Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it may
appear at first. For starters, most of them want to
be true to their spouses, but for that extra boost to
ensure fidelity, try these steps.
Respect him as you would want him to respect you
Remind him from time to time why he's your man.
In other words, take the time to make him feel
special as if he's the only one in your life.
Tell him how handsome he is every now and
then.
Validate your man on a daily basis. Whether he
works outside of the house, is currently
unemployed or a stay-at-home Dad, (if you're
married) your man still needs to feel like a man.
You know he is, make sure he knows it as well.
Appreciate all the things he does for you. It doesn't
matter whether those thingsare big or small, they
are worth, at the least, a thank you. Spice things
up every once in a while. Tell him your fantasies,
listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.
Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often with him, not at
him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like
or clip out comics from the newspaper and place
them on the fridge, send text or e-mail messages.
Listen first, and then talk. Let him finish what he
has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if
you're not sure about what he said. Do not go with
the general notion; all women are nags. Make a
difference. Listen more, talk less. Be his biggest
supporter! Men don't like to admit it, but they need
reassurances as well. Showing him that you
support him and are there with him through day
to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't
have a need for someone else to fill that need.
Don't lose your own self respect. Stop blaming him
for everything and understand that some things
are beyond your or his control. Feed him. Men
love when a woman cooks for them like mum
does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but,
it's the action that counts. Women claim men are
dogs but remember if you feed a dog he will never
leave home!!! Hold and Cuddle your man, his day
can be just as bad as your day. Remember they are
big kids and when they got upset when they were
younger, mums held them close.
When leaving him alone make sure he has
everything needed. Remember you are already
dressed and ready to go and he is capable of getting
those things. It also shows you care about his needs
or wants as well. Don't ever baby him. He will pull
away from you. He needs to feel like he's the
provider. If you're married, take the family budget
to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts.
Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat and
appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time
to get those kinky and sexy undies, night wears and
dressing that will make him want you more.
Remember, if a man has all he needs in a woman,
he will never go looking for another. Be everything
your man wants.
Do you agree?

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Gee

Epistle...!

Wit ur church mind, do u tink some1 can do ALL of dese? I guess dat simply means men will keep cheatin. Wat happened to 'nobody is perfect' and 'we should learn 2 know our partner's flaws and accept it if we can'? If its only perfection dat will make ur man faithful, i mean......wat to do?

Well said

Vision 9090

Any gal dat practise dis is a fool cos he will definately cheat.OR no be men...LIP SEALED.