Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,166 members, 7,957,340 topics. Date: Tuesday, 24 September 2024 at 11:20 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Helping Me With My phobia :-\ (5005 Views)
I Have Phobia For Vagina, What Can I Do? / What's Your "Phobia' In Relationships? / 12 Signs You Have Commitment Phobia And How To Fix it (2) (3) (4)
Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:09pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
hello everyone,ever since i knew about social networking,ever since i registered,i find it difficult to chat .....its not that i hold boring conversations o,cos at first whenever i go online e.g facebook'and meet any of my pals we chat,laugh,can talk for hours,which i always liked,....but later i began staying offline even when i could be there just viewing the names of those online,and if one person sends me message i contemplate for hours before reading it ,my heart beats atimes,and it not like its a death message oo .....i dont open mails too most times,i dont whatsapp,bbm nor nimbuzz.....even when i was using my blackberry,with all the hype of the bbm,the love people had for it,plus the contact list competition my freinds talk about,i had just eight contacts ,and i chatted withh just one person,i didnt even have my freinds on my list,just mum,and sis i had left,cos six names dissappeared without my notice ......and when some of my old freinds from highschool request my phone mumber or pin from the only freind i had left,i always told her to tell them i had no phone that it had been stolen .....we have been apart for six months now,but she still tell them i had no phone or she had to ask me ,she understood my fears ,.......even at a time i hated my phone ringimg but that has stopped now.....but my chatting with people palava hasnt stopped.....i only browse with my phone cos am inquisitive,and loves reading....part of the reasons i love NL Note:am a shy person naturally,but i can talk alot when i become familiar with people around and is there anyone like this too,and if you arent what do you think i can do ? 3 Likes |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Mskrisx(f): 8:15pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Booty baby it happens sometimes bt u nid to stop and get over wateva phobia or anytin dat it is.But one tim am gon say to u is dat surely u wil b fyn 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Caracta(f): 8:17pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Allergy? Hian! 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:21pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Caracta: Allergy?dont u have anything to contribute apart from picking out my mistake ... 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Abduletudaye(m): 8:21pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: hello everyone,ever since i knew about social networking,ever since i registered,i find it difficult to chat .....its not that i hold boring conversations o,cos at first whenever i go online e.g facebook'and meet any of my pals we chat,laugh,can talk for hours,which i always liked,....but later i began staying offline even when i could be there just viewing the names of those online,and if one person sends me message i contemplate for hours before reading it ,my heart beats atimes,and it not like its a death message oo .....i dont open mails too most times,i dont whatsapp,bbm nor nimbuzz.....even when i was using my blackberry,with all the hype of the bbm,the love people had for it,plus the contact list competition my freinds talk about,i had just eight contacts ,and i chatted withh just one person,i didnt even have my freinds on my list,just mum,and sis i had left,cos six names dissappeared without my notice ......and when some of my old freinds from highschool request my phone mumber or pin from the only freind i had left,i always told her to tell them i had no phone that it had been stolen .....we have been apart for six months now,but she still tell them i had no phone or she had to ask me ,she understood my fears ,.......even at a time i hated my phone ringimg but that has stopped now.....but my chatting with people palava hasnt stopped.....i only browse with my phone cos am inquisitive,and loves reading....part of the reasons i love NL Sisi me, as you rightfully said. Its some kind of phobia. But I dnt get it. What are you afraid of? U can reply people and if they talk trash, you bone their side. Life is simple and you can enjoy it a lot in a lot of ways. Chatting is not just for people who are loquacious. Its also a way of socializing. For instance, am following u on NL and I got ya update and decided to reply. You see, its no biggie. It really takes nothing from if you chat with people now and then. Am quite sure you would snap out of it coz I know its no medical issue. |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:23pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Mskrisx: Booty baby it happens sometimes bt u nid to stop and get over wateva phobia or anytin dat it is.But one tim am gon say to u is dat surely u wil b fynokay ....thank you |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:24pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Abduletudaye:yes thank u....i try to do that atimes,and its works,i become happy that very moment but after few days ,i start dodging again 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Nobody: 8:24pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Ex-commando. Remember me? I'm back for you again in another body. Well in response to your problem, you just need to come out of shell and be expressive. Flaunt your flair, be yourself and have that mind set that whatever action you take, you did it purposely for your own good and not the good of others. Above all, never have that fear of regret. |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Caracta(f): 8:29pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: dont u have anything to contribute apart from picking out my mistake ... Mistake? Didn't even realize that. But now that you mention it, let me read again. I was afraid when I saw the title. Allergy is a bit strange to Africans. But now I understand the "allergy". Well...not everyone is cut out for social media. It shouldn't bother you. I'm lazy when it comes to that too. The only thing you should address ASAP is the fear connected with it. 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:32pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Caracta:yeah thought u meant it was wrong okay i will try,cos that fear is what bothers me most,i could go a week staring at my notification panel without doing nothing,but clear it after sometime |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:34pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Afghanistan: Ex-commando. Remember me? I'm back for you again in another body. Well in response to your problem, you just need to come out of shell and be expressive. Flaunt your flair, be yourself and have that mind set that whatever action you take, you did it purposely for your own good and not the good of others. Above all, never have that fear of regret.new delhi u followed me down here abi yes thank you...i will try that...*hits chest* all iz well,kill the fear |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Nobody: 8:40pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: new delhi u followed me down here abiLol how did u know? U know sey na u Bleep up na. We no suppose dey fight. And don't think I've stopped tracking your IP address o |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Abduletudaye(m): 8:41pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: yes thank u....i try to do that atimes,and its works,i become happy that very moment but after few days ,i start dodging again Why? No one wants your head. Its ok to be shy but not this shy Its alright when you say hi and hello there and then. You are causing no harm what so ever. Or maybe you feel sad most times or maybe you have been disappointed by certain people before but hey look on the bright side, not everyone is untrustworthy. Try to look at things using other positive angles and am sure you would be right as rain |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:49pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Abduletudaye:i dont know why tooo.......i will start trying,and praying i change...thank you 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Baddo101(m): 8:50pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: hello everyone,ever since i knew about social networking,ever since i registered,i find it difficult to chat .....its not that i hold boring conversations o,cos at first whenever i go online e.g facebook'and meet any of my pals we chat,laugh,can talk for hours,which i always liked,....but later i began staying offline even when i could be there just viewing the names of those online,and if one person sends me message i contemplate for hours before reading it ,my heart beats atimes,and it not like its a death message oo .....i dont open mails too most times,i dont whatsapp,bbm nor nimbuzz.....even when i was using my blackberry,with all the hype of the bbm,the love people had for it,plus the contact list competition my freinds talk about,i had just eight contacts ,and i chatted withh just one person,i didnt even have my freinds on my list,just mum,and sis i had left,cos six names dissappeared without my notice ......and when some of my old freinds from highschool request my phone mumber or pin from the only freind i had left,i always told her to tell them i had no phone that it had been stolen .....we have been apart for six months now,but she still tell them i had no phone or she had to ask me ,she understood my fears ,.......even at a time i hated my phone ringimg but that has stopped now.....but my chatting with people palava hasnt stopped.....i only browse with my phone cos am inquisitive,and loves reading....part of the reasons i love NLI guess ur problem is as a result of upbringing. but really u have to shake urself off ur phobia. I was @ a time like that but up to d level of yours.How will u relate wth employers, and Ppl? mayb u need psychological and spiritual counselling..... |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:52pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Afghanistan:why wont i know you ,even if u change to mumbai....kip tracking me....am behind you |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: why wont i know you ,even if u change to mumbai....kip tracking me....am behind youLol...I don't mind if we get in touch o. Mail me ur phone number. 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Abduletudaye(m): 10:07pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: i dont know why tooo.......i will start trying,and praying i change...thank you Its a gradual process tho' but the more you persist, the better. You welcome.. |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by hollajay(m): 6:25am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Wow....bootybuttchic just described Me |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:26am On Aug 26, 2014 |
hollajay: Wow....bootybuttchic just described Mehaaa so ur in dis shoe too ....do u like it 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 8:27am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Afghanistan:can i see wat i complained about |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Nobody: 8:40am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: can i see wat i complained aboutDon't get that..... |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Mutaino7(m): 11:00am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: i dont know why tooo.......i will start trying,and praying i change...thank youmy own is not as serious as urs my only bane is d inability to string 2 words up with unfamiliar faces..friends try to remedy diz by fixing blind dates or giving gals number to call pffft! I only end up flashing or sending call me which infuriates my friends. Most tyms on nl i just operate in ghost modes.. Its quite relieving to know am aint d only one experiencing d issue alone. |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Justeenaleo(f): 11:50am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Sweetie You gon be fine |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by hollajay(m): 7:14pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: haaa so ur in dis shoe too ....do u like it. I love it |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by MrCork: 7:23pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
..i think her phobia are this homebased nairalanders...its very difficult to understand ther grammmar despite usin spell check, google check or dictionary..even me sef cant uderstand them (no offense) ..anyways..BootybuttChic is one of ma favourite people,s though. ..love her! 2 Likes |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by OohMpa: 7:45pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
Sweery, ooh Mpa understands your internet wahala... You prefer guys coming to your house stark nakëd, right? Well, expect a few inches knocking on your door by 11:59pm with roses on one hand and rubber on the other... #Sai |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 7:46pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
MrCork: ..i think her phobia are this homebased nairalanders...its very difficult to understand ther grammmar despite usin spell check, google check or dictionary..even me sef cant uderstand them (no offense)......corky u didnt have to yab me,you knw we both live in pecham.....big head ..,.love u smalls |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 7:46pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
OohMpa: Sweery, ooh Mpa understands your internet wahala...dont worry i will help you find ur meds |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 7:49pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
Justeenaleo: Sweetie*covers face* .......yeah thank uuu....am hoping soo 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by OohMpa: 7:52pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: dont worry i will help you find ur meds Sweery, please this time leave your back door open. Ooh Mpa no want another nyash bite from your bingo 1 Like |
Re: Helping Me With My phobia :-\ by Bootybuttchic(f): 7:52pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
hollajay: . I love ithaaa...dis brother go on soun......but i find it weird tho |
Non-Igbo Guys: Do You Avoid Marrying Igbo Girls? / Woo Me, The Wooer With The Finest Integration Of Words Will Be Ma B.f. / Dark Secrets Girls Dont Want Guys To Know
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 54 |