I came back from work and picked up her phone to call a friend. The phone beep in the process and i decided to read the sms immediately. i checked the sms outbox, checked the message log and I saw her bank details sent to a strange number.

I dialed the number immediately on her phone and dropped the call just as the person picked it. He called back and I gave her the phone to answer her call which she did. I asked who the caller was and she did not lie about him.... why did you send him your bank account details? I asked in a subtle manners and she went on her kneel begging for forgiveness.

I'M CONFUSED WHAT SHOULD I DO.. OUR MARRIAGE IS LESS THAN A YEAR OLD. WISE AND TIMELY COUNSELS WILL BE APPRECIATED.

Bro, you ask her why she sent her account details to her ex and the next thing she goes down on her knees begging, better ask her again and this time around she MUST give you an answer unless of course she is not your wife as you claimed. She definitely is hiding a lotta things from you.

Na wetin u find go d fone oga.u wan kall msg enta u no ignore mk kall u confidently open fone.wre is d privacy....bk to d issue, maybe he owe her mony wen dey wrrev dating and justdevided to pay bk now.abi?

Marriage na SCAM in dis part of d world.

shindarayo: Na wetin u find go d fone oga.u wan kall msg enta u no ignore mk kall u confidently open fone.wre is d privacy....bk to d issue, maybe he owe her mony wen dey wrrev dating and justdevided to pay bk now.abi?

So.. u dey support d wife abii..
Eventhough, u knew what happened is still her fault..
Bros.. ask her again..
And dis tyne, make sure she doesn't reply wit apologies

shindarayo: Na wetin u find go d fone oga.u wan kall msg enta u no ignore mk kall u confidently open fone.wre is d privacy....bk to d issue, maybe he owe her mony wen dey wrrev dating and justdevided to pay bk now.abi?

Madam, wch one be "privacy" again? R dey not married already. Na privacy dey lead 2 secrecy. Anytin wey spouse no fit do 4 spouse front she nor suppose do am for him back.
Ur talking abt owing him money, den why d sudden act of guilt(beggin,cryin n saying "d marriage is just a year old"...U musn't always take sides with d female. D guy cud be ur broda

Pdizzle: Bros, no be only you get that wife o

na "community" shield, 23man squad

something fishy has been going on behind ur back

First,what is your present financial status?if things are not ok(financially)with you guys Her ex could be the person she thought might be of help at a time.secondly,unable to explain in detail for a better understanding could also be d reasons for crying.

have once helped out an 'EX' financially without having anything to do with her. Save your marriage.

probably she still dey fuk d guy o

yomi007k:
Madam, wch one be "privacy" again? R dey not married already. Na privacy dey lead 2 secrecy. Anytin wey spouse no fit do 4 spouse front she nor suppose do am for him back.
Ur talking abt owing him money, den why d sudden act of guilt(beggin,cryin n saying "d marriage is just a year old"...U musn't always take sides with d female. D guy cud be ur broda

y are guys so selfish and tink dey own d world.am sure if reverse were ti b d case d first ques u guys wld ask is dt y wld she intrude his privacy.no justification for wat she did ooo.me just raising and observation

shindarayo: y are guys so selfish and tink dey own d world.am sure if reverse were ti b d case d first ques u guys wld ask is dt y wld she intrude his privacy.no justification for wat she did ooo.me just raising and observation

I don't think guys own d world, honestly I wish I was a woman cos "its a woman's world". That said if d guy had done so n also went on his knees to beg d wife, it wud be obvious he had skeletons in his cupboard n I would advise d woman 2 WATCH HER BACK.
Its not rocket science now, haba.

@OP, please I'm saying this with all sentiments removed.
The thing is she knows you have a right to be angry no matter what her reasons are, hence her reaction but trust me, she knows she Bleep.ed up.
She isnt cheating, that you should know but all the same you need to ask her to explain and leave a stern warning afterwards.
Like i said i'm not being bias because I'm female. Dont listen to these guys saying bad stuff.

Dude is owing her some money. Or you wan help the guy pay?