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Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
I can't help but have this thought of settling down with the wrong lady, hence the question: Have you ever thought that you would have been better off with someone else, instead of the person you are married to? # Would appreciate honest answers. |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Dereformer(m): 2:57pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
striktlymi: I can't help but have this thought of settling down with the wrong lady, hence the question: No. My queen remains the best thing to happen to me in this life. If there is life after death, I pray to meet this pearl of inestimable value. 12 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Godmystrength: 3:25pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
NO. The only thoughts that keep coming to my head most time we have issues is ''why is he like this? why is he behaving like this?'' and not ''how i wish i wasn't married to him but someone else'' |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by maborukoje(f): 6:43pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
Yes Don't ask Mi why |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by MARKone(m): 7:11pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
maborukoje: Yes WHY? OP that is majorly the situation after 2-3 years of marriage, that question will always creep into your mind. Everything still boils down to how you handle it. 3 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by tobechi74: 7:16pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
Emmm....current status single future status...single was born...single will die....sinngle |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by egopersonified(f): 7:32pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
Sincerely, yes. When I have issues with my husband but when the mist clears, the guy fit win husband of the decade. 3 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
maborukoje: Yes Marriage is getting kinda scary. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by davno: 8:52pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
I sure know I'll never marry any of my 'exes' if given a second chance. As for my baby, I'll marry her again without thinking twice. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Kanwulia: 9:05pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
Never o! I nor even wan marry atol atol! It really does not matter! No matter who it is. . . . . .MARRIAGE IS WORK! It is only sweet in OLD AGE! . . . . .AND DURING THE COURTSHIP PHASE! In between the courtship and the old age phases. . . .HMMMMMMM! Only JEHOVAH NI "INSHI" ALLLAH can save! 3 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Larrysky(f): 9:10pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
Not yet married but scared i might loose it on the way. Fear of getting bored |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Juzzybabe(f): 9:21pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
There are times when one sincerely wish such,but just think of it as no one is perfect. Mind you if you ignorantly transfer to that someone else,bet me someday u will still wish to be wit either the former or another 'someone else' marriage is a work on its own,it requires tender care 5 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
Larrysky: Not yet married but scared i might loose it on the way. Fear of getting boredhow? |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 12:17am On Aug 19, 2014 |
Juzzybabe: There are times when one sincerely wish such,but just think of it as no one is perfect. Mind you if you ignorantly transfer to that someone else,bet me someday u will still wish to be wit either the former or another 'someone else' marriage is a work on its own,it requires tender care Food for thought. |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Tenderlover(f): 8:15am On Aug 19, 2014 |
No No, my hubby complements me. Five years down the line and I am glad I said Yes to him. He is not perfect though and neither I my but I love the way he loves me. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 11:36am On Aug 19, 2014 |
striktlymi: I can't help but have this thought of settling down with the wrong lady, hence the question: Yes,because I didn't take my time to know him better nd it cost me a lot |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by dytbabe: 11:45am On Aug 19, 2014 |
Hehehehhehehehehehehhehehehe When things are good, they the best bt if any little thing goes wrong, u start blaming ursef why u married. I THINK am married sha 1 Like |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by AmJane(f): 12:31pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
Juzzybabe: There are times when one sincerely wish such,but just think of it as no one is perfect. Mind you if you ignorantly transfer to that someone else,bet me someday u will still wish to be wit either the former or another 'someone else' marriage is a work on its own,it requires tender careYou just nailed it. Marriage is a work. That 'someone else' may not still give you all you want if given the opportunity. |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by angiemartinez(f): 1:12pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
ooooooooooooooopwetty dats me for you egopersonified: Sincerely, yes. When I have issues with my husband but when the mist clears, the guy fit win husband of the decade. |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by angiemartinez(f): 1:17pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
honestly d last issue btw my hubby n i makes me ponder on many things. i was convinced i made a mistake marryn him and regrets sets in. buh wen i brought d iss here and so many people adviced me and i started WORKING on my marriage, its been fun after then. just hope it continues sha. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by saponification: 1:51pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
Honestly yes.been married for 6 yrs wit 2 lovely kids.initially I thanked God everyday dat I married my hubby(we dated from our 200 level in uni).but my once lovin hubby hav changed since he travelled abroad n started makin money(had nothin when I married himy.he kills me emotionally everday wit d hurtful tins he tells me over d phone.as I write dis now,my eyes r swollen from cryin as a result of d hurtful tins he told me yesterday.so at times I wish I had married someone else.but then the big question is would dat someone else'been better?anyway its only a wish cos despite everytin he's been doin 2 me, I still luv him so so much n dat is what pains me most.(My inability to stop lovin a hubby dat is causin me so much emotional pains) 1 Like |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
Hmmmmmm. The word Marriage is scary sha. |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by TV01(m): 2:31pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
...the thought of not being with my wife brings me out in a cold sweat. TV **oh Lord my God** |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by angiemartinez(f): 3:25pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
i can feel your pains sweethrt, trust me i no how it feels. one thing i have always told myslf is that my happiness depends on me. i stoped killing myslf with the very thought that makes me unhappy and started concentrating on what makes me happy. life is too short to to be sad, so cheer and work on ur marriage. saponification: Honestly yes.been married for 6 yrs wit 2 lovely kids.initially I thanked God everyday dat I married my hubby(we dated from our 200 level in uni).but my once lovin hubby hav changed since he travelled abroad n started makin money(had nothin when I married himy.he kills me emotionally everday wit d hurtful tins he tells me over d phone.as I write dis now,my eyes r swollen from cryin as a result of d hurtful tins he told me yesterday.so at times I wish I had married someone else.but then the big question is would dat someone else'been better?anyway its only a wish cos despite everytin he's been doin 2 me, I still luv him so so much n dat is what pains me most.(My inability to stop lovin a hubby dat is causin me so much emotional pains) 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by saponification: 4:35pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
e Post i can feel your pains sweethrt, trust me i no how it feels. one thing i have always told myslf is that my happiness depends on me. i stoped killing myslf with the very thought that makes me unhappy and started concentrating on what makes me happy. life is too short to to be sad, so cheer and work on ur marriage |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by saponification: 4:39pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
saponification: e Post. Thanks dear.I am just tryin to do dat( stay strong) for d sake of my kids 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Zehner(f): 4:53pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
You guys are scaring me o! Ahan! We wey neva marry make we no marry again? ...... cos honestly some comments are giving me d creeps! |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by beeevan: 5:02pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
Hell no, i married the only person that I can stay married to. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by shizzle11(m): 5:02pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
The op said honest answers please. Erm...years after I must have crossed the bridge, I'll be able to tell and hopefully my answer to the op won't be in the affirmative. For now, I'm an observer |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by shizzle11(m): 5:07pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
Zehner: You guys are scaring me o! Ahan! We wey neva marry make we no marry again? ...... cos honestly some comments are giving me d creeps!If you wish to get married someday, then stop thinking this way of being scared, else you'll never marry. Marriage is never a bed of roses, just pray it wouldn't be full of thorns either, considering human imperfections. Just ask God for a partner whose imperfections and inadequacies you can cope with...Daz alllll |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
saponification: Honestly yes.been married for 6 yrs wit 2 lovely kids.initially I thanked God everyday dat I married my hubby(we dated from our 200 level in uni).but my once lovin hubby hav changed since he travelled abroad n started makin money(had nothin when I married himy.he kills me emotionally everday wit d hurtful tins he tells me over d phone.as I write dis now,my eyes r swollen from cryin as a result of d hurtful tins he told me yesterday.so at times I wish I had married someone else.but then the big question is would dat someone else'been better?anyway its only a wish cos despite everytin he's been doin 2 me, I still luv him so so much n dat is what pains me most.(My inability to stop lovin a hubby dat is causin me so much emotional pains) Very touching! The Lord is your strength. |
Re: Ever Wished You Were Married To Someone Else? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
tobechi74: Emmm....current status single Why? |
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