So someone asked in a thread "What does guys benefit from a relationship without Sex". Well too many numbering & replies, so rather than make a comment kind of reply, I decided to create a thread. Surprisingly, some girls who read it couldn't give a tangible reason.
Anyways lets go....

Correct

Nice write up Op, but wait re you male or female

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Wobbish

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Tallesty1: Wobbish

Initially i wantd 2 say "go hang ursef". but dat'll b stupid of me. So i'll say "Awww!!! Thankz 4 ur appreciation. Ure so cool." Hw's dat?

onstelly: Nice write up Op, but wait re you male or female

Emmm, im hmmmm.. dat'll b ...Male. Need 2 update my profile.

martins0: #story for the gods

i tut so as well oooo. funny do u kw ure my namesake? well datz if martins is ur name?

naturally: Correct

Seconded or probably 3rded. Thankz 4 acknowledging da truth. @least derez hope 4 9ja.

What a stupendous piece, nyc1 Op

Nairawriter: Emmm, im hmmmm.. dat'll b ...Male. Need 2 update my profile.

Lol that will be nice

God punish devil dis will make FP

Nairawriter: So someone asked in a thread "What does guys benefit from a relationship without Sex". Well too many numbering & replies, so rather than make a comment kind of reply, I decided to create a thread. Surprisingly, some girls who read it couldn't give a tangible reason.
Anyways lets go....
So you feel it's symbiosis when you give ur gf some cash and she don't give u sex? Well sorry to say but such a dumbass thing to say. What you stand to gain is more than you can get from Sex.
1) Bragging Rights: When u are sitting with ur guys & dey talk of deir gfs, well u too get urz to brag abt but if u dnt hv, well u become mute or dat kind of guy dat shows dem a gal photo on ur fone & lie dat she's ur babe & maybe back it up with ur chat msgs. Like seriously if u see my chat msgs with d galz i keep in touch wit, u'll thk dey're my gfs but nufin lyk dat. Wat abt dose galz "shakara-ing" 4 u? Well u get the point.
2) A Non-Relative Who Loves You: It counts to see someone who luvs & cares abt u, besides ur relations. D feeling is superb. U dnt hv 2 luk @ ha & tell ha 'hw i wish u are my gf & not relative' cuz newsflash she is ur gf.
3) Someone to Cry on Ur Shoulder: U thk it dont counts? den u obviously hvnt experienced it. U probably dnt kw d amt of pleasure u'll get wen ur gf lay on ur shoulder & u are dere 2 console ha. Heck! Ure both benefiting 4rm it.
4) More Money: Anyhow u see it, givers never lack even if it's to your gf. And oh asking for something in return, that's bullshit. Love don't ask for something in return. The more money u give her, the more money you get. It's a basic rule. Now if she should give u sex, den she'll neva lack even if she marries & her hubby, probably u, is away, she'll get it 4rm anoda guy. Do u want dat? Guess not.
5) Someone to Share Ur Burdens With: Galz are best wen it cums 2 sharin burdens & showin understandin. Plus dey re very encouraging & optimistic. Wen u feel down, ur gf wl b dere 2 encourage u. Dere are jst some tinz u cnt tell ur guys, cuz Nna, dey wl laff u. but a gf will encourage u no matta hw stupid it may sound.
6) Respect: She'll respect u. Ha parents wl respect u. Ha future hubby if not u wl too. U also prove u respect ha body, religion, etc. Take or leave it, itz rape if u insist & successfully had s*x wit ur gf, wen she really didnt want 2, even if she lets u do it prob cuz of the money u gv ha. if she sues, u'll kw.
7) Someone to Kiss & Cuddle: well she'll b dere wen u nid 2 kiss, hug & cuddle. Dis, ur sista & mama cnt gv u.
A Girl Who Adores You: In the times we are nw, getting a gf is hardstuff. So 4 ha 2 accept date u, den she just increased ur heights. U probably 4get, dere were others after ha as well but she chose u cuz she adores u & sees u relevant & datz priviledge not opportunity. Hate me men if u wish but tis true. Guy if u chase different galz & no one gree 4 u, u'll be frustrated, & get my point.
9) A Non-Cheating GF: Most guys & galz hv more dan one bf/gf at a tym. Nw if ur gf hv 2 oda guys wu gv ha cash & also wants sex like u, den she'll b gvn u 3. wen ure hittin ur gf, hv it crossd ur mind dat anoda guy also hits dat spot, probably d prev day. wat if he was beta in givin ha, his stuff was bigger & shez jst not gettin as much 4rm u or....etc.
Wat if one of dem gvs ha std? den u get more dan u bargained 4. seriously d pleasure u get 4rm d sex only lasts 4 dat period & itz ova till u get it again & den u get addicted, wake up dat monster in u & start cravin 4 more & end up ruin ursef.
Well, the list goes on but I got beta issues to address.
In simple terms, guys who want s*x to gv the cash are selfish. Dey aint ready 4 a relationship. Galz tks 4rm pratically any1 not jst ha bf. Wud u want ur mama or sista 2 s*x u cuz u gv dem allowance also? Wat mks u thk the moni u gv ha cn afford d s*x? Did u evn tell ha dis & she agree 2 it wen u were chasin ha? Y wud u want s*x in return, is she a prostitute? Or does makin ha ur gf mks it s*x subsidy? If u wanna gv moni 4 sex, well go to prostitutes. U wl see ur peanuts cnt afford u the s*x u want @ such cheap rate. And not 2 4get d xpensive prostitute probably lost count num of tyms / men dat has bin dere & probably gav ha flower 2 1 local dude. Infact d more d yrs in it, d higher ha price. Wat abt ur pastors, does he satisfy ur nids / pray 4 only u cuz u pay ur tithe? U probably even want his wife / daughters 2 s*x u cuz u dey put offring. A popular old indian actor said "marriage is price paid 2 hv sex". If u want sex, den marry ha. U cnt / not old enuf? well zip it. Imagine dis: a gal decides 2 s*x ha bf 1ce a wk. she date 3 guys in 3 yrs (probably started at 17. She's nw 20, tho itz 3 guys, we hv 52 wks in a yr. Datz ova 150 bout of s*x. Wl u happily marry such a gal? Guys tends 2 marry galz dat kip demselvs rada dan d s*x-money exchangers. Galz If u dnt want 2 & ur bf kips insistin cuz he gvs u moni, kick his balls hard, shove his moni down his throat & walk away 4 such disrespect. Imagine guys get 2 loose 5yrs 4 each sex dey hv, dey'll probably learn 2 buckle up. Mtchew, Woman was created 2 help man, not s*x him.
Next tym im chanced, I'll post hw 2 identify a guy who luvs or lust after u. Back 2 my blog coding.

#Datz my 50Cents

op, plz come and date me *sad face*

Op, come n date me biko Op, come n date me biko

OP no offence but this is utter trash!

I can't see any sense in this, and that's just me being polite. did someone really sit down and compose this?

op, I don't believe you're a guy. u probably just want us to think so to buttress ur point but this definitely can't come from a guy. wtf, u know nothing about guys cos we don't give two fûcks about any of those things u mentioned

lirusehn:
2 things involved.

it's either u're foolish or u purposely dont wanna use ur brain.


For crying out loud what's ur point? What has it got to do with the other thread?

I tot u were gonna answer him but u only gave the perfect definition of foolishness

Abeg o na today i just the understand wetin foolishness mean from op via you o

xpensiv05: Op, come n date me biko Op, come n date me biko

Nay...you are too xpensive for op see me here am ready to evertin op said for u if dat is wat u want

Exjoker: Nay...you are too xpensive for op see me here am ready to evertin op said for u if dat is wat u want

Really? Plz come to me

I can get what the op listed together with the sex but that doesn't mean sex is all I seek for in a girl. I see sex as mutual benefits and I also believe a girl have something to offer more than sex. I cant take any girl serious if sex is all she got to offer, same way I can't date without sex or else I will be cheating on her

xpensiv05:
Really? Plz come to me

Sure im alredy there for you buh i will say my proposal to you in the next comin wooin competitation

In your bid to buttress your points you just ended up objectising the women you're advocating for! I'll keep saying it, if i pay for an object, i must be able to get the maximum utility from that object example a car, and even women inclusive. So young man, for the singular fact that ladies have been using your brain all this while doesnt mean other guys should follow your footsteps. No decent woman would go about collecting money from guys and wouldnt be wise enough to know that there's something attached, or is she a charity home? Atleast to whom money is given, puuuussssy is expected

i dont support sex in relationship cos after breakup , there comes yet another boyfrn who continue 'sexing' u . What have u become?


A prostitute i guess

Nonsensical write up. I dont lyk to be cheated likewise cheating people, let me be d one to tell u i dont want sex n no dat u will tell me u dont want sex in our relationship n will be phocking around d neighbourhood.

Lovely piece. I hope the guys are reading this.

lirusehn:
2 things involved.

it's either u're foolish or u purposely dont wanna use ur brain.


For crying out loud what's ur point? What has it got to do with the other thread?

I tot u were gonna answer him but u only gave the perfect definition of foolishness

Wow! im blushin. such kind words. i get dat often. i cudnt agree any less. but wait o, dat mks d 2 of us. Lyk criously, did u read d full post & understand it?? cuz if u didnt, den d content of ur comment well describes ur comment & worse, i jst wasted my tym replyin u!!! cuz ive got a busy schedule.

See forces! My fone been down & no power since i posted dis article. Hv 2 result into using UPS. Anyways now dat there is power 2 charge, I'll attend 2 some commentz.

Onyiibazz: In your bid to buttress your points you just ended up objectising the women you're advocating for! I'll keep saying it, if i pay for an object, i must be able to get the maximum utility from that object example a car, and even women inclusive. So young man, for the singular fact that ladies have been using your brain all this while doesnt mean other guys should follow your footsteps. No decent woman would go about collecting money from guys and wouldnt be wise enough to know that there's something attached, or is she a charity home? Atleast to whom money is given, puuuussssy is expected

I hate wen sum1 jump into concl abt me. dat u jst did. Now par ur reply, ure probably ryt but i got 2 tinz 4 u.
1) u dnt expect ur car 2 tk u 2 kaduna, tho itz capable, but not wit jst 2 litres of petrol. u gotta full d tank 2ce 2 achieve dat.
2) u cn utilize ur own car 2 max but not anoda's car, esp a rented car. u wont put ur own doc in the dashboard as u wud in ur car or put wool coverin on the seats. u wont ovaspeed d car. u wl use it carefully. most ppl wl topup d car b4 / afta use & wash it b4 givin it bck 2 d owner. cuz it aint urs. Ur wife z urs & u cn utilize ha 2 max but not ur gf. shez ha fadas. shez lyk d rented car.