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Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 4:57am On Sep 21, 2008
why is it that fixing the car or related stuff women dont offer themselves for the services, at that point they will say, "aren't u the man?" undecided undecided
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 4:59am On Sep 21, 2008
gbe nu e so n jor. lojoko sibi kan. hiss
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 5:15am On Sep 21, 2008
u neva go sleep? shocked shocked shocked shocked tomorrow na church oooo

Ruby_Pearl:

gbe nu e so n jor. lojoko sibi kan. hiss
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:24am On Sep 21, 2008
Iwo ati talo'n jo lo si church ni sunday?
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 5:51am On Sep 21, 2008
madam, speak igbo

Ruby_Pearl:

Iwo ati talo'n jo lo si church ni sunday?
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:52am On Sep 21, 2008
Kedu, Ka i mere? grin
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 8:55am On Sep 21, 2008
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Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 7:35pm On Sep 21, 2008
Siena:

Lol @ David and na2day.

Nothing wrong with being domesticated.
When you're single, what happens? Do you just live in a sty, and assume the dirty dishes piled in the sink, dirty clothes in the laundry basket, dirty surroundings will wash / clean themselves?

I've been raised to be independent, it's a habit i've always had.
When I get married, of course household chores will be shared.
But, I can't imagine arriving home first, leaving the place in a mess, and not cooking till my wife arrives home - she's my best friend, soulmate, lover, not my slave.

As far as I'm concerned, household chores are not a particular person's job, all depends on who gets home first, or who happens to be at home at the time.

Worked for my parents, and it'll work for me.

That's nothing new siena. I like to cook so i fancy my wife wont have to do it all alone, doing the dishes is no big deal . . . if i get help i am fine with cleaning the house. My wife isnt going to be a slave either ditto for many guys here.

I think a lot of men will object to being called "domesticated". it has a nasty "animalistic" ring to it.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:21pm On Sep 21, 2008
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Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 2:51am On Sep 22, 2008
which kin second hand igbo bi dat?

Ruby_Pearl:

Kedu, Ka i mere? grin
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:53am On Sep 22, 2008
Siena:

Well David, domesticated it is, unless you prefer the term housetrained! grin

we'll keep it at domesticated. Housetrained sounds even worse. shocked
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:01am On Sep 22, 2008
na2day?:

which kin second hand igbo bi that?

Just say you don't understand Igbo and waka jor.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 3:04am On Sep 22, 2008
how can u tell an igbo of the highest order that he doesn't understand igbo? angry angry angry angry

Ruby_Pearl:

Just say you don't understand Igbo and waka jor.

Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 3:05am On Sep 22, 2008
LOL! I never saw this before.
I want to domesticate my Nigerian men. Please teach me.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 3:07am On Sep 22, 2008
u this taata, u no go go sleep? domesticate nigerian men ko, domesticate nigerian men ni

j-girl:

LOL! I never saw this before.
I want to domesticate my Nigerian men. Please teach me.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 3:09am On Sep 22, 2008
na2day?:

u this taata, u no go go sleep? domesticate nigerian men ko, domesticate nigerian men ni

What does that mean? I will sleep when I get my answer! angry angry angry tongue tongue tongue
How do we domesticate your gender? smiley
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 3:17am On Sep 22, 2008
first u give them a name, say bingo, then u teach them how to catch, fetch, sit where u want them to sit, not pee on the sofa, learn to appreciate when given a bone etc. oya, go sleep ASAP! it way pass ur bed time angry angry angry angry angry

j-girl:

What does that mean? I will sleep when I get my answer! angry angry angry tongue tongue tongue
How do we domesticate your gender? smiley
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:17am On Sep 22, 2008
na2day?:

how can u tell an igbo of the highest order that he doesn't understand igbo? angry angry angry angry

How? Like this: YOU DO NOT KNOW IGBO! angry angry angry angry

Oya, how do I domesticate you?
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 3:21am On Sep 22, 2008
na2day?:

first u give them a name, say bingo, then u teach them how to catch, fetch, sit where u want them to sit, not pee on the sofa, learn to appreciate when given a bone etc. oya, go sleep ASAP! it way pass ur bed time angry angry angry angry angry
LOL!
I never knew that's how you think of yourself and other Nigerian men.
If that is what it takes me to get a guy to help me around the house.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by na2day2(m): 3:26am On Sep 22, 2008
keep laughing until i tell u how in turn we will react to u, u hear!

j-girl:

LOL!
I never knew that's how you think of yourself and other Nigerian men.
If that is what it takes me to get a guy to help me around the house.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 3:34am On Sep 22, 2008
na2day?:

keep laughing until i tell u how in turn we will react to u, u hear!

Tell me now!
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by A40(m): 5:20am On Sep 22, 2008
Na waa ooh wetin i no go see for NL Domesticating Nigerian Men grin Why stop at that? why not castrate us too!! after working hard putting food on the table and paying all the bills you want to domesticate him?Yall should give the Brothas a break grin
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Outstrip(f): 5:30am On Sep 22, 2008
Which bills are y'all paying
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by A40(m): 5:59am On Sep 22, 2008
The Light Bill
Rent
Water
Gas
Tuition
Child Support and Alimony (lol for divorced couples)

But with you girls its never enough tongue
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 6:00am On Sep 22, 2008
A-40:

The Light Bill
Rent
Water
Gas
Tuition
Child Support and Alimony (lol for divorced couples)

But with you girls its never enough tongue
Women too do that. In fact some women do all that and still have time to clean the house. . . they are called single mothers. If women are capable of this, why not men? angry angry angry tongue
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by A40(m): 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2008
@J-girl
Very few women if any at all we men still pay the lion share of the bills and then we get home and we can't get a break?
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Cayon(f): 12:03am On Sep 23, 2008
Most of the time women spoil their men and then turn around blaming/complaining the men. All I know i am not going to live with no man who don't help out in the house. The same way I can cook, clean and wash - the same way my man is going to cook,clean and wash. Its all about Equal rights and justice. wink wink
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by omoge(f): 3:04am On Sep 23, 2008
why pretend you are fixing the car?

i can fix the car, i can wash the car and i can change tire/tyre with little help. i can also do oil change so what next?
my man should be able to run the kitchen. no specific job for anyone.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by coolier(f): 8:17am On Sep 23, 2008
As it was in the beginning, it's now and ever shall be.
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by A40(m): 2:28am On Sep 24, 2008
@Cayon
No problemo so long as we pay equal bills everything will be fine
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:30am On Sep 24, 2008
Poster, how do I domesticate A-40?
Re: Domesticating Nigerian Men by A40(m): 2:45am On Sep 24, 2008
Now thats a million dollar question!! sweetie i am undomesticatable pardon my english

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