i have been hearing this thing about a "man's ego" and it got me thinking, if a girl can ask a guy out and the guy agrees, why cant a guy accept money from a girl? especially his girl? by agreeing to go out wid the girl, aint u already hurting your "ego"?


y'all should tell me what u think about this thingy. i wont lie, if a my girl should give me money for anything especially when i dont have cash at that moment, i will take ooo, i no go use shame refuse to eat food. so y'all should talk.

I go take very reluctantly you know how some girls dey sef, the will always throw it on your face when the mad at you like you've never given them money before.

of course i see nuffin wrong in giving my bobo money if hes down its all good

*roll eyes* yes diddy am not a guy so what * roll eyes*

@Ikamefa,

this one way you just dey roll your eyes you sure say you never drink too much ogogoro

@ikamefa

i know you aint a guy sexy. if u were a guy i wudnt hit on you, ewwwwww, dats gross. yuk

@Tx
forget the one about their throwing it to ya face. of course you wont just be taking without giving back. so if she says she gave u money to buy boxers, u tell her u also gave her money to buy g-strings and the condom you guys used the night before. na give and take. abi nobi so?

You have spoken like an elder diddy, You are a very wise man

my man u just promoted me. thank you sir.

Txlonghorn:

@Ikamefa,

this one way you just dey roll your eyes you sure say you never drink too much ogogoro

no be u i dey tell say okafor no gree sell?

@ diddy
i aint tryn@ divert ur thread carry go

There's nothing wrong with it.

nothing wrong with it diddy

its an african thing, african american guys will take the money before u can say go.

oh, so its an african thingy huh? wow, so i guess african men got more pride than their afro-american counterparts. nice observation.

I don't think there's any thing wrong with it, but as diddy said we Nigerian men have a lot of ego which I think  makes us stand out amongs African Americans.


@ Ikamafa,

e get this nice joint way just open up near my house, no even mind Okafor the man the crez

well i can, if she's the sort of woman who won't rub it in my face. if she's the proud type, always yappin off her mouf then i'll never take a kobo from her

my man, every woman yaps. so basically u no fit avoid am.

@ tx

oya make we dey waka go


@ topic not all women yap, i think it depends on the kind of relationship u have with a guy and vice versa.

if you are in a relationship were you are free to express yourself and you guys share every thing together the ego thingy should not come in

if you are in a relationship were you are free to express yourself and you guys share every thing together the ego thingy should not come in

Diddy who has been trying to give you some money? You never told us that one.

u know quite well i dont have a girl so try again later.

It's a personal thing. I'm averse to being helped by people when I know I can help myself. No, I won't take money from a girl, but I wouldn't from a guy too.

debosky:

well i can, if she's the sort of woman who won't rub it in my face. if she's the proud type, always yappin off her mouth then i'll never take a kobo from her

Exactly what i want to say, u have said it all.

@didd4, u heard it all, so u have no problem even if she buy car for you collect it plz.

personally, i'm the kind type i have done before and i'll do it again and again.

yea dey will,lol

iice:

Some have mentioned pride esp the naija man pride, i understand them, i have no problems doing it and as hibans said i've done it and i can do it over and over. What is impt is what the man feels in this situation, if he has no probs accepting it publicly or privately then for sure lets rock on. If he has probs accepting it publicly but not privately, no probs i jst slip it 2 him so he still feels like the man w/o others non the wiser, if he doesnt accept it publicly or privately, no probs, its his gawd damn right

My dear, their pride shouldn't bother you at all. its just that some of them are very funni, when you do good to them your returns would be bad, but no problem keep doing it not them but God.

There's nothing bad when one needs help and you render ok.

I don't think money has a gender: oh there goes the She-Money or Is that not He-Money.
As such whether d money na from man or woman I go collect.

Na today?

I know guys that keep multiple girls that just go around collecting money from them. Thats how they survive.

I dont see a problem with spending my money on ma man when i can - it took alot of work but its a good thing to practice.

@Zahymaka Im with you man.Communication or No Communication I just find it impossible to ask or recieve help from people not to talk of a girl rather I'll spend my last resources in helping others and will not accept anything in return.Its just in me right from childhood.Nairalanders is this wrong

I ve never collected money from my guy, i ve been the one giving him money, though he earns more than i do. Thats no big deal.

kritikul:

I ve never collected money from my guy, i ve been the one giving him money, though he earns more than i do. Thats no big deal.

Are You for real??