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i just couldnt help smile at ur comment...

PITY FOR THE ONE WHO WROTE THIS. BECAREFULL THOSE THAT READ. DONT BE PART OF ANOTHER MAN SIN AND THE PUNISHMENT.

baby124:
How does the church member's dressing affect you in church. Until Nigerian's learn to mind their business and stop being sexually frustrated and repressed. Then will you have self control and focus on your life. Travel abroad and see what women are wearing. If you touch them all with the excuse that they tempted you, then you will begin to understand what self control is. In fact you will force yourself to learn it. It is not what is on the outside that matters but what is on the inside. For example, pastor Chris who dresses to a T is a big cheat. Those girls wearing revealing clothes probably have more favor in God's sight. God is not fooled by false pretenses and outside appearances for he sees our hearts. So learn to control yourself. When you see a woman dressed revealing, don't convince yourself that she is trying to tempt you. You may just get more than what you bargained for. Face the message in church and not the breast in front of you.lmao

What happens to "Let your moderation be known to all men, behold the Lord is at hand" (Phil 4:5).

In the event that this news making the rounds is true, I pray GOD steps in to restore this family to the shame of the enemies, as the faith and destinies of many are tied to this family.

The way ladies dress in the Church is enough to believe the allegations against Pastor Chris. Choi.

It is true that women love Christ; they care for him and his ministry. Evidence can be drawn from the crucifixion. We all read about the impact of Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of Jesus; but can we compare these women of honour & modesty with the 21st century spaghetti and skelewu girls?

If Jesus could come down to worship in Christ Embassy, he would surely curse the pastors and all the worshipers.This is applicable to all other Churches, especially those in the Cities.

Youngzedd:


Are you saying the scripture should be ignored?

Of course not. Scripture should be adhered to and here is what scripture says:

Matthew 5:32

But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

God hates divorce but permits it on grounds of sexual immorality/infidelity. so Anita has a right to end that sham of a marriage she had before hers soon-to-be ex husband brings home HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.

kandiikane:

You were making sense until you started rambling off with this.

LoL, no vex I was just trying to be a chauvinist...

sirjohnson: His members are already demanding answers from him as regards the divorce case. See it [url=36e20a1nhfr]HERE[/url]

I used to have this strange feelings when I was still attending his church that he was sleeping with pastor Deola Okeowo and Sinach; I tried not to think of it but it kept coming, perhaps I was right.#justsaying

No matter what do not jugde d anointed of the Lord. Wait before u start talking bile I m not a loveworld ministry member. But I be learnt a great deal from this minister of the gospel. Let us all pray for divine wisdom for him to resolve this marrital crisis. If it is true. Even CATRYN KHULMAN a woman filled with d holy ghost had this challenge in relationship.Bennie Hinn nkoo. Na God go helep mans shortcomings

dasparrow:

Of course not. Scripture should be adhered to and here is what scripture says:

Matthew 5:32

But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

God hates divorce but permits it on grounds of sexual immorality/infidelity. so Anita has a right to end that sham of a marriage she had before hers soon-to-be ex husband brings home HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.

Oga.....

I surrender.


Thanks for that verse.


But on a second thought, how sure are we that the wife is telling the truth. Because if she win this case properties worth millions of dollars will be under her care together with the children.


I don't trust white women at all.

pinetulips:

No matter what do not jugde d anointed of the Lord. Wait before u start talking bile I m not a loveworld ministry member. But I be learnt a great deal from this minister of the gospel. Let us all pray for divine wisdom for him to resolve this marrital crisis. If it is true. Even CATRYN KHULMAN a woman filled with d holy ghost had this challenge in relationship.Bennie Hinn nkoo. Na God go helep mans shortcomings

Pleassssssssssssssse

Philipmems: I am not a member of his denomination but having heard from both parties I will live you to be the judge considering what women and men are capable of doing.. Pastor Chris O. accused his wife of having bad friends who are influencing her wrongly, she no longer respects anyone especially in the church. He even said that at one time he called the wife so they can settle there differences but she refused to take anything short of a Divorce from the pastor.
Anita is accusing Chris of adultery and infidelity.
At the end of the day my take is that Satan master confusionist has crept into their home either through the man or the woman but wait oh even if its adultery as speculated what happened to our women of steel (1 peter 3:1-3), for better for worse, our mothers stuck to our fathers through thick and thin, never to be distracted by side chicks... Frankly speaking the easiest way for confusion to enter a home na through woman... After all according to the book of Timothy it says a woman was deceive first before Adams.
Read 1 peter 3:1-6 and 1 Corinthians 7:1- 12 especially 10 and 11 and understand that the woman has more role to play in keeping her home together and if it fails shes mainly to be blamed.

Our mothers and grandmothers were mostly miserable in their marriages. Many of them could not leave because they could not afford to raise all the battalion of kids they brought into the world all by themselves. This is fast changing now because more women are flying high in their careers and can afford to take care of their children all by themselves if the need arises. So, women do not have to put up with cheating husbands anymore if they don't want to.

Any man who cannot stay in a monogamous relationship should have no business getting married. I don't know why the sexual urge of the average Nigerian/African bred man is like that of a horse on Viagra. This is why HIV/AIDS almost finished Africans back then because African men sleep around like dogs on heat. With Ebola around, this is not the time to sleep around. It is time African bred men begin to have some self control where sex is concerned. There is more to life than sex. Men from other racial groups are advancing their societies while the African male is only good at fvcking. Then we wonder why our continent Africa is the way it is.

I can imagine the number of chicks in his church arranging themselves and printing campaign fliers to be the next Mrs. Oyakhilome.

Pque: What about d children. I'am only concern abt d children

They will go with the mother.

Haven't you heard how case like this end.

Chris need prayers from his members.

pinetulips:

No matter what do not jugde d anointed of the Lord. Wait before u start talking bile I m not a loveworld ministry member. But I be learnt a great deal from this minister of the gospel. Let us all pray for divine wisdom for him to resolve this marrital crisis. If it is true. Even CATRYN KHULMAN a woman filled with d holy ghost had this challenge in relationship.Bennie Hinn nkoo. Na God go helep mans shortcomings

Benny him is a fraudster, do you know what he make in the name of charity, do you know that he work together with a dictator in Africa to make money, did you know that he told his followers that they wshould give money for charity and all what he has done was to enrich himself in africa.

Cathrin Khulman was also a fake pastor, and she never heal any person, all what she want is a good life.

Why should we pray for this businessman.

I just was at his Facebook side and no photo of his wife but a photo from a femal pastor in his church!

Wow what a coincidence this came on fp ,today when I was invited to christ embassy by one fine chick I wooed in a bus transport on tuesday.
We had a deal if I worshpd with her today, she would atend a bday party with me today.

Omg I was disgustd to ma marrows when;
...the pastors artificial phoneing like he livd in the usa all his life.
...artificial girls everywhere, every girl wants to dress like a banker in high heels
...the highly technological atmosphere., some boys had headphones and hats on in church.I never spotd the pastor with a bible instead he read from a flatscrn tv, one time he literally said,”open to your dvice or your bible psalm...
...the ratio of boys was 5boys:1girl lol clearly shows guys mision
...it felt like a youth seminar than a church srvice.


Well long story short...I didn't call the chick up again. My mind tells me she's one of their recruits but maybe I'l ring ha in the morning cos shawtyz fine hehe

Anytime I read about this divorce imbroglio I see different things from what you all seeing. I see no reason to blame the pastor or the church but questions popped on my heart that kept me challenged the questions just keep coming. I don't know why. The questions are this......
Do you know the origin of their marriage?
Do you know how they met
Do you know what attract them to each other God or emotions or beauty
Do they start the ministry before they married?
All my answers are NO but I still felt challenged and a word continue to drop in my heart that the main reason why you need to wait on God on marriage is because He is the only one that knows tomorrow if you allow Satan to plant someone in your marriage, it would look rosy at the beginning and you would think God is working but at the peak of your success the devil would come to scuttle God's plan may that not be our portion

dasparrow:

Our mothers and grandmothers were mostly miserable in their marriages. Many of them could not leave because they could not afford to raise all the battalion of kids they brought into the world all by themselves. This is fast changing now because more women are flying high in their careers and can afford to take care of their children all by themselves if the need arises. So, women do not have to put up with cheating husbands anymore if they don't want to.

Any man who cannot stay in a monogamous relationship should have no business getting married. I don't know why the sexual urge of the average Nigerian/African bred man is like that of a horse on Viagra. This is why HIV/AIDS almost finished Africans back then because African men sleep around like dogs on heat. With Ebola around, this is not the time to sleep around. It is time African bred men begin to have some self control where sex is concerned. There is more to life than sex. Men from other racial groups are advancing their societies while the African male is only good at fvcking. Then we wonder why our continent Africa is the way it is.

That's rather harsh now.... Our mothers were never miserable from my opinion and I respect yours... I see them as strong willed highly visionary crusaders who never allow the distractors take their joy and family away from them... They were never Fools, they knew of the exploits but choose to keep their family which is more important intact. We had mothers who were big time traders, going to the north to trade back and fro ( those were career women too at their time) and they could take care of their kids without the husbands assistance but they were never shaken by things of the world. Categorizing men generally as horses on steroids or viagra is very funny ( lmao) but no forget say you go marry oh (that's if you are a girl). Life is wisdom and only those who understand its dynamics will eat of its fruits. Even Caucasian males also cheat, women these days cheat so you can't really stereotype cheating to males especially African males.

Matthew 18:8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire.

MATTHEW 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery

Fornication
sexual intercourse, especially on the part of an unmarried person.
(legal) The act of such illicit sexual intercourse between a man and a woman which does not by law amount to adultery.

LIMUEL: It's a trying time for this family
We need to stand by them in prayers
We are not qualified to judge

trying time for his family ?? You think that arrogant man gives a damn ??

Did you think this whole thing was ever about God !

What about the trying times for those he has deceived and exploited for these many years ?


SMH.

Philipmems:
Anita is accusing Chris of adultery and infidelity.
At the end of the day my take is that Satan master confusionist has crept into their home either through the man or the woman but wait oh even if its adultery as speculated what happened to our women of steel (1 peter 3:1-3), for better for worse, our mothers stuck to our fathers through thick and thin, never to be distracted by side chicks... Frankly speaking the easiest way for confusion to enter a home na through woman... After all according to the book of Timothy it says a woman was deceive first before Adams.
Read 1 peter 3:1-6 and 1 Corinthians 7:1- 12 especially 10 and 11 and understand that the woman has more role to play in keeping her home together and if it fails shes mainly to be blamed.

Erm... Based on my understanding of how oyibo women act, from the Hollywood movies and E! news I've seen, oyibo women don't joke with anything that has to do with sharing their hubby's property (be it time, resources, finance, assets and most importantly, the BANANA!) with any other woman O. Don't you see those parts in the movie where the guy (after he's been caught pants down) comes home remorseful, begging the housewife for forgiveness?

And in spite of all his remonstrations and pleas, all she just be asking is "did you f..k her?" as if he went there to preach the Good News. Then the next thing you'll hear from her is "IT'S OVER!" (believe me, they always say that), then she'll pack her stuff and leave the house and go find a hungry lawyer to sue your ass for all you've got, including your future earnings, pension and gratuity (yup. They are that mean). Sorry for you if you've had any kids for her, even if she's just 30 mins pregnant. It's you who'll do the packing.

So my brother, Oyibo women don't joke when it comes to that marital infidelity thing. If you like, quote all the verses from Genesis to Revelation, Hell hath no fury as an Oyibo woman denied kpekus. Or whatever Shakespeare said.

My

nora544:

are you married?

did you know how hard it is for a wife when she know that her husband has every week a new girlfriend.
Why he send her to Uk, that he has a free house in Nigeria, or in south africa where he live now.

Do you know how this is, I feel no, and she make the right.

Areu a graduate?

When men of God now fry their hair and wanting to be like white is the highest level of pastoral indecency.

Ceasar1: The Only reason I will like to believe they are getting a divorce is because one of them was caught cheating with the Finance Box - Take it or Leave It.

exactly. u'v summarized it all.

WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE CELEBRATING PEOPLE'S FALL MORE THAN THEIR SUCCESSES. EVERYBODY SEEMS TO HAVE 4GOTEN ALL HIS PAST GOOD JUST because OF 1 INCIDENCE OF FAILURE NOT YET PROVED. NAWA 4 BLACKMAN OH!

baby124:
How does the church member's dressing affect you in church. Until Nigerian's learn to mind their business and stop being sexually frustrated and repressed. Then will you have self control and focus on your life. Travel abroad and see what women are wearing. If you touch them all with the excuse that they tempted you, then you will begin to understand what self control is. In fact you will force yourself to learn it. It is not what is on the outside that matters but what is on the inside. For example, pastor Chris who dresses to a T is a big cheat. Those girls wearing revealing clothes probably have more favor in God's sight. God is not fooled by false pretenses and outside appearances for he sees our hearts. So learn to control yourself. When you see a woman dressed revealing, don't convince yourself that she is trying to tempt you. You may just get more than what you bargained for. Face the message in church and not the breast in front of you.lmao

RUBBISH!!!

Tinyemeka:

Erm... Based on my understanding of how oyibo women act, from the Hollywood movies and E! news I've seen, oyibo women don't joke with anything that has to do with sharing their hubby's property (be it time, resources, finance, assets and most importantly, the BANANA!) with any other woman O. Don't you see those parts in the movie where the guy (after he's been caught pants down) comes home remorseful, begging the housewife for forgiveness?

And in spite of all his remonstrations and pleas, all she just be asking is "did you f..k her?" as if he went there to preach the Good News. Then the next thing you'll hear from her is "IT'S OVER!" (believe me, they always say that), then she'll pack her stuff and leave the house and go find a hungry lawyer to sue your ass for all you've got, including your future earnings, pension and gratuity (yup. They are that mean). Sorry for you if you've had any kids for her, even if she's just 30 mins pregnant. It's you who'll do the packing.

So my brother, Oyibo women don't joke when it comes to that marital infidelity thing. If you like, quote all the verses from Genesis to Revelation, Hell hath no fury as an Oyibo woman denied kpekus. Or whatever Shakespeare said.

My

Hahahahahahahahaha

scarletdp:
1st timothy 5 vs 8 and no i won't agree with u... Read that passage again...

Thanks for supplying the verse though you refused to agree with me in my proposition!
...but do you remember the bible already describes the woman as the weaker vessel? and if your wife will prefer to leave you ( to begin a fvcking other men ) after about 20years of marriage, then, you should ask yourself some questions rather than blaming the woman.

Tallesty1: To be a Pastor you must be devoted to your wife as it is stated in(Titus 1:6; 1 Tim 3:2). Because your marriage illustrates Christ’s love for His church. His bride (Eph. 5:22 ff.). You must love and respect your wife exclusively with your mind, will and emotions and not just your body. A pastor's family is his first flock.


This is a man that will say "pheww" and half of the congregation will fall flat on their belly or back. Why can't he pray God to restore the love and peace in his family?

This is exactly what that condemned thief at the cross said to Jesus. No spirituality between husband and wife. If it is heading to the rock, it will head.

It happened to Benny Hills too

let
d evil one throw his best shot at d church of Christ but d gate of hell
shall not prevail. These are indeed trying times. Pray 4 d church, pray
4 God's people

The devil's strategy has never changed; strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter........

cckalima: WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE CELEBRATING PEOPLE'S FALL MORE THAN THEIR SUCCESSES. EVERYBODY SEEMS TO HAVE 4GOTEN ALL HIS PAST GOOD JUST because OF 1 INCIDENCE OF FAILURE NOT YET PROVED. NAWA 4 BLACKMAN OH!

Haven't you heard the saying " Caesar's wife must be above suspicion" ? So also, how can a man who claims to have touched the face of angels committ all these sins meant for common 'sinners' like me!

so many people are waiting for the downfaill of this man. They cant wait for this family to disintergrate. But i pray that God put them to shame.