EasyNaija.com:
Erm.. Househelps?
Okay, it depends. If they have grown-up kids then the kids should help with chores.... But if they're newly weds and they both work full time, then I think a househelp would fit in perfectly.

Brand_new: I can't do much of kitchen work or cleaning though I'm a great cook and also good at fixing appliances. Would that make me your dream guy @ OP?

greatgod2012: Hhhhhmmmm.....op, are you sure you are ready for this war?

This issue have been tackled severally on this section of d forum and here u are, starting it all over again.

O. K oo oo o, im watching ooo, but remember that no two marriages are d same.....each to his/her own.

birdman: Unfortunately, such men dont read Nairaland. They are too busy spending that spare time they have from not doing chores on clubbing, drinking and watching football. I pray I find myself in the same situation.

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No. Please tell me the reason why you cannot clean.

Brand_new: I'm just not caught out for it. Kinda too menial though I do it once in a blue moon.

I'd rather do more challenging things like the gardens, repairs, paint jobs e.t.c. Is there any problem with that?

Brand_new: Other tasks I mentioned is menial too but I just feel house cleaning is too petty and monotonous hence me no liking it.
Hey! I'm not yet married but will soon be.

JallowBah:

It`s not like all of the women LIKE cleaning either, you know.

I actually hate it. It is boring and I wish I did not have to do it, but I still do it, because it is needed.

ebamma: Dear nigerian women una where wan make we follow do house work dey craze, una sabi how we dey suffer to make money to feed una and buy una blackberries

Tolded them o!!! They understood not.

ebamma: Dear nigerian women una where wan make we follow do house work dey craze, una sabi how we dey suffer to make money to feed una and buy una blackberries,
Some of us are being insulted by our bosses everyday, but we have no choice cos we need the salary to feed una and buy una brazilian hair,
Wetin be una work sef, una dey spend una day gossipping and lazying about,some of una sef no sabi cook better food where we fit chop enjoy sef, na so so salt the full una soup,
If una want make we dey do the house chores then una must start working and become the breadwinners of the family, she who has ear let her hear

neena adjei: LOOOOOOL

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My purpose of writing this letter is to inform you that you guys really need to start pitying your wives when it comes to the issue of housework.
[b]Ejor, we understand that you are kings and monarchs and are very powerful and wonderful.[b]
But abeg, try to pity your wives when it comes to the issue of housework.
I have seen different threads on Nairaland where men stated that they can not help with the housework because that is a woman's work or because if they help their wives she will start expecting them to always assist.
One thing you should realize is that you should help out if your wife contributes financially even if the responsibility of taking care of the house is expected to be that of the woman in the society we live in.
It is not easy for women, you have to understand this, having to run jobs and take care of kids and take care of the house all at once is not a piece of cake so please help out.

How would you feel if your wife refused to contribute money to help you with something you have dire need of money for, maybe your business? Or if she refused to contribute money for medical care that you might need for an illness someday in future? What if your wife refused to help you in such times because she believes that contributing financially to the house is something only the husband should do?
Kindly start assisting in the house, thank you. It doesn't make you less of a man.

Yours Faithfully,
Chocolate.

O Gosh! u are making my head swell with all this TITLES. Stop PATRONIZING ME WOMAN! and get straight to the point. Ok, i have heard u even before u spoke. To tell u how much i enjoyed ur letter, i "LIKED" u. That should be enough na, isn't it?

mkpikpub: Men have their roles to play, leave them to concentrate.

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No. Please tell me the reason why you cannot clean.

Maybe, he has a SWOLLEN SCROTAL SACK and can't bend over to clean.