Hey guys, i want to know if you can forgive your partner even if you know that he/she is cheating on you. Because some people find it very difficult to forgive.

it depends if he shows remorse and promises not to cheat on me again i will take him back that is if i still luv him

Once a cheater always a cheater. i forgave my EX at least 3 times and everytime he did it again.

too bad

eee go hard, u have to really look into the matter and see what went wrong, if it happens again then its over,

NO i wont

I'll just tell you about the irony of life.  Women in most cases forgive all the time but men don't even like to forgive even if they have been found guilty of the same offense committed against the same forgiving lady.

I'm not an exception. You cheat on me you are history once I'm aware of it.

I guess it's MEN'S WORLD & it's kind of selfish! But what can we do? It's  reality.com!

@eveseh.      If you ever get to love for real like any other woman you'll forgive 1 million times. Like you will always forgive you husband when you are married.  But if you try the same thing once you are history. REALITY!

To men all, we all know that its men's world. But same God that created the world said we

should forgive one another even 70*, what? that means you should be forgiven all the

times. So, are you people telling us that God doesn't know what he was doing or what?

I will forgive but i will dramatize enough for him to know and realize what he's done and that I'm hurt.

eveseh:

NO i wont

@Eve, do you have anything against the word FORGIVE? you'r a woman and u must learn how to forgive ok.

if she feels remorse and confess b4 i find out,i'll forgive her.

How to stop your husband/wife cheating on you.

How to stop your wife having an affair

1 Arrange surprises for her.

2 Treat her as a mistress rather than as a mother or a wife.

3 Be romantic, take her out on dates, let her feel that she's a woman and desirable.

4 Buy her a negligée rather than a vacuum cleaner as a birthday or Christmas present.

5 Constantly show her that you find her attractive, interesting, exciting and romantic.

6 Don't go to bed with your T-shirt tucked into your Y-fronts.

7 Don't turn on the television as soon as you come home.

8 Listen to her.

9 Take her seriously.

10 Respect what she does in the home and in her job.

How to stop your husband having an affair

1 Be sexual and adventurous, even if you are tired.

2 Let him feel that he's sexually exciting, and more than just an equity lawyer or headmaster.

3 Let him know that you fancy him.

4 Let him know you feel you're lucky to have him.

5 Keep polishing his ego.

6 Don't go to bed with a layer of moisturiser on your face.

7 Don't dye your hair or shave your legs in front of him.

8 Don't lose your own self-respect.

9 Be interested in his life, but don't live only through him.

10 Don't talk about the children in bed.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/portal/main.jhtml;jsessionid=HFF3GEAM1RKMJQFIQMFSFF4AVCBQ0IV0?xml=/portal/2008/01/23/ftinfidelity123.xml

@I-man
Thanks for your write up,but u are missing something

It has been said and it is still being maintained in some quaters that "variety is the spice of life"
If you like give a woman/Man Good sex  heaven and earth,give her anything,give her your ears infact kpa kpa your eyes or your nose
But when He/she has no sexual drive for you
Pele o

Means she doesn't love me, better I let her go and look for someone that can love me with all her HEART!
Or you convert her heartily to a FIPA without thinking twice! Abi?

no!

Nope, I cannot tolerate to date someone who is CLASSIC CHEATER all the time, WHY SHOULD I FORGIVE HIM like the bible says 7 times, then 77 times, then 777 times, forever!!!

Nonsense!!!! I cannot tolerate my heartbroken more than 777 times continuning FORGIVENESS forever while my man is still CHEATER all the time, oh please!!!!

michelin89:

no!

I concur _{except mine is Capital NO}

hollandis:

I concur _{except mine is Capital NO}

Also mine, but Seun changed it.

lol _really!

capital letters are not allowed anymore here!

ROFLMAO,
Michelin you are one hell of a character, let me give it a try then .

no and NO

Sure!  It depends on how much I care.  If I care more than 50% --then I would work things out.  If I care less than 50% for the dude--I walk!  I forgive very easily, but I never, ever forget!  But I have my limits. 

In anycase, no more unprotected sex with the "it".  Before he infects his enemy with all kinds of stuff.  That is my greatest concern. I do not play with that one at all!

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You automatically lose that fringe benefit! I don't want "gingivitis"!

Yeah almond, it depends on the gravity of my love for him, Guys can never be the same, Just wonder why a guy would commit dat kind of offence & i'll walk him out of my life & some other will be forgiven. Hmmn who said life was fair?

And to u dudes saying Its a man's world, U won't take it if done to u. Well, i know of some guys like u, who knew what their chics did, she pleaded & got back together. so what does that mean? Isn't it that their world would crash without that particular girl?

Point: It depends on how in love the partner is. Kapish!

Yes jkpretty! It is not always easy to "walk" and it depends on how we feel for the dudes all of the time--no exceptions.  Ladies can rake up an down here. But we have to be realistic.

Every snake handler has a way to handle different kinds of snakes.

If you are careless enough to allow the snake bite you---game over!

The goal is to never allow the "snake" to bite you!

If i'll eva 4 give it will be just once. and i'll never 4get

I've done it before Because of love acourse. To tell it like it is I was naive and weak behind the guy.Only if I had the wisdom I have know.

hammers:

If i'll eva 4 give it will be just once. and i'll never forget

I agree

as long as we ain't married. . . u're gone!

if we're married "I might" reconsider. I really, really, really, really, really cannot stand cheats!!