ednut1: marry him please, i want to read a story on nairaland in 2017 ' man beheads wife(isobel) after argument ,

samflexxy: Dearie I wouldn't wanna advice to quit the marriage but if u r sure dat his going be beating u have better update ur facebook status as single.as for me I don't think he has changed since he has done it once his still gonna do it sweaty.

AND ENGLISH DIED

izaray: He may not want to lay his hands on you anymore after marriage, believe me, marriage is not like dating, i mean is not not like Girlfriend and boyfriend issue, my own opinion tho

isobel: I've been dating my fiancé for four years and we recently got engaged. In the second year of our relationship we had an argument and he beat me. I forgave him and he never laid his hands on me since then. However, he threatend to beat me a couple of times when we had heated argument but never did. Apart from this, he is like an angel. very attentive and caring. My dilemma now is that a couple of people have told me 'if a Man ever lays a hand on a woman she should not marry him because he will eventually turn out to be violent and a wife beater after the marriage'. I've developed cold feet since then and I'm beginning to have second thought about the marriage. Should I marry him or not?

Tallesty1: What lead to the heated argument and why do you guys always have heated argument?

Plexus: AND ENGLISH DIED

FrankySnow: You had a misunderstanding and he did beat you then, he apologized and promised never to beat you again but he sometimes threatens to beat you...Hmmmm, if your fiance is temperamental them I'm afraid he Will sure beat you again out of annoyance and as his wife and no longer his girlfriend what will you do?

Just like what izaray said he may not lay his hands on you again after marriage, just follow your heart and not what people say.

izaray: Yeah, and dosen't mean d dude will remain single, simply because his a hot tempered type na, dey must be a lady dat will understand him at dsame tym, tolerate some things 4 peace to reign!

Benita4bliss: what did do that makes him to beats u? how do always react or talks to him when ever he does something wrong to u, check urself very well and knw what always makes him angry that always lead to beating and stop it. No sane man will like to rise up his hand and hit his woman witout a reason, since d man is not a drunkard.check and work on urself first before listen to those that are. telling u to walk out. stop doing those things that will provoke him. no man or woman is a perfect being in this life. And again, we women some of us get bad mouth well well.

zizazizu: My dear, let me advise u to pray abt it. Last week, I spoke with a guy friend of mine whom all my friends know to be hot tempered. He got married a year ago and confessed to me that he has laid hands on his wife. Marriage doesn't change ppl. If anything, it brings out the worse in them. But if u love him, discuss it at length with him before making ur decision to either go further or call it quits.

nikkypearl: I am are repulsed at the very idea of a man beating a woman. ...