Ladies are very cunning! I know there’re some guys there who got married because of commitments they made to ladies that, if given a second chance, they wouldn’t marry!
They fell into the trap and became emotionally bound to their commitments!

Some are able to back out and are called heartless, heartbreakers, cheats and all that!

A lady would tell you that her ex just came back from London and he’s asking her to marry him; she would tell you that her ex has apologized to her and that he’s asking her to marry him; she would tell you the men proposing to her even if she’s not had a single proposal for the past 3 years or so!

She does all this to have a commitment from the guy; something she can hold on to!

Now, I’m not saying that all commitments from such situations are forced, but many of them are, and the times guys are most vulnerable to such commitments are at the beginning of the relationship, when they have not had enough of the lady!

She wants know to what extent you're willing to take the relationship!

biko, what's d purpose of did thread

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The topic of this thread doesn't even tally with the writeup.

Op, were you forced like this?

AfricanApple: biko, what's d purpose of did thread

...that sometimes when ladies say those things up there, they're lies intended to manipulate the guy; ...that guys should not say they will marry you because you told them those things up there; ...they should not commit themselves to something they don't really want!

DigitalSignal:

...that sometimes when ladies say those things up there, they're lies intended to manipulate the guy; ...that guys should not say they will marry you because you told him those things up there; ...they should not commit themselves to something they don't really want!

shey men also have their own ways of manipulating girls, so na 50-50, if u be better person jes shine your eyes, shikena

Charles4075: Op, were you forced like this?

LOL


@ d pic our husbands Have gone mad again

Babes been trapping guys since 600BC....aint nothing new....pregnancy being the oldest trick....anyways,i think that's not advisable ..u force a man Dat doesn't really love u ....u might end up in a violent nd abusive marriage or worst still end up as Oscar pistorious babe...six feet under..

Nawa o:

So?

it happens but u gotta use ya head
Girl: my ex came back from UK and asked for my forgiveness

Guy: hope u forgave him

Girl:yea i did but wasn't from my mind

Guy: ok

Girl:guess what

Guy: i bought u gift right

Girl: not that he proposed to me

Guy:halleluyah , so did u accept

Girl:i told him i would think abt it

Guy: what! Better think ooo @ least i have seen someone to take this BURDEN off me

GIRL:did i hear u well, did you just called me a burden?

Guy: am not responsible for what you understand but better accept that proposal

lawrenceunaa: it happens but u gotta use ya head
Girl: my ex came back from UK and asked for my forgiveness

Guy: hope u forgave him

Girl:yea i did but wasn't from my mind

Guy: ok

Girl:guess what

Guy: i bought u gift right

Girl: not that he proposed to me

Guy:halleluyah , so did u accept

Girl:i told him i would think abt it

Guy: what! Better think ooo @ least i have seen someone to take this BURDEN off me

GIRL:did i hear u well, did you just called me a burden?

Guy: am not responsible for what you understand but better accept that proposal

Bro, this your head get as e bi o!

Me I dey advice them to follow their hearts; ...marry the ex anybody if they feel ok with it. I ask them to marry based on love; I don't commit myself no matter how I feel. They can only come back to ask "Is this all you can say? Don't you love me?"
At least the answer you find to the above questions will better than making promises you can't fulfill or regret later on or made out of pride!