omoyeme200:

Clingy in what sense? But really she gave me this long list of rules and regulations part of it was that then I spend time too much with my friends when we newly wed and cried all through now I cut them off she now comes after she has gotten a job that tell me her friends are male and she advises and talks about our marriage issues and even advise. I don't think so...

coogar:

kick the heifer out of your house!!
i dunno why you people cling on to someone that doesn't want to be with you. she's cheating on you with her ex in the UK, she's embarrassed you in public, she disrespects you in front of her mother, niece, etc.

can't you fücking see the writing on the wall?
is it until she brings a bastärd into your matrimonial home in one of her shaggïng expeditions before you do what is right? jeeez, man up & do what is right before an irresponsible wife sends you to an early grave.

dytbabe:

Floodgater: I wont take you for granted. I see beneath

Morotov1: If he got a blue chip job to manage, he ain't kicking anybody out rather he will pack out especially if wife is paying the rent.

dytbabe:

omoyeme200:

I have done that but she cries all through out when I raise the issue. Lately she said she will leave with the kids which I said never. She wants to rock and at the same time be with me.

Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains.

What you need to do is win your wife back.
woo her all over again, take her out for shopping, help with the house chores and the kids, make her breakfast in bed, spoil her silly with so much love and affection, ignore the uk guy and her other numerous male friends. in fact, you can invite some of them over to the house for dinner. try to take care of yourself and look good for her. but good perfumes and use them so you can smell nice. make sure you go to have your hair cut regularly. improve on your bedroom skills and give it to her so much that she won't have energy for the outside men....wake her up one of the nights, prostrate flat, hold her legs, cry ocean and BEG her to come back to you and that you are sorry for whatever you might have done to hurt her, don't forget to promise never to do them again. My fingers are paining me now. will be back for the remaining part...

Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains.

What you need to do is win your wife back.
woo her all over again, take her out for shopping, help with the house chores and the kids, make her breakfast in bed, spoil her silly with so much love and affection, ignore the uk guy and her other numerous male friends. in fact, you can invite some of them over to the house for dinner. try to take care of yourself and look good for her. but good perfumes and use them so you can smell nice. make sure you go to have your hair cut regularly. improve on your bedroom skills and give it to her so much that she won't have energy for the outside men....wake her up one of the nights, prostrate flat, hold her legs, cry ocean and BEG her to come back to you and that you are sorry for whatever you might have done to hurt her, don't forget to promise never to do them again.
My fingers are paining me now. will be back for the remaining part...

RoyalRoy:



Story for the gods .


Real bull-crap.!!!

Godmystrength: na wa for you o. so you couldn't even see through the post.
i should have included ''wear blue singlet and blue pant and seduce her''

Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains.

What you need to do is win your wife back.
woo her all over again, take her out for shopping, help with the house chores and the kids, make her breakfast in bed, spoil her silly with so much love and affection, ignore the uk guy and her other numerous male friends. in fact, you can invite some of them over to the house for dinner. try to take care of yourself and look good for her. but good perfumes and use them so you can smell nice. make sure you go to have your hair cut regularly. improve on your bedroom skills and give it to her so much that she won't have energy for the outside men....wake her up one of the nights, prostrate flat, hold her legs, cry ocean and BEG her to come back to you and that you are sorry for whatever you might have done to hurt her, don't forget to promise never to do them again. My fingers are paining me now. will be back for the remaining part...

soulglo:


You have to be joking

carefreewannabe:

Is it HIS house or their house?

Godmystrength: no joke here. he not forget to wear blue singlet and blue pants to re-seduce his wife. If all these don't work then let him pray very well and harder.

cococandy: Ahh GMS this dude is hurting na.
Don't play with his pain
He actually sounds like one of the good guys

Godmystrength: okay ma. i apologise then. very unusual of me.

cococandy:
Me ma?
Ok o.

You're sweet.we all know that

Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains.
What you need to do is win your wife back.
woo her all over again, take her out for shopping, help with the house chores and the kids, make her breakfast in bed, spoil her silly with so much love and affection, ignore the uk guy and her other numerous male friends. in fact, you can invite some of them over to the house for dinner. try to take care of yourself and look good for her. but good perfumes and use them so you can smell nice. make sure you go to have your hair cut regularly. improve on your bedroom skills and give it to her so much that she won't have energy for the outside men....wake her up one of the nights, prostrate flat, hold her legs, cry ocean and BEG her to come back to you and that you are sorry for whatever you might have done to hurt her, don't forget to promise never to do them again. My fingers are paining me now. will be back for the remaining part...

Godmystrength: lol. but on a more serious note, since OP wants his 'good girl' wife back, any method to achieve that should not be underestimated IMO

cococandy: Doing all that will make the woman ride him more.
Communication? yes.
Giving her some space to miss him? Yes
Using her tricks on her by pretending he doesn't care anyore? Yes.

If she still cares,that will bring her back.
If she doesn't,what can he do except let her go?

Godmystrength: but people have been here with testimonies of how these works for some women. so no harm in giving it a final trial.

cococandy: Ok
OP you've heard na.
It might work for you too. If it does,don't forget to thank godmystrength

omoyeme200: I have been married for approximately 8 years now and have 2 kids. From the start I never had married on my mind because of what I saw in my own parents they were not very happy until I met my wife who changed my orientation about marriage and we fell in love with her because she gave me a new meaning and reason to go on in life which I really appreciate and love, we courted for 6 years and we married.

The problem actually started when I lost my job I noticed a very big change in her character and every time I talk her or discuss about it she tells me am overreacting or nagging its because I lost my job and I just kept to myself bottling every thing up on the inside. We tried going into business but it was not meeting up with our daily up keep so we opted that she gets a job. She then changed rapidly I seem to irritate her on everything I do, when i compliment on what to wear (because we do that for each other in which I don't object I just do as she says) she will say am not the only one looking at her she will wear what she feels like which actually is not the issue here, she comes back late from work, she talks to anyhow without giving me regard then it was like I was living in hell didn't know how to communicate because she will say am just nagging.

I am not saying am a saint or anything I have girls before I got married and my wife was a "good girl" so to speak that was why I fell for her and I put all my cards on the table and never hid anything from her and what I did. But what I have seen and all indication she wants to start rocking life while been married and leaving home with telling or giving me any regard.

The crux of the matter is that when i noticed all this I became inquisitive about what she did, she stated having late night calls and justifying it too from a colleague at work which she called him a small boy and even text message I saw which I find very offensive and what made matters worse was that I came across her conversation with her ex-boy friend who was in UK talking about how life would have been if they ended up together, insulted me with the boy friend that that am being over possessive, made plans of divorce in-case the marriage did not workout with me (which is still eating me up) because she already have a plan B for me, telling themselves they are somehow dating. How do I trust someone who is making a plan B for me when am not away or incapacitated or even considering divorce.

At that point that was the height of impunity in our marriage which she has exhibited and I would not condone it and it broke my heart, for I thought my wife was "innocent" and if I had not been sensitive it would have degenerated to something else with her face book lover. I cannot come to terms right now because of the high esteem that I placed her and my genuine love for her she made rubbish of. If she was not hurting then I would have ignored them saying she was fooling around. Everywhere I go I see the conversations of the Facebook in my head and killing me. At first she doesn't seem to agree that she has done something wrong since she hasn't slept or gave her body but I told her she was having emotional affair and depleting our love bank and giving it out to someone else and have created a very mighty vacuum for us and the most annoying aspect is that she is making excuses for them.

I cannot do anything am so confused she has begged me but the way I used carry her in high esteem around my friends is not there anymore, I feel she has deceived me because this things I never expected or imagined her doing all this am seeing. Am heart broken i feel nothing for her am praying to God to help me love her once again but not I don't even feel anything even when i make love to her. It would have been better I married a bad girl and never expected anything than for me to marry a good girl and get my hopes shattered. Lately we had a heated argument said am caging her and majority of her friends are guys that i should go out and get friends and she feels no remorse all because I have stop her movements and gradually pushing me away, her heart and mind is so distant from me.

Please am I over reacting over nothing because I have this gut feeling she is having an affair but she denies it all and she has changed for the worse.

Help me am so confused.

Godmystrength: @OP- i feel your pains.

What you need to do is win your wife back.
woo her all over again, take her out for shopping, help with the house chores and the kids, make her breakfast in bed, spoil her silly with so much love and affection, ignore the uk guy and her other numerous male friends. in fact, you can invite some of them over to the house for dinner. try to take care of yourself and look good for her. but good perfumes and use them so you can smell nice. make sure you go to have your hair cut regularly. improve on your bedroom skills and give it to her so much that she won't have energy for the outside men....wake her up one of the nights, prostrate flat, hold her legs, cry ocean and BEG her to come back to you and that you are sorry for whatever you might have done to hurt her, don't forget to promise never to do them again. My fingers are paining me now. will be back for the remaining part...