People underestimate the
importance of courtship. But
the beginning stages of a
relationship are the most
important. In the beginning,
things should be fun, easy
and carefree. You should
enjoy just being in each
other’s company. As things
progress from a matter of
weeks to a courtship lasting
months, one should begin to
take actions.
DON'T SET UNREALISTIC EXPECTATION
If you don’t plan on cooking
every night, don’t do it
during courtship. If you can’t
afford to wine and dine a girl
or take her on a carriage
ride every night, don’t put
up a front like you can. Once
you set certain standards,
people expect you to live up
to it.
HONEST REALLY IS THE BEST POLICY
Courtships are meant to be
public. You should know each
other’s friends. If you have
not been introduced to your
so-called partner’s friends
or family, which is a problem.
If you have not been granted
an introduction, it is probably
because the relationship is
not as serious as you had
hoped or because the other
person may have some
unfinished business with a
prior relationship.
DEMAND RESPECT

If your man has a habit of
checking out other women
when he’s with you and you
laughed it off, he thinks you
don’t have any issue with it.
Or if she parties hard and
you don’t address it, she will
believe you totally
understand her ways.
Whatever selfish behaviour
your partner might posses
during courtship will spill
over into your future if you
don’t make your
expectations clear. If
someone doesn’t respect
you, they don’t love you.
BECOME A TEACHER

Sounds crazy but only you
can teach someone how to
treat you.

Relationship or courtship only go through simple when we avoid all these set down rules.