I am really asking because i think some Boy's are being used to achieve financial needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship that does not involve sex or any romantic activities.
But he spends on her, he takes her out and pay for her private needs.

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?


If you are not into sex, because of religious purpose, then why are you into a relationship?

Why not save the money and give to the orphanage and receive blessings, if you are so
religious?

And for the girls, If you are not ready for sex before marriage, why are you ready for demanding from your boyfriend before marriage?

I wonder ooo.... Me sef I don tire for everything about love and relationship, na book I dey face now....

Wow front page things...

#bottom line: "If u can't beat them, arrange to have dem beaten"
How I wish u could be so wise to change dat 'beat' to 'f.uck'

who i go ask?...true talk sha

In God we trust cos to win is a must insha allah......
Chicks aint loyal bro but d devil has lost.......

...They just want to feel among

solomonbrown64: ...They just want to feel among

na u go knw...c ya mouth lyk feel among.Shuld al relatnshp b based on Sex?

Nothing! Dating is a waste of time, money, energy etc.


We will have less broke asss guys if we can use the time and money we waste on women to plan our future.

The amount some guys spend on their girlfriend is sometimes more than what married folks spend on their wife and kids. It is just pathetic.

I just don't know why

MissMalia: na u go knw...c ya mouth lyk feel among.Shuld al relatnshp b based on Sex?

Madam, e never reach dis level na.,.....
Op opened a thread, he asked for an opinion, i gave him one........
Pls, i dont like dis harassment, Ogini?

solomonbrown64:

Madam, e never reach dis level na.,.....
Op opened a thread, he asked for an opinion, i gave him one........
Pls, i dont like dis harassment, Ogini?

ar u telln me u didn't c d comic tone in my post...I neva meant any harm.btw,dt"ogini"reminded me of sum1...hmmm,I olp its nt u

MissMalia: ar u telln me u didn't c d comic tone in my post...I neva meant any harm.btw,dt"ogini"reminded me of sum1...hmmm,I olp its nt u

Alright then, ..........
Nah, i doubt if i am dat fellow, .....
hope he/she wasnt a bad memory?

solomonbrown64:

Alright then, ..........
Nah, i doubt if i am dat fellow, .....
hope he/she wasnt a bad memory?

kinda

lol, please no fight oooo.

just asking because its very confusing to me.

I dont even know why most Girls (Nigerian girls especially) see sex as a very big gift to their boyfriend.


the man you take as boyfriend loses his money to take you out
the man you take as boyfriend loses his money to buy you some gifts and recharge cards
he calls you almost everyday and yet when it comes to that special thing they need from you (which you even enjoy), you start giving excuses.
If you dont love him, why not tell him, so that he will look for somebody else, instead of defrauding him

A last longing association, should be symbiotic

so my innocent question still remains.

"WHAT IS THAT SYMBIOSIS IN A SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP"

MissMalia: kinda

Ehyah, buh i m sure u hav moved on....

I perfectly understand where the poster is coming from

Hell No wil I go into a relationship witout sex, it aint sure we r gona gt married. I culd remember wen she told me no sex in our relationship, cos she made a covenant with God.... I reminded her abt it when we were on d 2nd round..... I guess she tinks God wil understand....

valdes00: Hell No wil I go into a relationship witout sex, it aint sure we r gona gt married. I culd remember wen she told me no sex in our relationship, cos she made a covenant with God.... I reminded her abt it when we were on d 2nd round..... I guess she tinks God wil understand....

Lol,, you one hell of a bad'ass.

any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

She said no killing of cat and ok I agree but I tot since she said no killing of cat she won't demand but yet she turned me to her father
Each time I try to kill her cat she will say she is saving her cat for her future husband
But she will demand moni to buy fone and do oda tins yet no CAT KILLING
Op u re right if we must date if u re not interested in ma moni dn amu not interested in killing ua cat simple

Ezegozie: I am really asking because i think some Boy's are being used to achieve financial needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship that does not involve sex or any romantic activities.
But he spends on her, he takes her out and pay for her private needs.

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?


If you are not into sex, because of religious purpose, then why are you into a relationship?

Why not save the money and give to the orphanage and receive blessings, if you are so
religious?

And for the girls, If you are not ready for sex before marriage, why are you ready for demanding from your boyfriend before marriage?

In my own case i was waiting till marriage while she was busy fu¤king around...happens to many guys as well......

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

Hippocrites... While a guy is busy loving u, another guy is at d corner shaking ya punny...diaris god oooo

solomonbrown64: ...They just want to feel among

yes

solomonbrown64:

Ehyah, buh i m sure u hav moved on....

I hope so...

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

Any love based on spending is bound to suffer that's how we men see it.

@OP- Someone once said keeping your girl untouched, is a sure way to censor what may likely go in and out of her, when you aren't watching. You must agree that you wouldn't hurt too badly, if only the surface is as far as a contender could get.

MissMalia: I hope so...

must have been really bad, ....
just try and move on..

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

if u really mean "LOVE,"then d responsibility of the guy(for instance taking the girl out,buying her expensive gifts etc)should be vise versa.

if sex is what u define by gain in a relationship. den your not really ripe to go into the murky waters of relationship.

solomonbrown64:

must have been really bad, ....
just try and move on..

Tnx.

i belong.

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

and not money/gifts too

Self control

I wonder