Hey fellas! Girls are really not as complicated as you make us to be. What we want is simple and I've taken the time to state them.

1) HEAR US OUT: You may not have realised this but a lot of guys are self-centred. If you'll stop thinking of yourselves for once and understand our point of view we'll appreciate. Understand that we like to share how our day was, and our feelings so make that compromise and hear us out, after all we make compromises for you a lot.


And by the way, you should that as time goes by our wants evolve and change too. That's just the way we are.


2) COMPLIMENTS: We remember everything you say about our bodies, our smiles, our hair, with every single detail. This doesn't mean you should lie to us. When you notice something you like, don't hold your self back from saying it.


3) A LITTLE BIT OF BAD BOY-NESS: I once saw a tweet that read "a girl wants a Guy that opens the door for her and slaps her a** on her way out" and I thought to myself OMG this is sadly true. Little wonder why the bad boys always get all the girls... There's this thing about their chemistry that is sexy, this aura that women find irresistible. Their boldness to show you off in public maybe even kiss you, talk a little dirty sometimes. Be bold enough to be a little nasty. Give us a little adventure when we're with you.

4) ROMANCE: You should know this by now, all women love romance. Its our nature. We like it when you hold us from behind, when you hug us for no particular reason, when you send us a text just to check on us, when you hold our hands in public,when you tell us how you feel about us often, when you surprise us. What a woman wants from you, is to feel like she's a woman


5) CONNECTION: In as much as we want you to hear us out, we also want you to talk. Its important for us to feel as if we're part of your life. We understand that you want to be a man and make things right and all but we want to be involved most times. Ask us for advise sometimes and if we don't really know much about the subject matter... Read full article here. http://www.dsuperwoman.com/2013/09/what-women-want-from-you_19.html?m=1.

Another thread abt what a woman wants.
Some of U r wanting creatures
I long to see a thread by a woman abt what women provide

Hahaha okay I'll do that next

Lanre90: Another thread abt what a woman wants.
Some of U r wanting creatures
I long to see a thread by a woman abt what women provide

Op, you dey lie too much. Why didn't you mention MONEY? I know Naija girls love money so much. They can lick the navel and anus of an 85 yrs old man for money

I don't want to sound too cliche, but most guys offer everything you listed.

However, the compliment thingy has to be a two-way traffic. Most chics love compliments but they'll never return the favour.

SirShymex: I don't want to sound too cliche, but most guys offer everything you listed.

However, the compliment thingy has to be a two-way traffic. Most chics love compliments but they'll never return the favour.

This tit for tat will kill the romance.

andromida:

This tit for tat will kill the romance.

I honestly don't think it's "tit for tat" - it's more about being able to reciprocate a gesture.

Failure to do that would make the chic look self-centered, and everything being about her.

Personally, I don't care about compliments because I don't dwell on frivolities. However, a lot guys do, and guys have emotions just as chics do.

The ever growing list... Una no dey tire? Can't you ladies make things easy for us Is it too difficult to be simple?

SirShymex:

I honestly don't think it's "tit for tat" - it's more about being able to reciprocate a gesture.

Failure to do that would make the chic look self-centered, and everything being about her.

Personally, I don't care about compliments because I don't dwell on frivolities. However, a lot guys do, and guys have emotions just as chics do.

So he says nice dress does she have to say nice shoes or something.

Is a thank you for "whatever" at the end of the date not good enough for the guy?

Tymax: The ever growing list... Una no dey tire? Can't you ladies make things easy for us Is it too difficult to be simple?

What is soo hard about this list?

andromida:
So he says nice dress does she have to say nice shoes or something.

Is a thank you for "whatever" at the end of the date not good enough for the guy?

Nah, if she likes being complimented a lot, she should also be able to return the favour in the same proportion.

Are you a science student? If you're, have you ever heard about Charle's Law and how volume is directly proportional to the absolute temperature?

How did you no

andromida:

What is soo hard about this list?

Baby, this is not the only list.

SirShymex:

Nah, if she likes being complimented a lot, she should also be able to return the favour in the same proportion.

Are you a science student? If you're, have you ever heard about Charle's Law and how volume is directly proportional to the absolute temperature?

Oh dear, is your logic getting in the way of romance?

A man should win a woman over not keep scores of how much he has done. The compliments are to open her up so she will be more receptive to him and the whole date will be flowy and easy naturally the compliments should be sincere and if he cannot find anything to compliment he should shoosh.

If the compliments are genuine and heartfelt she will be returning the favour in no time. - Romance 101

**Yawns** una no dey tire with this list of a thing?

Tymax:
Baby, this is not the only list.

The more the better now you get to learn women. Variety of sources to pick from if. This is not working you use another.

I feel this is a good thing.

andromida:
Oh dear, is your logic getting in the way of romance?

A man should win a woman over not keep scores of how much he has done. The compliments are to open her up so she will be more receptive to him and the whole date will be flowy and easy naturally the compliments should be sincere and if he cannot find anything to compliment he should shoosh.

If the compliments are genuine and heartfelt she will be returning the favour in no time. - Romance 101

I honestly don't think the thread is about "how to win a woman's heart." It has more to do with relationship i.e "after the fact" - and how to maintain it. Evidently, both parties are involved here and everything has to be reciprocated, to breath life into the relationship.

Also, you and I know that most chics love taking, without giving anything back in return. That's what pisses a lot of guys off - and why guys sometimes go to where they're appreciated more. Guys have feelings as well.

andromida:

The more the better now you get to learn women. Variety of sources to pick from if. This is not working you use another.

I feel this is a good thing.

Just because of woman? Na wa o.

On point

andromida:

Oh dear, is your logic getting in the way of romance?

A man should win a woman over not keep scores of how much he has done. The compliments are to open her up so she will be more receptive to him and the whole date will be flowy and easy naturally the compliments should be sincere and if he cannot find anything to compliment he should shoosh.

If the compliments are genuine and heartfelt she will be returning the favour in no time. - Romance 101

SirShymex:

I honestly don't think the thread is about "how to win a woman's heart." It has more to do with relationship i.e "after the fact" - and how to maintain it. Evidently, both parties are involved here and everything has to be reciprocated, to breath life into the relationship.

Also, you and I know that most chics love taking, without giving anything back in return. That's what pisses a lot of guys off - and why guys sometimes go to where they're appreciated more. Guys have feelings as well.

Yeah to maintain a relationship is a two way street.

The problem is many people are in imaginary relationships. Maybe the guy is just a fall back guy to the chic this fall back thing happens to chics as well people lie, pretend and sometimes they are just confused.

Guys like to be appreciated and women like to be loved.

Tymax:
Just because of woman? Na wa o.

Na you want better woman o.

women love to be loved,cared for,made happy,have fun,listened to,talked to,touched,paid attention to..i mean i could go on and on but one thing i have come to know is women are never truly satisfied she will only be with u cos she loves u and is comfortable with your lifestyle.Nobody know pass when it comes to their matter just that will can't actually live without them(plain truth)...do ur best and leave the rest......next topic!!!

andromida:
Yeah to maintain a relationship is a two way street.

The problem is many people are in imaginary relationships. Maybe the guy is just a fall back guy to the chic this fall back thing happens to chics as well people lie, pretend and sometimes they are just confused.

Guys like to be appreciated and women like to be loved.

Lmao...bad boys like to be loved and they need love.

Have you ever dated a bad boy(not a fake thug)?

SirShymex:

Lmao...bad boys like to be loved and they need love.

Have you ever dated a bad boy(not a fake thug)?

I'd feel like he is competing with me

What do bad boys look like.

andromida:
I'd feel like he is competing with me

What do bad boys look like.

Why so? These are folks that more time have experience what true love is. The ones who feel the world is against them with chips on their shoulders, and lead their lives based on "me against the world." Don't you think loving them will actually make them feel better - and help them open up to you better?

Bad boys don't look sweet, they're the ones who don't trust easily, somewhat rigid, and the ones who have seen the good, bad, and ugly about life. Those people have always doubted and always feel the need to prove every wrong. They're supremely confident but could come off as arrogant. They just don't give a fvck, with a carefree attitude.

andromida:
I'd feel like he is competing with me

What do bad boys look like.

Why so? These are folks that more time have experience what true love is. The ones who feel the world is against them with chips on their shoulders, and lead their lives based on "me against the world." Don't you think loving them will actually make them feel better - and help them open up to you better?

Bad boys don't look sweet. They're the ones who don't trust easily, somewhat rigid, and the ones who have seen the good, bad, and ugly about life. Those people most folks have always doubted and always feel the need to prove everyone wrong. They're supremely confident but could come off as arrogant. They just don't give a fvck, with a carefree attitude.

Articulate sir shymex...

Lanre90: Another thread abt what a woman wants.
Some of U r wanting creatures
I long to see a thread by a woman abt what women provide

Wow! Upper cut..

SirShymex:

Why so? These are folks that more time have experience what true love is. The ones who feel the world is against them with chips on their shoulders, and lead their lives based on "me against the world." Don't you think loving them will actually make them feel better - and help them open up to you better?

Bad boys don't look sweet. They're the ones who don't trust easily, somewhat rigid, and the ones who have seen the good, bad, and ugly about life. Those people most folks have always doubted and always feel the need to prove everyone wrong. They're supremely confident but could come off as arrogant. They just don't give a fvck, with a carefree attitude.

Appealing to a woman's kind sentiment. this should work with nice chics .

Bad boys looks like a handful.

andromida:
Appealing to a woman's kind sentiment. this should work with nice chics .

Bad boys looks like a handful.

Alluding to nice chics in your first sentence sounds cliche. As long as you have got love to give, with a good heart everyone has, and you're getting the love back in return. What's difficult in letting the two play the game of love in equal and opposite direction?

Yes, they might be handful on the outside - however, they come with the best the male specie has to offer. Once you can scratch the surface, which is more like a defense mechanism to hide their weakness - you'll always pray to be with one. They're more time better looking and sexier than your average Joe, in a rugged way. And all you need is to show them the unconditional love that has been elusive to them, and they'll ride with/for you till the end - supremely loyal people.

SirShymex:

Alluding to nice chics in your first sentence sounds cliche. As long as you have got love to give, with a good heart everyone has, and you're getting the love back in return. What's difficult in letting the two play the game of love in equal and opposite direction?

Yes, they might be handful on the outside - however, they come with the best the male specie has to offer. Once you can scratch the surface, which is more like a defense mechanism to hide their weakness - you'll always pray to be with one. They're more time better looking and sexier than your average Joe, in a rugged way. And all you need is to show them the unconditional love that has been elusive to them, and they'll ride with/for you till the end - supremely loyal people.

Bad boy has some yummy great qualities. He doesn't sound bad at all

This bad boy picture looks very attractive.

andromida:
Bad boy has some yummy great qualities. He doesn't sound bad at all

This bad boy picture looks very attractive.

Well, if you have got unconditional love to give...you should get one with ease.

Love is the answer and spread love the Brooklyn way.