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Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by smokescreen4: 9:48pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
@op when you bin get job you bin dey flex dey do anyhow abi? women no dey forget o, all dis men we dey Waka and their wives dey look the other way don't get too comfortable o, if situation change small una go see something. 3 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Nobody: 8:06am On Sep 17, 2014 |
From reading between the lines, it seems that your wife is fed up of the marriage How she got there I dont know; that you may have the answers to Call her, tell her what you have seen and ask her to let you know what she wants. There is no point one leg in and one leg out It may or may not be too late, as It seems that a lot has gone by . . . .But you wont know where you are going unless you ask the driver where she is going. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by coogar: 12:08pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
omoyeme200: kick the heifer out of your house!! i dunno why you people cling on to someone that doesn't want to be with you. she's cheating on you with her ex in the UK, she's embarrassed you in public, she disrespects you in front of her mother, niece, etc. can't you fücking see the writing on the wall? is it until she brings a bastärd into your matrimonial home in one of her shaggïng expeditions before you do what is right? jeeez, man up & do what is right before an irresponsible wife sends you to an early grave. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Morotov1(m): 12:31pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
coogar:If he got a blue chip job to manage, he ain't kicking anybody out rather he will pack out especially if wife is paying the rent. 3 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
I wont take you for granted. I see beneath dytbabe:Op are you waiting for 'wife of omooyeme' to come and state her side of the story before you will humble yourself before her, beg, make amends to save your marriage if thats what you truely want so that she can also turn back or boldly do what you want and stop turning tables. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by dytbabe: 12:57pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Floodgater: I wont take you for granted. I see beneath |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by coogar: 1:00pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Morotov1: If he got a blue chip job to manage, he ain't kicking anybody out rather he will pack out especially if wife is paying the rent. which rent is she paying? where in that write-up was it mentioned that the wife pays any rent? rents are paid in 2-5 years in advance in naija so there's a huge mrs wifey has not contributed one penny in rent since the OP lost his job. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Nobody: 1:04pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
dytbabe: |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by dytbabe: 1:06pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
[quote author=Floodgater][/quote] Seen |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by dBard: 4:47pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
omoyeme200: An R-Kelly song comes t mind.. 'wat do u do wen her mind is gone' ? Am sorry, but truly speaking, ur wife seems only t b attached t u presently via her ring finger n is probably bin held back by d guilt or waiting f justification t let go. coupled wit that is d 'chat' u saw, which speaking as a guy, can be a lot t get over. In situations like dis, I tink d onus lies on one of d parties t b willing t hold on tenaciously, in faith, till d situation improves or walk away ...either temporarily or permanently who knows, a trial seperation may actually do y'all good. Kpele **listening t Chris Browns 'loyal' ** |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 4:56pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
@OP- i feel your pains. What you need to do is win your wife back. woo her all over again, take her out for shopping, help with the house chores and the kids, make her breakfast in bed, spoil her silly with so much love and affection, ignore the uk guy and her other numerous male friends. in fact, you can invite some of them over to the house for dinner. try to take care of yourself and look good for her. but good perfumes and use them so you can smell nice. make sure you go to have your hair cut regularly. improve on your bedroom skills and give it to her so much that she won't have energy for the outside men....wake her up one of the nights, prostrate flat, hold her legs, cry ocean and BEG her to come back to you and that you are sorry for whatever you might have done to hurt her, don't forget to promise never to do them again. My fingers are paining me now. will be back for the remaining part... 5 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Chaulay1: 5:25pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains. jeez, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. You only left out the red pant and bra aspect, possibly blue briefs or something . And the table turns..... |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by RoyalRoy(m): 5:42pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains. Story for the gods. Real bull-crap.!!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 5:46pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
RoyalRoy:na wa for you o. so you couldn't even see through the post. i should have included ''wear blue singlet and blue pant and seduce her'' 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by RoyalRoy(m): 6:15pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Godmystrength: na wa for you o. so you couldn't even see through the post. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by soulglo: 6:24pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains. You have to be joking |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 6:39pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
soulglo:no joke here. he not forget to wear blue singlet and blue pants to re-seduce his wife. If all these don't work then let him pray very well and harder. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by bnovative(m): 7:00pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
@op those who advise u to send ur wife away, are they married? it's easy for any bachelor to scream " send her away ", but is that what u truly want? I'm not making excuse for your wife but there's always a better way of doing things. U need your wife to raise ur kids, there are no angels outside. seek counsel together and u will be happy 6 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:In nigeria it's a man's house. The woman is a tenant. @topic . OP your wife says you should go have a girl friend? That's pretty cold. Damn. Like some folks have said,ask her to tell you in plain terms what she wants. If it's divorce,there's not much you can do except to accept it and move on with your life. It's hard I know But at this pace you'll just be punishing yourself and enduring heart ache from a woman who probably won't mourn you if you die from heart break. Or do you want to wait until she brings her lover into the home before you know she doesn't care anymore? 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 7:05pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Ahh GMS this dude is hurting na. Don't play with his pain He actually sounds like one of the good guys Godmystrength: no joke here. he not forget to wear blue singlet and blue pants to re-seduce his wife. If all these don't work then let him pray very well and harder. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 7:10pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
cococandy: Ahh GMS this dude is hurting na.okay ma. i apologise then. very unusual of me. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 7:12pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Me ma? Ok o. You're sweet.we all know that Godmystrength: okay ma. i apologise then. very unusual of me. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 7:16pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
cococandy:lol. but on a more serious note, since OP wants his 'good girl' wife back, any method to achieve that should not be underestimated IMO |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains. In addition to this. Pray. Oh yes, pray. After all you are her husband. You married her. Pls don't forget, always wear blue and white strip boxers and dont repeat same boxer the next day. Don't allow these misogynists to break your home . Most of these men have no woman on their own and want you to tow their path . |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 7:19pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Doing all that will make the woman ride him more. Communication? yes. Giving her some space to miss him? Yes Using her tricks on her by pretending he doesn't care anyore? Yes. If she still cares,that will bring her back. If she doesn't,what can he do except let her go? Godmystrength: lol. but on a more serious note, since OP wants his 'good girl' wife back, any method to achieve that should not be underestimated IMO |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 7:22pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
cococandy: Doing all that will make the woman ride him more.but people have been here with testimonies of how these works for some women. so no harm in giving it a final trial. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 7:23pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
^^^^but what i just don't get is how a 'good girl' wifey will suddenly turn to this for no reason....... |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 7:25pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Ok OP you've heard na. It might work for you too. If it does,don't forget to thank godmystrength Godmystrength: but people have been here with testimonies of how these works for some women. so no harm in giving it a final trial. |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Godmystrength: 7:29pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
cococandy: Oki am not there o cocobabe.... |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
omoyeme200: I have been married for approximately 8 years now and have 2 kids. From the start I never had married on my mind because of what I saw in my own parents they were not very happy until I met my wife who changed my orientation about marriage and we fell in love with her because she gave me a new meaning and reason to go on in life which I really appreciate and love, we courted for 6 years and we married. Nna go and find a job It looks like you are becoming very insecure in yourself and picking faults Intensify your job search and reclaim your manhood |
Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains. Win her back ke What he needs is a job A very busy one to keep him super occupied and wear him out He seems to have too much time on his hands |
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