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Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 5:02am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Please I need matured advice,am a married woman who has fallen helplessly inlove with another married man, I have tried all I can to put him out of my mind but the more I try the worst it get, I have even gone for counseling,deliverance,fasted and all that but yet reality is starring me in the face, I have deleted all his contact from my fone but then I see him every day at work tho he dosent no this.....please my brothers and sisters how do I get out of this mess(I have never felt this way in my life) |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by RoyalRoy(m): 5:04am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Romance mods, please move this to the family section for better and matured advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by RoyalRoy(m): 5:06am On Sep 14, 2014 |
germainediva: 1. 1 Like |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by echobee(f): 5:22am On Sep 14, 2014 |
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Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by GentleMimi: 5:29am On Sep 14, 2014 |
3 . I'm in the mood to display immaturity. |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by okosodo: 6:08am On Sep 14, 2014 |
4 no be me start am |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Nobody: 6:11am On Sep 14, 2014 |
This thing called 'love' anyways, I guess I'll be 5! 1 Like |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Nobody: 6:15am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Hmmmmm...sheet happens. |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by kreamidiva(f): 6:16am On Sep 14, 2014 |
He doesn't know u are in love with him? How so? U are secretly admiring him or what? It will pass. Look for the things that made u fall in love with your hubby in the first place and focus on them. Get closer to your hubby because there could be a vacuum or void u feel this guy will fill. Otherwise, ask 5minmadness the meaning of his moniker. When u don chuk the guy for the 5mins of fun, this "in love" go clear from your eyes. 8 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Tallesty1(m): 6:18am On Sep 14, 2014 |
This is a big test of your control over your feelings. You can't always control what you feel, yea, but what you do about those feelings is totally in your court, you need to know that you are facing an important test and any case of mishandling the situation will lead to a lot of hurt. You must think of the pain it will cause to those you love. Imagine being his wife, ask yourself how you would feel if your hubby is the one doing this. Honestly the cons are way too much than whatever you may gain from it so if I were you I would lock-up my feelings and concentrate on loving my husband 7 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by echobee(f): 6:27am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Tallesty1: This is a big test of your control over your feelings. You can't always control what you feel, yea, but what you do about those feelings is totally in your court, you need to know that you are facing an important test and any case of mishandling the situation will lead to a lot of hurt. You must think of the pain it will cause to those you love. Imagine being his wife, ask yourself how you would feel if your hubby is the one doing this. Honestly the cons are way too much than whatever you may gain from it so if I were you I would lock-up my feelings and concentrate on loving my husbandWhat re u doing here? Jump jump 1 Like |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Tallesty1(m): 6:34am On Sep 14, 2014 |
echobee:preaching the good news |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by ahnie: 6:47am On Sep 14, 2014 |
[quote author=germainediva] Please I need matured advice,am a married woman who has fallen helplessly inlove with another married man, I have tried all I can to put him out of my mind but the more I try the worst it get, I have even gone for counseling,deliverance,fasted and all that but yet reality is starring me in the face, I have deleted all his contact from my fone but then I see him every day at work tho he dosent no this.....please my brothers and sisters how do I get out of this mess(I have never felt this way in my life)[/quote]sister, let me consult Ifa. |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by ahnie: 6:53am On Sep 14, 2014 |
op,what you feel for this your inlove of a married man z nurrin but Lust.daz's the bitter truth. 5 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by thorpido(m): 7:09am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Sometimes you can't help but admire someone of the opposite sex even when married.However,something is wrong when you allow it to dwell in your heart just as you are doing. I think the bigger problem is that there is a disconnect with your husband.You are not getting the attention you need from him.Why don't you get your husband to pay more attention to you?Perhaps,he's been too busy lately. It's a good thing the man is not the one trying to hit on you.Do everything possible not to get him to notice you. 1 Like |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 7:44am On Sep 14, 2014 |
I have been tryn to deal with it.........hoping that time will solve it but its been 2years now.......and I still feel the same n more.......hearing his voice alone is a problem 4 me............I avoid contact with him as much as I can........the days I don't get t see him at the office....is best for me but dat not withstanding I tink about him every day within this past 2years........it started the very 1st day he was transfered to my office.....the very day I set my eyes on him.......... |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 7:49am On Sep 14, 2014 |
thorpido: Sometimes you can't help but admire someone of the opposite sex even when married.However,something is wrong when you allow it to dwell in your heart just as you are doing.my dear I have been married for 13years with 3kids.......whots on ma hubby's mind s how t make enof money t take kia of his kids.........when I tok about attention he makes it look as if am not considret |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by zeb04(f): 8:05am On Sep 14, 2014 |
If you weren't married,i would advice you let him know because most times when we get to be Friends with the people we crush on,we find out things we wouldn't know from afar of and It just kills the whole romantic stuff but then again,you are a married woman and when I talk about *Leaving 80% to find 20%.......I am sure you know what am talking about.Goodluck |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 8:09am On Sep 14, 2014 |
zeb04: If you weren't married,i would advice you let him know because most times when we get to be Friends with the people we crush on,we find out things we wouldn't know from afar of and It just kills the whole romantic stuff but then again,you are a married woman and when I talk about *Leaving 80% to find 20%.......I am sure you know what am talking about.Goodlucksometimes its like am loosing my mind.......I wish dere was a drug I culd take to make it go away........cos its touture |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Nobody: 8:12am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Three kids and you are dying for a married man that doesn't even know how you feel about him. Do you think he feels same way? Since you have tried all you could to get the attention away. Try strafing him. By the time you do am once, the love go clear for your eyes when everything you built for the past 13 yrs go just fall yakata for your eyes. Two things, get him out of your mind or strafe him so the conji go clear for your eyes. This 'love' won't take you anywhere. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Nobody: 8:14am On Sep 14, 2014 |
And pls stop stalking him, looks creepy. What's your work description? Try looking for a project and work on it. Otherwise go through the mr and mrs smith route. The success rate of this in Nigeria is like 0.0034%. Goodluck 5 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 8:19am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Three kids and you are dying for a married man that doesn't even know how you feel about him. Do you think he feels same way?I know that.........I just need a miracle in my heart........on my part I have tried but d heart kips going |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Nobody: 8:22am On Sep 14, 2014 |
germainediva:plz satisfy your conscience and go for him 1 Like |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by onegig(m): 8:34am On Sep 14, 2014 |
What happened to telling your husband about this? He is the best that can help you here since your individual efforts is not yielding results. That's if you guys communicate well and deep and you agree to such open discussions from the start. You may also ask for a transfer to another department or something just to be able forget him. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Nobody: 8:34am On Sep 14, 2014 |
germainediva: I know that.........I just need a miracle in my heart........on my part I have tried but d heart kips going Sorry, there is no miracle. You just need self control or act based on your feelings. But be sure to face the consequences . How cute, well framed is this guy. And what is his finance worth. Gimme his no. let me access him for you I don't want you to fall in wrong hands. You know, they say when you want to chop a frog, chop the big fat one. So when they call you frog eater...you nod your head and answer. 5 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by snazzylove: 8:58am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Chillisauce Lol@ frog eater. Babe I dey come make I give u correct advice. Was once in ur shoes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 9:12am On Sep 14, 2014 |
snazzylove: Chillisauce Lol@ frog eater.am waiting pls.......sometimes I even slap my self real hard......so I can wake up from ds situation |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by SAMBARRY: 9:13am On Sep 14, 2014 |
*clears throat* why haven't I been here since. Anyway let me spread my designer mat and like kanwulia will say "another one don cam"
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Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by germainediva(f): 9:15am On Sep 14, 2014 |
onegig: What happened to telling your husband about this?tell hubby ke........dats sucidal 2 Likes |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by 5minsmadness: 9:19am On Sep 14, 2014 |
kreamidiva: He doesn't know u are in love with him? How so? U are secretly admiring him or what? Babe, seriously? This from someone calling herself 'kreamy' diva |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by Enoquin(f): 9:29am On Sep 14, 2014 |
One key thing is contentment. Contentment with what you have whether it's a shrek or prince, an olga or a princess. In 13 years, you should have reached that level. 1 Like |
Re: Married Woman Inlove With A Married Man by cococandy(f): 9:34am On Sep 14, 2014 |
If only you knew what he's like behind closed doors. You'll see he may not be better than your husband. Sadly getting close enough to find out for yourself may ruin your marriage and by the time you discover he's not worth the trouble,you'd have lost both ways. Ask for a transfer. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
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