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Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Pavore9: I still insists on living right and your loved ones will remember you with fond memory. Gbam!! Case closed! 1 Like |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Nobody: 3:44pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
beeevan: Don't mind him, 1 Like |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by iykedare(m): 3:35pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
beeevan: i can imagine the kind of things u are going through in the hands of your husband. We go sense it through your comments here. Bloody liabilty. 3 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by beeevan: 5:29pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
iykedare: Son of a gutter slut, aren't you dead yet, Idiocy doesn't kill, does it? Anyway we can book a show for later because am quite busy but yet again, am bored of you . You are too obsessed with that animal that fathered you, so much so that you can't resist lashing out at people 's husbands, sons, brothers and what have you . The liability he calls your mum through out the duration of their marriage is haunting you, even at 40 + of age your brain is hardly developed enough to grasp its full meaning. Iykedare seek help because you are an assault on masculinity, you are not the only one out there with a twisted childhood, its no excuse for your shame, am advising you as a... as.... scratch that . Am done with you as long as Nairaland is concerned,am done with you because you are a damn too stale meat for me, no steam, nothing, scaler quantity ...i did rather take on someone....someone more...entertaining . Besides why have you been stalking me huh, do I look like mama? Stuff the reason up your anus, bee doesn't care . 12 Likes
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Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by cococandy(f): 6:10pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Iykedare and beeevan Since time immemorial |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by beeevan: 6:21pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
cococandy: Iykedare and beeevan He can't have enough of my exfoliating bee juice, dude is so obsessed with me . 3 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by iykedare(m): 7:04pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
beeevan: lol. dont take these things too hard. Your comments here are always filled with so much venom. Marriage must really be tough for u. Whenever the women here say beautiful things about marriage,no one sees you around. But when u sees silly stuffs being written about naija men,you will suddenly come alive. If you ve ever been with a good man,you wont be this bitter about men. your husband,your choice,your pain. Deal with it. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
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Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by beeevan: 7:28pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
iykedare: 3 Likes
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Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by thandii1: 9:24pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
beeevan: This is so hilarious..OMG It can make someone cry.. 1 Like |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by uglyogre(f): 9:50pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Nigerian men should show high sense of responsibility to their home, family, wives and kids. Being faithful and loyal and treating your spouses and kids with love and care cost nothing, else you won't be missed when you're gone beevan and others have spoken well. 7 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by uglyogre(f): 9:59pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
iykedare:we have sisters, cousins, daughters, aunties and neighbours who are suffering in the hands of cheating men, one does not necessarily have to be married. just look around you. they are everywhere 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Nobody: 10:27pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
uglyogre:there are men suffering in the hands of cheating women too . 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Kanwulia: 12:37am On Sep 23, 2014 |
Incredible topic! |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by beeevan: 6:32am On Sep 23, 2014 |
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Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by iykedare(m): 8:18am On Sep 23, 2014 |
uglyogre: you don't get me. Have you seen that liability, beeevan, make any positive comment about naija men. Its simply means that she is a lesbo or the man in her life is a lowlife. Simple!!! 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by beeevan: 10:56am On Sep 23, 2014 |
iykedare: For each time you mention my name your life span decreases by 10%, keep reading you mother 's story and attributing it to your NL crush . 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by iykedare(m): 2:17pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
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Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Nobody: 7:28pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
iykedare: you and beeevan, leave the woman alone, she is married. Gadammit! dont you have small small 200naira chikalas to pursue. ah ah. This your stalking style, na so e dey take start, before you know na, you go send pm. 4 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by cococandy(f): 8:07pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
Are you sure it's not rejected pm that's worrying him so? That's what some guys here do. If I ignore their PMs,they'll start following me up and down threads insulting me Chillisauce: 1 Like |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 10:25pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
aisha2: Well from what I have noticed around me most people prefer losing a spouse to leaving a marriage. Are u kidding me? Very very dumb. I can't even wish my enemy dead than wish my hubby becos she cheats dead. Lai lai. If am not happy in d relationship, i'll gladly take a leave than wish anybody dead. @op....am sorry to say, but d woman know abt d man's death 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 10:32pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
blueberryp: Na wa for una o, r u guys trying to say any man that dies was killed by the wife just because she isn't wearing black, starving and carrying a gloomy face? This is the 21st century for crying out loud, people die, we have to move on. People grieve differently pls. Will mourning and torturing urself bring the dead person back, or will it take him to heaven? What's ur grade in English language (WAEC) or preferably, what class are u cos primary school students sef dey use fone now? 1 Like |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 10:39pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
beeevan: What is there to mourn about a cheating husband? The only reason I won't kill him myself is because I might be caught and I can't risk a jail term for some douche bag or worst still, my conscience might not contain it. There isn't much difference between a murderer and a cheating spouse. A cheating spouse is a potential killer as far as am concerned. If you are tired of a relationship, walk out than cheat or better still let your partner know about it and walk out. if you are caught, you can't control what happens afterwards . Another dumb fellow. Someone u don't know sef, when u hear abt deir demise, u'll feel somehow not to talk of some ure married to (cheating or not)! Chai, may I neva meet dis kind of woman o cos ure capable of doing somethings that I can't say. Even friends that u fought with and not on talking terms, when u hear their death, u'll feel bad not to talk of father/mother of ur children. Oga o 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 10:42pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
aisha2: The case presented here is not a woman who killed her husband but one or some who may not really mourn or feel the loss of their husbands because they didn't have a good marriage let us not loose track of that in all the excitement. WHERE ART YOUR MORAL VALUES? AM SURE U DONT WISH YOUR ENEMY SUCH. SO EVEN IF HE/SHE IS A CHEATING FELLOW, HE/SHE HAS NEVER DONE ANY GOOD THING FOR YOU BEFORE? SO THERE WAS NEVER A MOMENT WHEN HE/SHE MAKES YOU HAPPY? Dis country is even affecting alot of things, our brains are not even functioning again, this comment of urs scare the h*ll out of me, 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 10:49pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
beeevan:Swear uve never cheated or double dated before!!! Swear on ur life, dat uve any had two guys since u started dating. Swear on d blood that came thru ur mother when u were born. Throwing stones but neva check demselves. 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 11:03pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
blueberryp: no I didn't read the intro at all u did. A cheating husband dies, his wife who probably spent all nights of their marriage crying because of his cheating way doesn't deem him worth mourning for, what wrong did she do. This goes to show how hypocritical some Nigerians are, so unless she mourns it means something is suspicious, am surprised nobody has come up with the hypothesis that she myt actually have another lover somewhr.If u had followed thenews well, Patrick sawyer already left his his wife and kids for a mistress, yet after he died, she came out with a letter to defend her husband claiming that he was seeking better healthcare b4 she later apologise. Abacha was mourned by his family even though he was a dictator (and we all know storis abt how he dies) Osama Bim laden, if u had follow his story also had kids and wives, where he was even killed, women and children were there(probably his family) If u don't love ur spouse, DIVORCE. Don't just stay. And if u want to stay, make sure u rep him well even after death |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 11:09pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
iykedare: aisha s first comment really got me scared. So most of you will prefer that your cheating husbands die? Nothing good. Except money is involved 1 Like |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 11:12pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
smokescreen4: UPDATE:I really dug up the cause of death he died from thromboembolism it occurs when they is a sudden cut of blood supply to certain parts of the brain, dat his was caused by cerebral ischemia. A young doctor related to them was more than happy to give the information to my source, he said it was same thing goldie died of.Then such death may not be ordinary. Am not saying the wife, may even be one of the mistress. |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Bigsteveg(m): 11:15pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
beeevan: And how old are u? If ure married as dey said, dem marriage must have dealt u in a very bad way. It's not d end of the world dear. 2 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by misssPepper(f): 11:19pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
Y'all can rant about respecting d dead but sometimes death is a blessing. Some spouses don't deserve respect wen dey r alive, Nt to talk of wen d person dies. Leave spouse matter, some children celebrate wen their dad or mom dies if they haven't been good to them. Live right, treat your spouse right and you will be missed wen you are dead. I even know of a very bad behaved rich woman that had BP issues and died. It was so obvious that her husband was so relieved. Now, that's a man that d society favours. Anyway, only if u have been in been in d persons shoes. I'm not saying people should kill their spouse o, but if nature decides to help out, well, thank U nature! 8 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by Nobody: 7:31am On Sep 25, 2014 |
On a serious note how can anyone live with someone they hate so much to the point that if that person dies, one will rejoice This thread is really scary honestly. How can one sleep (most probably on the same bed) cook for, converse with and do things together with someone you hate so much Why not just leave? And what if the man doesnt die fpr years nko? Is that how the woman will live in total hated, sadness and denial for the rest of her life? I wonder how high her BP will be. Seriously if it gets to the point where one will rejoice over a dead spouse, then the marriage is over long time before and the couple should call it a day, go their separate ways and go and live the rest of their life in peace. I do however find it very strange that anyone at all will die and one doesnt feel any hurt for, not to talk of ones spouse. Death is final; there is no coming back; no chance to right any wrong or to complete anything started. You will never hear, see or feel that person again. Surely there must be some good memories somewhere that will make one feel bad that the person died. Too many marriages are too toxic. 3 Likes |
Re: When A Cheating Spouse Dies by iykedare(m): 8:01am On Sep 25, 2014 |
Chillisauce: small small chikalas like u? No,I m not interested in your little a$$. Mind your bizness.Thanks 2 Likes |
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