CoCoLav: Africa!!!!! So it is now the woman's fault that her husband lacks self control?? She should go and work on her marriage? How about he takes the first step since he destroyed it in the first place. Mtcheeeew!

MzPreshie: Sorry sis, having a cheating husband is really torture. But then, your marriage is too young to be destroyed by some home-wrecker, and you're pregnant. That makes it two lives you're responsible for; your's and the baby's. So whatever decision you want to make, remember kids are always the most affected when their parents are dissolved. And always remember to pray for He is your strength.

esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.

chimerase2: Ma dear wat u hv to knw nw is men re liable to cheat weda married or unmarried
There is noting dat can stop men frm cheating
It is in their DNA
Even if wen dey dnt want der is sometin in between der legs dat will mak dem cheat
Some men try very hard to pretend some men try very hard to reason it dat all cats re cats yes kudos to some but der re still small traces of cheat in der gene
So stop tracing ur husband he is a man he is bound to cheat u can't stop it by tracing him is prayer dat can stop it
Wen next u talk to him encourage him tell him abt sickness associated with it
Tell him if he must cheat use a condom
Dnt quit ur marriage becos de next man too will cheat
Even ma dad cheated on his wife even dos days we lived with our dad mistress while ma mum stayed in east u see dat is wicked cheating
I always watch ma dad kill his cat frm window see amu not joking oh is true life story we all hv story to say I hv plenty of it as a young lad growing up under the tutelage of ma dad mistress with ma sista
So ma dear dnt leave it before it gets worse go back to ur home before ur husband relocates u

Viogu:
I was about to get angry over your comment but after i read that you grew up in a dysfunctional home. it would be very normal to expect a response as dysfunctional as your childhood.

esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.

Secondly, don't expect ur man to help u with chores always, even if u are 8 months pregnant, do ur best and keep ur home clean, do u help him provide money for the family because its obvious u are a full time house wife. ur dirtiness is part of what pushed him out.

Thirdly, how can u deal with the said home wrecker? Will u use juju? Will u fight her? You better concentrate on how to save ur home.

Lastly, why will a graduate marry an illiterate? It must be because of money not humility.

alutacontinua: Some comments on this thread make me wanna weep for the ladies of this generation

axhead: . You sound very judgemental and I don't think you have actually addressed the problem.plus you obviously have a lot to learn about marriage...just my opinion

Viogu:
I was about to get angry over your comment but after i read that you grew up in a dysfunctional home. it would be very normal to expect a response as dysfunctional as your childhood.

esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.

pro01: This Chubby of a boy was probably having an affair with the woman in question. Otherwise, I see no reason why a typical Igbo apprentice (whose loyalty lies 100% with his benefactor and source of livelihood) would risk his future to conspire with madam against his 'master'. At 21, he is far too old to be easily manipulated into such a nonsensical scheme. I hope he has been sent packing; he is obviously a big security risk, and could organise robbers or assassins against his oga one day.

Having said that, the woman's self-righteous and ridiculously smug lamentations have diminished whatever angst she might have been entitled to. Your supposedly highly educated self stooped low to marry an "illiterate businessman"? Ha, seriously? I'll not bother to go into the details of how you so-called "educated" girls are dime a dozen, and at the beck-and-call of these "illiterate" businessmen. I have seen too many examples to last me a lifetime. However, that is a discussion for another day. Suffice it to say, however, that the African Man's privilege of harbouring as many women as his pocket and libido can afford has nothing to do with his level of education.

As interesting as this story is, it really is nothing. When a dog bites a man, that is no news. The real news is when a man bites a dog.. . . . .

www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/09/wife-caught-red-handed.html?m=1

esof1: It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.

Sophyrocks:

So it is better to pretend that she doesnt know or the husband never cheated so that what? so that A baby mama or 2nd wife, HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, hepatitis and other disgusting infections can come knocking at her marriage ba? Ignorance is now better than all the dangers to the marriage?

Viogu:
I was about to get angry over your comment but after i read that you grew up in a dysfunctional home. it would be very normal to expect a response as dysfunctional as your childhood.

Kachisbarbie:

Thankyou o...he would now give her one STD that would bite her unborn baby to death and endanger her too

Sophyrocks:

Before giving advice, do people really calculate the effects in the long run? Telling me to ignore my house when it is on fire and pretend there is no fire? Seriously, i dnt get all this ridiculous nollywood advice people give o!! Any woman who ignores the cheating of her husband is cheating too. Kpomkwem.

Kachisbarbie:

sweetie...I don't blame any 'commenter' or 'Nler' - I blame the people that bring their issues here.
-can't people solve their marital issues privately anymore?
-Are both parents dead?
-doesn't this nigga have one person he listens to/respect?

Mondisweets: wait and see u will be insulted for even mentioned that its him destroying his marriage

thorpido: Yea,ignorance indeed pays more.There are quite a no of ignorant women who find out they are HIV positive when they come to the hospital for routine antenatal screening.