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Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 10:53am On Oct 07, 2014
Marriage should held with high esteem. The sanctity of marriage should be maintain by both the man and the women. No one should cheat on the other. If one cheat, the other can also cheat.

Some people say that the man can cheat but the woman should not cheat as if the woman is immune to jealousy. That is a very dumb statement. Why will a man be flirting around and the woman will be watching. It doesn't make sense at all. I for one will not cheat on my wife when i get married but if i cheat on my wife, my wife should also cheat on me unless she decide to forgive me. One should not rob the other.

The issue is, no one has the liscense to cheat whether the man or the woman. But if one cheat, the other can also cheat if he or she decide to.

So, let there be no cheating in marriage.

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Heycube(m): 11:03am On Oct 07, 2014
Being married won't heal you, Being single won't kill you!

What might kill you is being in a stress filled relationship, being abused physically, emotionally or mentally, being ignored, being taking advantage of...

Soldier go soldier come d barrack still stand gidigba. #YouWillWearOutInNoTime. So shit u wanna cheat.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by delishpot: 11:03am On Oct 07, 2014
Just**********sniffing around.
Wait make dem catch you. Waiiiit for itttttt!


Did I hear you say who? Ok, when dem arrive, you will know who I was reffering to.


By the way, I am with you half of the way. If one cheats, the other shouldnt roll in $hit like the dirty partner, if you cant cope, move out and move on. Find a new partner and live your life or live single.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 07, 2014
No cheating is the deal.......no trying to get even too
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Nobody: 11:17am On Oct 07, 2014
Cheating is kinda good but bad at the same time. But I wouldn't advise any one too. I mean it's better to get a divorce, kids split apart, then for one to cheat.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 11:56am On Oct 07, 2014
TrollMan:
Cheating is kinda good but bad at the same time. But I wouldn't advise any one too. I mean it's better to get a divorce, kids split apart, then for one to cheat.
hw is cheating good?

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by MabraO: 12:12pm On Oct 07, 2014
Cheating is wen either the man or woman doesn't know about the affair

I see lotta people practice open relationship/marriage where they both know they each ve an extra marital affair

in the world where I came from cheating/open relationship/marriage is allowed
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by teeghurl(f): 12:47pm On Oct 07, 2014
TrollMan:
Cheating is kinda good but bad at the same time. But I wouldn't advise any one too. I mean it's better to get a divorce, kids split apart, then for one to cheat.
On wat ground r u advocating 4 divorce? Cos u wanna cheat? undecided
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 1:13pm On Oct 07, 2014
teeghurl:
On wat ground r u advocating 4 divorce? Cos u wanna cheat? undecided
help me ask am.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 07, 2014
teeghurl:
On wat ground r u advocating 4 divorce? Cos u wanna cheat? undecided

In another way round, that's What I'm saying.
I think it's much better. Or don't you think so?..
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by teeghurl(f): 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2014
TrollMan:


In another way round, that's What I'm saying.
I think it's much better. Or don't you think so?..
Y get married in d 1st place when u still wanna cheat? Y dnt u jst remain single n do ur thing instead of dragging d innocent kids into d mess
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Nobody: 1:41pm On Oct 07, 2014
teeghurl:
Y get married in d 1st place when u still wanna cheat? Y dnt u jst remain single n do ur thing instead of dragging d innocent kids into d mess

I'm not planning to cheat, No.

What I'm saying is, it's better to get a divorce than to cheat in a consummated relationship.

If you wanna cheat on your partner, do it properly. Get a divorce and go on a cheating spree.

That's what I stand on.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by teeghurl(f): 2:34pm On Oct 07, 2014
TrollMan:


I'm not planning to cheat, No.

What I'm saying is, it's better to get a divorce than to cheat in a consummated relationship.

If you wanna cheat on your partner, do it properly. Get a divorce and go on a cheating spree.

That's what I stand on.
I quite understand ur point brov but what I'm saying is, divorce is very bad. It affects all d parties invloved while d children bear d greatest brunt. No man or woman shd be dt callous n selfish to cheat on their spouse once they've made d vow. There's no joy in a broken home n cheating. It all leads to destruction. My submission

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 2:56pm On Oct 07, 2014
teeghurl:
I quite understand ur point brov but what I'm saying is, divorce is very bad. It affects all d parties invloved while d children bear d greatest brunt. No man or woman shd be dt callous n selfish to cheat on their spouse once they've made d vow. There's no joy in a broken home n cheating. It all leads to destruction. My submission
u hv spoken well.

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 5:35pm On Oct 07, 2014
I dnt why people will marry and cheat on their partner.

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by GoodFaith: 5:37pm On Oct 07, 2014
Women can do has they wish
In my house don't let the door hit u on ur way out
Men don't get pregnant
Lot of married women Fucking two men don't who is the baby daddy
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by cooljoe(m): 6:02pm On Oct 07, 2014
D way I c t, cheatin is a no no from eida parties. Howeva in most parts of d world, esp in Africa, t kinda seems like society pardons d man wen e cheats but frowns wen d woman does same. D reason for dis is not clearly defined, but ts quite easy to draw an analogy - u knw hw everyone despises a padlock dat can b open wit any(most) keys, whereas any key dat can open many padlocks is hailed as a "master key"
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Pervert1(m): 6:16pm On Oct 07, 2014
dude.....I don't like this at all.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by amiebeauty(f): 6:30pm On Oct 07, 2014
The message evrywhr is that while it is not good for a man to cheat...it is forgivable... but wen a woman cheats..it is unforgivable...what most people dont understand is that d same way a guy gets opportunities to cheat is also d same way a woman does..i mean ...that u r married or in a relationship does not mean u wont meet finer guys,richer guys,more caring guys n all that.Being in a marriage or relationship is a commitment ..botb parties should make a conscious effort to stick to each oda n be faithful .Regardless of who does d cheating...its inexcusable n as ladies we shud also respect ourselves a little more...i know ow many times i have heard a girl say...its normal for men to cheat,its in their DNA..so i am not surprised my husband/guy is cheatin on me.Its not normal...The same standard of fidelity is applicable to both parties

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by jnrbayano(m): 6:38pm On Oct 07, 2014
MabraO:
Cheating is wen either the man or woman doesn't know about the affair

I see lotta people practice open relationship/marriage where they both know they each ve an extra marital affair

in the world where I came from cheating/open relationship/marriage is allowed

Which world?
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by ERCROSS(m): 6:45pm On Oct 07, 2014
Either u like it or not.
This is Africa and dis is our mentality.
We believe it is still socially acceptable and forgivable for men to cheat compared to women.
And this article ain't gon change a tin.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 7:21pm On Oct 07, 2014
ERCROSS:
Either u like it or not.
This is Africa and dis is our mentality.
We believe it is still socially acceptable and forgivable for men to cheat compared to women.
And this article ain't gon change a tin.
it is a very wrong mentality we Africans had. If men cheat, women can also cheat. I dont believe in only men cheating and getting forgiveness.

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 7:30pm On Oct 07, 2014
cooljoe:
D way I c t, cheatin is a no no from eida parties. Howeva in most parts of d world, esp in Africa, t kinda seems like society pardons d man wen e cheats but frowns wen d woman does same. D reason for dis is not clearly defined, but ts quite easy to draw an analogy - u knw hw everyone despises a padlock dat can b open wit any(most) keys, whereas any key dat can open many padlocks is hailed as a "master key"
if a woman discovers that his man is cheating on her, she will become jealous and before u know it, she will start bleeping when u are out to work. Every man that cheat on his partner is sowing the seed of jealousy in his partner. And u know what jealousy can do.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by MabraO: 1:23am On Oct 08, 2014
jnrbayano:


Which world?

U get selective blindness?
Where I came from
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by donsteady(m): 2:24am On Oct 08, 2014
ERCROSS:
Either u like it or not.
This is Africa and dis is our mentality.
We believe it is still socially acceptable and forgivable for men to cheat compared to women.
And this article ain't gon change a tin.

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Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 4:01am On Oct 08, 2014
[quote author=donsteady post=26956584][/quote] are u really serious?
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Janeglitter(f): 4:40am On Oct 08, 2014
Ukutsgp:
.

Some people say that the man can cheat but the woman should not cheat as if the woman is immune to jealousy. That is a very dumb statement.

The issue is, no one has the liscense to cheat whether the man or the woman.


Thkq. I see enough sense here.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by jnrbayano(m): 6:42am On Oct 08, 2014
MabraO:


U get selective blindness?
Where I came from

Are you refering to me?
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 6:53am On Oct 08, 2014
Some men don't just want to be responsible at all. How can u be married and still practise cheating. Commitment and faithfulness should be your watchword after marriage
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Nobody: 6:58am On Oct 08, 2014
I'm an Edo guy and we have a tradition that forbids a wife from cheating. Now I'm not saying cheating is good or should be exclusive to one party. Blame our forefathers as you like and call me whatever. But if I cheat, you can stay or leave. But if you cheat, you will certainly leave. I will not train another man's kid through deceit.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by Ukutsgp(m): 8:28am On Oct 08, 2014
ismokeweed:
I'm an Edo guy and we have a tradition that forbids a wife from cheating. Now I'm not saying cheating is good or should be exclusive to one party. Blame our forefathers as you like and call me whatever. But if I cheat, you can stay or leave. But if you cheat, you will certainly leave. I will not train another man's kid through deceit.
if u dnt want ur wife to cheat why would u go ahead cheating. Forget all those senseless traditions. We are in the 21st century. Just remain faithful to ur wife.
Re: Wrong Comment: Men Can Cheat But Women Must Not Cheat In Marriage. by lawrenceunaa: 11:16am On Oct 08, 2014
No one is allowed to cheat


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