r231:

I did earlier.......

It's called help until we get update in 5 yrs time

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even if she's 30 years of age, she would still jump at the offer. university tuition for free, free accommodation, free food, etc ......all in South Africa?

you gotta

A single, jobless, uneducated 30yo probably would.

A 19 year old has all the time and limitless opportunities ahead of her. At 30 she could be married with kids, working as a doctor in the US, not SA ooooh.

r231:

Did you miss the part where she is flaunting everything on facebook......

She is 19yrs so she can make her own decision

she's enjoying it .... who doesn't like money?

Ujujoan:
A single, jobless, uneducated 30yo probably would.

you have lost touch with reality.
a married woman with a job at 30 would still jump at the offer. where were you when a scammer took 7,000 nigerians to dreamland by promising he would take them to canada?

A 19 year old has all the time and limitless opportunities ahead of her. At 30 she could be married with kids, working as a doctor in the US, not SA ooooh.

with the poverty level described by the OP, she's likelier to have ended up with a wooden stall selling tomtom, kolanut, boiled eggs & benson & hedges cigarettes. time & limitless opportunities ahead of her?

your second name must be josephine

I feel for the poor lady
The man's just gona be choppping punny left, right and center
Perfect avenue for abuse too

And what kinda marriage are we even talking about here? The one that she has to go into because the man took care of her? What happened to mutual love being the basis of marriage?



seriously, it's this girl that'll bear all the brunt.
And nobody should even give me the story of he ain't expecting nothing in return.
@op, why didn't he even get her an apartment to start with? Why must they live in the same house?

alutacontinua: I feel for the poor lady
The man's just gona be choppping punny left, right and center
Perfect avenue for abuse too

And what kinda marriage are we even talking about here? The one that she has to go into because the man took care of her? What happened to mutual love being the basis of marriage?



seriously, it's this girl that'll bear all the brunt.
And nobody should even give me the story of he ain't expecting nothing in return.
@op, why didn't he even get her an apartment to start with? Why must they live in the same house?

who else does she know ? he brought her there and he's unmarried

Toby77:

who else does she know ? he brought her there and he's unmarried

There are no free apartments in south africa?


Really, it's none of your business if her family has sanctioned it but for the purpose of discussion, the arrangement does not feel right.

alutacontinua:
There are no free apartments in south africa?


Really, it's none of your business if her family has sanctioned it but for the purpose of discussion, the arrangement does not feel right.

But why should he get her a free apartment, doesn't make any sense. He's taking responsibility over her and the parents her comfortable. why should she stay somewhere else? Even if she stays somewhere else, who will pay the bills? won't she eat and take care of herself....where will all that come from.

It's none of my biz as the babe is already there and supposedly enjoying

i just dey do philosophy

Toby77:

But why should he get her a free apartment, doesn't make any sense. He's taking responsibility over her and the parents her comfortable. why should she stay somewhere else? Even if she stays somewhere else, who will pay the bills? won't she eat and take care of herself....where will all that come from.

It's none of my biz as the babe is already there and supposedly enjoying

i just dey do philosophy

what can I say?
I just hope she finds the strength to get outta there if things go south

Oh poor girl

Shes into slavery... Western Slavery

UPDATE

She's back........yaaaaay

Apparently, not all that glitters is Gold .....The man was into yahoo runs but fronts with a legit cybercafe running business(who knows what else he is into(drugs/prostitution) and was looking to train a wife/protege into his yahoo ways, babe refused and she's back home in her father's house . I was even surprised she didn't take the bait, she must have been a truly naive girl and thought it was a genuine opportunity. I just knew the whole parole was too smooth not to have some k leg somewhere

Anyway, am still struggling to know this man's real motive. he spent up to 350k for what, what has he gained? why bring her all the way to SA just for yahoo. The whole thing still doesn't make sense to me. Anyway, I think the real motive was he intended to train a drug smuggler, cos that's the only thing that seems to justify all the investments the guy made.

Hindsight is truly 20/20 and where are all those who will say 'mind your business'

I no fit laugh. All those who made comments supporting the Man, Diaris God o

Toby77:
UPDATE

She's back........yaaaaay

Apparently, not all that glitters is Gold .....The man was into yahoo runs but fronts with a legit cybercafe running business(who knows what else he is into(drugs/prostitution) and was looking to train a wife/protege into his yahoo ways, babe refused and she's back home in her father's house . I was even surprised she didn't take the bait, she must have been a truly naive girl and thought it was a genuine opportunity. I just knew the whole parole was too smooth not to have some k leg somewhere

Anyway, am still struggling to know this man's real motive. he spent up to 350k for what, what has he gained? why bring her all the way to SA just for yahoo. The whole thing still doesn't make sense to me. Anyway, I think the real motive was he intended to train a drug smuggler, cos that's the only thing that seems to justify all the investments the guy made.

Hindsight is truly 20/20 and where are all those who will say 'mind your business'

I no fit laugh. All those who made comments supporting the Man, Diaris God o

I am very Happy things turned out This way.

The arrangement was wrong in all ramifications