتتيتتي, I laugh in Chinese, she is bottling up the hatred my brother, the day it explodes, e go be you like film.

Its over 2yrs, she's even engaged nw. Her fiance and i are also good frnds.
We broke up maturedly dear, not as enemies. I sat her down and told her why we needed to.
Finally, i made sure she got "the best man". Now tell me, why would she ever hate me?