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She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 10:46pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
Hi NLander. Have been the 'read the thread/topic and comments' guy on nairaland (though more active on facebook and twitter) and get out so this topic is simply seeking your opinions and it happens to be my first post under Romance Section. I have this Babe that I am now very fond of and gradually, it is turning to a love affair. She is the kind of Lady that falls under my taste; hardworking, intelligent, social, down to earth and open to communication. I have asked myself several times if I will be comfortable waking up by her side for the rest of my life not looking at container but the content and the answer keeps coming in the affirmative through her actions. She is not orobo and she is not lekpa but I am a bit consign about her when the 69 and Child-bearing process kicks off. Afraid she might add more weight because I am a classical example of letter I. She is a graduate, responsible, works and a leader a small group of young single females in church while I have a young and growing IT company and just conclude my tenure as a Youth Leader in same church (sorry can't name the church). Neva bleeped her cos of personal belief and Church dictate though tempted to smooch at our last meeting. I don't and haven't bleeped before at 29 and cool about it . Of recent, I asked her about her age and she openly told me "I know Ladies don't like telling guys/people their age" and she didn't give me an answer rather she asked me about mine which I told her. I killed the question about her age waiting for another time or for her to tell me of her own volition. Not that I consider age as a prerequisite in relationship for I have known her better now for close to a year due to our increased communication-flow and had even fallen in love with a babe six years older than me (craze dey my head). The quest to know her age was heighten when my Elder Brother and a Friend asked me her age cos of her mature look and poise so I had to ask. What do you think her action of not telling me her age means? Is it that she is afraid that I will leave her which is far from it or She doesn't want to scare me away if She is eventually older than me though marriage for me is no-time-soon and won't want to tie her down if she is in a rush. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by PROCTOR: 10:53pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
They actually won't when they are older than 23 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by iceberylin(m): 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
PROCTOR: They actually won't when they are older than 36ŦĨЖĔĎ |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 10:58pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
@PROCTOR and ICEBERYLIN please elaborate. diff views |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by chimerase2: 11:02pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
When u guys were discussing,playing doing 69 and oda cat killing methods did u call me 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by ERCROSS(m): 11:09pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
^^^ How does this relate with wat d o.p has said... |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 11:20pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
chimerase2: When u guys were discussing,playing doing 69 and oda cat killing methods Do you have an idea of what her action means and why? if not... run along, bro. ERCROSS: ^^^ Thank you Bro for reminding him. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by ideee03(f): 11:22pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
She might be at the same age range with you or older than you.+29 nd still a virgin? That's *coughs* |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by Waspy(m): 11:42pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
She's probably older than you. Or not really serious abt the relationship 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by harrysterol(m): 12:02am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Op bone age jor n do ur tin, she maybe older than u or same age bracket |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 12:20am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Still observing your comments. Thanks @Harrysterol, Waspy and Ideee03 and those yet to comment. harrysterol: Op bone age jor n do ur tin, she maybe older than u or same age bracket Not that I bother much about it just some concerns which Love conquers. ideee03: She might be at the same age range with you or older than you.+29 nd still a virgin? That'sFixed |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by ideee03(f): 12:31am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Lol,ok. And on your signature,it's not practisioner but practitioner charliebiz: Still observing your comments. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by tosyne2much(m): 12:34am On Oct 04, 2014 |
When ladies know deep down within that their age outweigh yours, they tend to flare up in anger and start telling you you need not to be curious about their age.. OP, pls jst have this at the back of your mind that this thing is common with 9ja babes.. Just know that you can neva get a generally acceptable answer to this ur kweshion cos the reasons why dey refuse to tell their exact age cannot be overemphasized |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 12:59am On Oct 04, 2014 |
ideee03: Lol,ok. And on your signature,it's not practisioner but practitionerThanks. Didn't see that. Guess my brain and muscle memory weren't correlating at that time. tosyne2much: When ladies know deep down within that their age outweigh yours, they tend to flare up in anger and start telling you you need not to be curious about their age.. OP, pls jst have this at the back of your mind that this thing is common with 9ja babes.. Just know that you can neva get a generally acceptable answer to this ur kweshion cos the reasons why dey refuse to tell their exact age cannot be overemphasized In this case, she didn't flare up rather she smiled sheepishly and threw the kweshion back when I pushed further with a guess. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by happyjuliet(f): 1:23am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Are u really sure ur babe as all dis qualities? If u said u were beginning 2 fall 4 her y are u so bother about her age? It is not a crime 2 ask of her age oooooh. Even if she decided 2 tell u or u later find out she is 5X older dan u what will u do? In relationship age does not really matter, what matters is d love u guys have 4 each other . 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by LibrarianD: 7:40am On Oct 04, 2014 |
@ op, u are here dreaming about this lady on NL , kindly do the needful and intimate her of your feelings , her response will now determine if you can relaunch the question . I personally feel it's not polite for my friend to ask for my age directly. However, you may get her age by probing her educational background |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by Nobody: 7:57am On Oct 04, 2014 |
she is 31. dont marry her until you are 35 goodluck |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by DECOtech(m): 10:12am On Oct 04, 2014 |
A lady who cannot openly tell her man how old she is could most definitely be a bag of secrets. Brother, ask your pastor to confirm; Secrets do suffocate relationships Except you are a carefreewnnabe. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by tosyne2much(m): 11:05am On Oct 04, 2014 |
DECOtech:May you live long my broda |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by philantoxx(m): 11:17am On Oct 04, 2014 |
she's may be close to her peak bro. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by barthchuks(m): 11:20am On Oct 04, 2014 |
ideee03:Are surprised about that or are you feeling some sort of shame for yourself? |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by valmunich(m): 11:29am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Go ahead wif it if you love. Age is just a number after all |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 1:31pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
happyjuliet: happyjuliet: Yea She has those qualities and that is why I fell for her. LibrarianD: Okay. thanks krall: Thanks for the advise. How do you know she is 31? DECOtech: DECOtech: Wise words. though she had been open to me concerning somethings sha which I cannot reveal here. Just that the age question was an unexpected one. Will pick maturity in thoughts and actions over age even if younger. Though the diff don't have to be much. philantoxx: valmunich: ok |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by DECOtech(m): 2:26pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
charliebiz:Of course she can be open abt past issues she doesn't consider as strongly as her age. How's it gonna be in the future when issues she considers stronger than her age arises? 1-Wld she be able to tell you that her friend advised her to watch u closely cos u might be cheating while you are not? 2-Wld she tell you that ur son or daughter messed up really bad to allow you administer your fatherly authority or hide them from you in the name of motherly protection? 3-Would she rather ask you for money to buy things for herself than to add extra 10k to children's school fees? 4-And some other little secrets that might not matter at the moment. Number 1 happened btw my parents but thank God for wisdom n openness btw mum n dad, the devil failed. Number 2 happens presently in a friend's family. To d extent his daughter got pregnant, d mum took her to abort it, the father only got a wind of it when they wr asked to bring plenty money cos of complications. Number 3 was btw an Ex n I. The relationship barely lasted 5months. The girl collects almost 3times her school fees from her dad and shares it with her mum. I walked out of the relationship when I asked of her age and she found it a big deal to tell me. A small girl for that matter. Till date she calls me wicked, but this is me. I hate secrets Pls brother, I'm not tryn to scare you. You are d one who knows the lady you have talked about better than any of us in this forum. Just shine ur eyes. 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by charliebiz(m): 4:28pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
^^^ Alwite. Thanks for the insight. Guess it is not just a matter of now but the future and her principles. Your post has given me more insights to why it is not about the number in age but principle. 1000 likes. If eventually she tells me cause I will ask again, guess I will take note of her reaction and make her see the reason for my asking. Even if she eventually lies about it, I will definitely know one day and that might leave a scar in the relationship if not break-up. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by fyneboi79(m): 4:49pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
charliebiz:Christ embassy / She is older than u |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by kay29000(m): 4:59pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
charliebiz: Girls don't usually like disclosing their age to guys, but from what I have read itln your case, she is probably older than you, that's why she doesn't feel comfortable revealing her age to u. The fact that your elder brother asked u for her age also comfirms this. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by Sarimah(f): 5:18pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
I guess she's older dan u nd she's scared of telling u cos she feel u might dump her |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by chibwike(m): 5:24pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Sarimah:hw re u |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Sarimah:hehehe! na wah ooo |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by Sarimah(f): 5:29pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
richommie:wat is wah? |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Tell Me Her Age. What Does It Mean? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Sarimah:its a slang! pidgin precisely ...aint u a nigerian? |
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