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| An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:17pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Dear Crush, How are you doing? This might seem a bit awkward but keep reading; I think you’ll find this interesting… I’ve had some thought-provoking conversations with my friends lately and they have shed a lot of light on the vibes I give off and how those vibes affect the way guys perceive me. So, I thought I’d write you this letter to explain some of my behavior and let you know how I feel/felt about you. Let’s start with the first day I saw your picture(on NL). I’m big on physical attraction so I definitely thought you were cute/handsome. I don’t get too carried away with that, so I decided to get to know you better (as friends/from a distance). The little I was able to find out through our interactions made me even more attracted to you. You are down to earth, funny, fun to be with, open-minded,womanizer  – you’re good at what you do and THAT is super attractive.Here’s the thing though, I’m not sure if you liked me too but even if you did, I didn’t give you a chance to show me, right? Well, that’s because I’m not very good at giving the “green light”. I’m the kind of girl that will do everything (consciously and unconsciously) to make you think I’m not interested like that when in fact I am! I guess cos in some ways I’m shy and scared of what could come out of it. I most likely friend-zoned you, hardly initiated any interaction- and if I did, I made it look like it was a " just friends” conversation. Yup, I gave you all the signs that I wasn’t interested but man, I WAS!*sigh* I guess part of the reason I do that is because I am a super traditional kind of girl. I believe that if a guy really likes me, whether or not I give him the “green light”, he would/should “chase”. I’ve since been told by my well-meaning male friends that I must change my ways! Lol! They say it’s because guys need some help and they need to be given the “clear”. One friend even gave me actual tips on what to do. Lol! Anyways, I had to write this to get it off my chest and let you know that I did really like you. The interesting thing is I’m over you. Yeah, I got over the crush. For a few reasons: The first reason is because I realized that even though I like a lot of things about you, we are incompatible in some areas and I’m not sure those are things that will change. I also got tired of waiting for you - you weren’t saying anything or expressing interest so I figured the feelings weren’t mutual. Man, we would have looked good together and I think we might have really hit it off but no hard feelings at all. I’m sure we will both find true love by God’s grace. I enjoyed the crush while it lasted though. Lol. At times it was overbearing but hey, that’s how crushes are. Best wishes to ya!  I really do love love!  Ggrin P.S. This is an open letter to some of my crushes. I thought about how I feel/felt about them and combined my thoughts. I actually had to think about each of them when writing this! Hehehe  DEDICATED TO Andyblaze,gooci,frankben,seun,mencade,logicalmindy,Damoskiy,iceberylin,Rikidony  5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Ggrin, is that for moi?  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:22pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Logicalmindy: Ggrin, is that for moi?wake up  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:23pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
lolz...crazy girl |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by chimerase2: 6:25pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Just becos of ibongi  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:26pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: wake up I am much awake.  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:27pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
So you have finally confessed? Don't worry I knew from the beginning.  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:30pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
krall: So you have finally confessed? Don't worry I knew from the beginning.that |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:31pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Logicalmindy: |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:32pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
runnazz: lolz...crazy girl |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:32pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
chimerase2: Just becos of ibongiwhat's ibongi  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:33pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin, I knew this from the very first day we encountered on NL.... I haven't given up tho |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by banjicom(m): 6:33pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
i really dont have anything 2 say, am just booking space incase it makes frontpage. Thanks 1 Like |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:34pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: that[s]you cheat on me with nairaland boys [/s] |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:36pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
frankben: ggrin, I knew this from the very first day we encountered on NL.... I haven't given up tho*covers face* |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:37pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
banjicom: i really dont have anything 2 say, am just booking space incase it makes frontpage. Thanksget da ....................../´¯/) ....................,/¯../ .................../..../ ............./´¯/'...'/´¯¯`·¸ ........../'/.../..../......./¨¯\ ........('(...´...´.... ¯~/'...') .........\.................'...../ ..........''...\.......... _.·´ ............\..............( ..............\.............\..………. Out of ma thread 2 Likes |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 6:38pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
krall: [s]you cheat on me with nairaland boys 1 Like |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:38pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: i meant that in a good way tho... |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:39pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:40pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin:I just read your something now. E no consine me Next time I will read before I post. Meanwhile.................................................. I feel like opening new thread but I don't know what to type. 1 Like |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: *covers face**removes her hand and kisses her passionately* |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by iceberylin(m): 6:49pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Signs of Joblessness how come is this in my Mention list |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by banjicom(m): 7:07pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: get daGo Fvck Yourself Girl ! What u think about your Crushes & Boyfriends Is NONE OF MY BUSINESS......... |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by LogoDWhiz(m): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Lol. Epic. Talk about killing lot of birds with one stone. Tot she was going to mention a nigga's name.. |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 7:14pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
frankben: *removes her hand and kisses her passionately*awwwWwwwww |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 7:14pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
runnazz:  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
iceberylin: Signs of Joblessness |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 7:17pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
LogoDWhiz: Lol. Epic.jus like hiding behind one finger  |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by ggrin(f): 7:18pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
krall: I just read your something now. E no consine menon of ma biz man |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Nobody: 7:20pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: non of ma biz manhow does this concern me?? |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by Bantino(m): 7:37pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: awwwWwwwww Chai this gal, see as the kiss de sweet u |
| Re: An Open Letter To My Crush by LogoDWhiz(m): 8:04pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ggrin: jus like hiding behind one finger Lol. I still believe u meant what u wrote up there. Just scared to mention the guy. I hope the guy decodes the message.. |
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