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Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 5:38pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
CoCoLav: Africa!!!!! So it is now the woman's fault that her husband lacks self control?? She should go and work on her marriage? How about he takes the first step since he destroyed it in the first place. Mtcheeeew!wait and see u will be insulted for even mentioning that its him destroying his marriage 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 5:40pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Why? 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 5:47pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
MzPreshie: Sorry sis, having a cheating husband is really torture. But then, your marriage is too young to be destroyed by some home-wrecker, and you're pregnant. That makes it two lives you're responsible for; your's and the baby's. So whatever decision you want to make, remember kids are always the most affected when their parents are dissolved. And always remember to pray for He is your strength. women are funny, he is the one cheating on his wife but for some unknown reason the other woman is the home-wrecker? Please did this woman force herself into this man's live and pointed a gun against his head for him to sleep with her? 10 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Godmystrength: 5:51pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.All this talk about ignorance is bliss does not apply to a cheating partner in marriage o. It is better to know so that you will be able to protect yourself...... My own problem with the woman is that --she carried her BIG BELLE on a BIKE. she doesn't like herself at all 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 5:53pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Some comments on this thread make me wanna weep for the ladies of this generation 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Godmystrength: 5:56pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
chimerase2: Ma dear wat u hv to knw nw is men re liable to cheat weda married or unmarriedyeparipa!!!!!!!!!!!!! who is the person that liked this post?? Imagine ME telling MY HUSBAND to use a condom if he must cheat........Jesu Kristi Olugbala Oko Ijo o 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Viogu: This is a senseless and insensitive comment. How low can you go? 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by zeb04(f): 6:02pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
So many insane advice here. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Chai.... If I say Divorce him now, some people go talk say I bad gan.... FIRST ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS.... (1) Why did u marry an illiterate.... Am sure whatever made you marry him can also make you bear with him.... Dat reason must be incentive enough... Ofcourse, we all know what it is.. (2) Did you feel bad about marrying an illiterate abi na now when him don cheat you come dey consider the fact say him be illiterate.... If u wanna divorce the baga, divorce him, if you want forgive am, forgive am and forever hold your peace... 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by 50calibre(m): 6:16pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more. Damn!! Is this a male or female? So on point!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by greatgod2012(f): 6:18pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Some comments on this thread make me wanna weep for the ladies of this generation obviously, the thread was transfered from romance section to this section. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 6:31pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
This Chubby of a boy was probably having an affair with the woman in question. Otherwise, I see no reason why a typical Igbo apprentice (whose loyalty lies 100% with his benefactor and source of livelihood) would risk his future to conspire with madam against his 'master'. At 21, he is far too old to be easily manipulated into such a nonsensical scheme. I hope he has been sent packing; he is obviously a big security risk, and could organise robbers or assassins against his oga one day. Having said that, the woman's self-righteous and ridiculously smug lamentations have diminished whatever angst she might have been entitled to. Your supposedly highly educated self stooped low to marry an "illiterate businessman"? Ha, seriously? I'll not bother to go into the details of how you so-called "educated" girls are dime a dozen, and at the beck-and-call of these "illiterate" businessmen. I have seen too many examples to last me a lifetime. However, that is a discussion for another day. Suffice it to say, however, that the African Man's privilege of harbouring as many women as his pocket and libido can afford has nothing to do with his level of education. As interesting as this story is, it really is nothing. When a dog bites a man, that is no news. The real news is when a man bites a dog.. . . . . www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/09/wife-caught-red-handed.html?m=1 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by otimothy(m): 6:47pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
that particular tin wey u dey find u don see am nau ur body don cool down abi? u carry ur pot belly dey trace ur husband as u see am why u nor beat am pursue am frm house say u nor do? madam wen the tin dey sweet u nor share am wit us nau wey bitter kola mix am u con write project for us,abeg dey well joor. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 6:49pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Really? 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by kandiikane(m): 7:17pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
axhead: . You sound very judgemental and I don't think you have actually addressed the problem.plus you obviously have a lot to learn about marriage...just my opinion I am glad you wrote this. Well done. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Gosh!! All sort of horrible advice flying up and down this thread. No wonder marriage has no meaning. Truly, the Typical Nigerian marriage is between a woman, her children and a stranger. Pathetic!! 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Viogu: On Point. Exactly my thoughts. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by thorpido(m): 7:49pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.Yea,ignorance indeed pays more.There are quite a no of ignorant women who find out they are HIV positive when they come to the hospital for routine antenatal screening. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Ilovenigeria(f): 8:00pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
pro01: This Chubby of a boy was probably having an affair with the woman in question. Otherwise, I see no reason why a typical Igbo apprentice (whose loyalty lies 100% with his benefactor and source of livelihood) would risk his future to conspire with madam against his 'master'. At 21, he is far too old to be easily manipulated into such a nonsensical scheme. I hope he has been sent packing; he is obviously a big security risk, and could organise robbers or assassins against his oga one day.Chubby is not sleeping with madam. Maybe that woman was very nice to him that he couldn't bear seeing Oga maltreat madam. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by bukatyne(f): 8:06pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Niger marriage kwa I wonder what some women have seen or been thought to give some crazy advices one read on NL. @OP, pele It is well 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 8:08pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
esof1: It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more. So it is better to pretend that she doesnt know or the husband never cheated so that what? so that A baby mama or 2nd wife, HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, hepatitis and other disgusting infections can come knocking at her marriage ba? Ignorance is now better than all the dangers to the marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 8:20pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Thankyou o...he would now give her one STD that would bite her unborn baby to death and endanger her too Viogu: Holy Jesus! That was harssh!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: Before giving advice, do people really calculate the effects in the long run? Telling me to ignore my house when it is on fire and pretend there is no fire? Seriously, i dnt get all this ridiculous nollywood advice people give o!! Any woman who successfully ignores the cheating of her husband is cheating too. Kpomkwem. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: sweetie...I don't blame any 'commenter' or 'Nler' - I blame the people that bring their issues here. -can't people solve their marital issues privately anymore? -Are both parents dead? -doesn't this nigga have one person he listens to/respect? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: People always believe they can always get good advice from a public forum when very few people know how to handle their own marital problems and most times do not even follow their own advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by gidjah(m): 8:42pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
MADAM,pls stay calm,your blood dey rush o!i really understand your plight,let your parent do d mathematics and be humble wit all they will say .let peace and forgivenes reign in your home pls. |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Ilovenigeria(f): 8:53pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Hmmm the woman fainted I thought it only happens in Nigerian movies. |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by CoCoLav(f): 8:57pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Mondisweets: wait and see u will be insulted for even mentioned that its him destroying his marriage Lol. I won't be surprised. I am surrounded by people who think the same way. I have been advised by many people to just fast and pray that God should blind every evil woman so they wont see my husband and I just LOL! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by walex2(m): 9:16pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
My candId opinion not advise 1. This is ur home u must protect it 2. Don t try to forment trouble with the woman it might b e dangerous because she too might have a negative plan against u 3 marriage b etween a graduate and an illiterate is not compatible b ecause ur line of reasoning are different 4 during ur univ ersity or polytechnics days u must have seen 2 or 3 of ur school or classmate who wanted to marry u but u neglected them simply they don't have money like this Ibotiic business man, now u are regreting ur action instead of u to wait and build ur home with ur mate and not the guy who is older than u with 10 yrs an treat u like nobody 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by smokescreen4: 9:30pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
thorpido: Yea,ignorance indeed pays more.There are quite a no of ignorant women who find out they are HIV positive when they come to the hospital for routine antenatal screening.God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by 100Cents: 9:30pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
I hate all these fake stories. If you arent the person it happened to, then get lost.. O boy, women be detectives oo.. |
Re: Help! My Newly-wedded Husband Is Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. by Idrismusty97(m): 11:44pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
What is the title of the movie? |
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