I've noticed, with keen interest, the rate at which some girls and boys get angry whenever virginity is being discussed. To them, especially the boys, deflowered girls are better because they (the boys) won't have to watch their virgin wives undergo the pain (which they say is excruciating) on their first night of 5ex. Beside this, they complain of virgins being inexperienced. Haba! Do you want to live the whole of your life fvcking?

While I will forgive boys, I find it difficult for the girls. Na who say make u go fvck? U no fit wait? Virginity is supposed to be a virtue, not a vice. It's the pride of womanhood, and should be celebrated.

I'm happy each time I sense a girl is a virgin. I try to get close to her, initiate a discussion, though stealthy, encouraging her to stay away from 5ex. Yes, virginity is not a guarantee of a happy home, it gives the girl some respect and makes the husband be rest assured of a wife that won't be having an extra-marital affair. This can not be said of deflowered girls, especially those that are 5ex maniac. There is a high rate of the possibiliy of not being satisfied by the husbands because they tested different 5ex styles used by men during 5exual intercourse. I'll be happy having an "inexperienced" wife than having an experienced wife that won't be faithful.

If you're a virgin, don't allow anybody make you feel intimidated.

I beg to disagree. A some only feel bad about the nigga they had a first time with,dats all

Waspy: I beg to disagree. A some only feel bad about the nigga they had a first time with,dats all

Why? Because he raped them or what

MisterLongman: Why? Because he raped them or what

Nope, most will maintain this defence: "they were inexperience, he took advantage, he's not worth what he had".....and so on

Wetin concern agbero with overload?

Waspy: I beg to disagree. A some only feel bad about the nigga they had a first time with,dats all

that's how you want your sister to live her life too.... Why can't you for once appreciate nice virtue, you love it and you wouldn't want that to happen to any of your family.

A wife that you disvirgined can be unfaithful if she wants to and because a woman has had sex before marriage does not mean she won't be faithful.

djeezy: A wife that you disvirgined can be unfaithful if she wants to and because a woman has had sex before marriage does not mean she won't be faithful.

True Talk ma bro...

Waspy: Nope, most will maintain this defence: "they were inexperience, he took advantage, he's not worth what he had".....and so on

Bros this one na medicine after death... So after enjoying every bit of it, they would say the guy took advantage of their inexperienced nature? Lamba!

And you get to believe such nonsense from them? Smh...

OP, I think you got it twisted.

My opinion? Virginity (an adult) is overrated. Its a private, personal matter. Why should all else start jubilating because someone is a virgin. Don't expect everybody to like any one thing.

*pulls out a seat*

#TEAMVIRGIN

jmoore: Some of them are angry because they are jealous.

Because e no easy...

And who told you virgin wives don't eventually have extra marital affairs? Think well pls.......... Someone who's explored and seen a lot and then decides to settle down is way better than one who's inexperienced and is tempted to go out at the slightest provocation. Not in all cases tho, just like not all non virgins are bad.
As for the indifference, I dunno about it

Don't mind all these people saying "some non-virgins are better than some virgins". They are only trying to console themselves for whatever reason. Afterall, the "good" non-virgin was once a virgin. And it is a fact that getting disvirgined doesn't make a girl good. Marrying a virgin may not guarantee a rosy marriage in the future, but it represents a low-risk marriage. In as much as God helps us, we have to make a conscious effort to choose the least dangerous path.

Peace.

BreezyRita: And who told you virgin wives don't eventually have extra marital affairs? Think well pls.......... Someone who's explored and seen a lot and then decides to settle down is way better than one who's inexperienced and is tempted to go out at the slightest provocation. Not in all cases tho, just like not all non virgins are bad.
As for the indifference, I dunno about it

. . . and what makes you think a woman married as a virgin will end up having an extra-marital affair?

OrlandoOwoh:
. . . and what makes you think a woman married as a virgin will end up having an extra-marital affair?

My brother, no mind dem. They are only consoling themselves.