Its been long i went really deep on a topic. I decided to do this for my single and unmarried bebes on NL. Reassess yourself and see if you fall in any of the categories i'l gonna mention and work towards dropping it entirely.

There are certain negative traits you may exhibit that put off your potential partner from getting close to you,becoming friendly with you or proposing and getting married to you.

These threads are a huge turn off and make we men exit form your life faster than a bullet from Kurt Cobain. They literally pursue men. We only stay for a while to chop and clean mouth.

No epistle so i'l talk only a little on all of 'em.
Here we go.....

#1 PRIDE: this is the mother of all turn-offs. When a woman feels she has arrived,doesn't need a man's fellowship,friendship,intimacy or support. When she sees every man as below her. She may pray from now till thy kingdom come and no man will marry her.

#2 LOQUACITY: if you talk too much, you send a signal that you are unserious,flippant, and cannot keep a secret. Amebos are a no no for all guys. I repeat, ALL guys.

#3 COMPETITION: when you see him as someone to compete with, someone you have to prove a point to, a rival. It repels us! We will not marry you!

#4 LAZINESS: this could be the #1 sef. We want the proverbs 31 kinda woman who is hardworking, enterprising and serious minded. If you are the lazy type OYO for you sha.

#5 LYING: chai! This is as bad as it gets. You distort facts, create events that never happened(maybe in your imagination) or avoid the truth. You are living a lie. Saying you live in V.I when you live in Okokomaiko. The day we find out, e don be for you.

#6 COVETIOUSNESS: living above your means just to keep up with fashion trends,your friends and high society is covetiousness. We fear this kinda ladies. They can liquidate dangote in a week. We cant marry you na.

#7 NAGGING: communication they say, is the key to a succesfull relationship. Complaining, nagging, anger and the silent treatment will never produce the kind of response you initially would want from us.

#8 NEUROTIC ATTACHMENT: keeping a tight leash on a guy as if you're his mother. Chai, ok. You follow our every movement,monitor our calls, spy our emails and even interrogate our female friends. Is your plan to put us in a maximum security prison when we marry you?? When we realise this, we simply and stylishly sekem outta your life.

#9 LACK OF COMMITMENT TO CHRIST: Ok, we might not be the one to preach this but still, no man wants a wife who can not bring up his children in a godly way. Besides, God can stylishly keep your Mr Right on Hold.

#10 LACK OF COMPASSION: we dont need a james bond as a wife! Show your emotion, love and compassion and we go weak! Thats why you are women right?

GUY HOPPING: playing local,foreign and international and even champions league at the same time might leave you without winning any. Stick to him till he doesn't deserve you anymore. If you play all these leagues in quick succession, we sack you like moyes!


DISCLAIMER: you might be single and not be guilty of any of these. Keep being who you are and Mr Right will come along one day. Some ladies have some, most or all of these traits and yet they are married. It all depends on the kind of man involved. But i tell you, 90% of men will not marry a lady with these traits.

Nice one!

#Excessive Make-Up: Those ladies thinking excessive make up means beauty,be warned o,men are not small children but we too dont like Ojuju-Calabar

#Bleaching: Its not all men that like yellow girls o! No man will want to marry and end up seeing Black and Yellow patches all over his wife,Ewww! Abi una wan turn Wiz Khalifa? #BlackAndYellow

Tnk God u have!!!

Threads on single ladies this and that everywhere. Threads on marriage everywhere too na wa o, single ladies e don be for una.

Op dey haf ear.

Very nice, I still want to argue on dis, but I dnt want to show my madness in public

In as much I will like to argue this, I swear you have made some point

marieolae: Very nice, I still want to argue on dis, but I dnt want to show my madness in public

lol! We can always make it private you know

Evn tho I didn't read it OP, I'm still sure you did a great job.

Arva: Evn tho I didn't read it OP, I'm still sure you did a great job.

even without reading ...........................i bow off bizzare

kiddaBlingzz,

So you can do some other thing well other than washing plates and finding trouble?

Beautiful write-up..Let the ladies take proper note of these and make adjustment if they possess some or all these characteristics..it for the good of you people.

KiddaBlingzz: lol! We can always make it private you know

marieolae: Very nice, I still want to argue on dis, but I dnt want to show my madness in public

you better talk now b4 is 2 late..

Pride is what i detest most in a lady...
I hate forming like shitt...

@op nice one, i felt happy wen i read it.

Nice points

Good points.

No 11.poor hygeine
No 12. Poor vocabulary
No 13. Poor vision in life...I just want to meet prince charming and we ll live happily ever after...what about your personal goals?

@op, for your mind naw, women don't have choice abi? Well, what will be-will be. Because I have seen really good women who are still single, all because men consider them as being boring. U try sha!

@op, for your mind naw, women don't have choice abi? Well, what will be-will be. Because I have seen really good women who are still single, all because men consider them as being boring. U tried sha!

EJanni: @op, for your mind naw, women don't have choice abi? Well, what will be-will be. Because I have seen really good women who are still single, all because men consider them as being boring. U tried sha!

boring? Seriously?

U just nailed it,OP...if cn handle a lady wit few of dis traits,but PRIDE is a NO NO for me.

RockyTeee: boring? Seriously?

they will call the person mgbeke (nerd). And happening girls interest majority of men alot. speaking from expirience

EJanni: they will call the person mgbeke (nerd). And happening girls interest majority of men alot. speaking from expirience

thank God you said majority...it means there are still some minority who wont mind having such

RockyTeee: thank God you said majority...it means there are still some minority who wont mind having such

ofcourse yes, there are.

I officially renounce my Amebo aka Aproko life

jnrbayano: kiddaBlingzz,

So you can do some other thing well other than washing plates and finding trouble?

hehehe
behold you said it yourself

;o what am i saw on your siggy?

KiddaBlingzz: hehehe
behold you said it yourself

;o what am i saw on your siggy?

I don't have access to my mail. I wrote it on my profile na

marieolae: I don't have access to my mail. I wrote it on my profile na

why?