Most of the day, i flash through my mind thinking of my 'singlness'. So many thought run my timid mind;am i ugly? am i broke? am i invisble? But it dawned on me from premises led above & unidentified ones that the problem is me! Shyness!

Interaction with a female becomes the most precious thing in my life. Still having an unlogical reasoning that most of my attributes would fetch me a GF 1 day...
I got lucky last two years(2012). I ended up in a relationship with a girl older. The problem again was me;shyness. I giggled anything i was introduced as her BF and she later indirectlt through her cousin told me. I remained the same till d last day our relationship...
The question is thrown to our females... How do u handle a shy guy??.

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hmm, I actually don't like dating shy guys, coz most of 'em are new in the dating game... so when they start learning stuff and getting sense, they loose their shyness and begin growing wings!

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EroticAngelina:
hmm, I actually don't like dating shy guys, coz most of 'em are new in the dating game... so when they start learning stuff and getting sense, they loose their shyness and begin growing wings!

And you'd start complaining when a company refuse's to employ fresh graduate ahbi....


So you'd against your feelings cause of your principle or policy not date a shy guy. Your's is actually 'trust issues'.....
Thanks...

Gbadegesin19:

And you'd start complaining when a company refuse's to employ fresh graduate ahbi....


So you'd against your feelings cause of your principle or policy not date a shy guy. Your's is actually 'trust issues'.....
Thanks...

nope, its not trust that's what they do.

One thing you should ask urslf is, do you also want to start indulging in poo just to prove to ladies you aint shy ?..its not a bad thing being shy in as much as you are responsibly shy.. Just that you just have to work towards it and build your self confidence.. Despite the fact that am very confident and bold, I still get shy when need be.. Be assured that you might get critics from some people who do silly and awkward things under the cover of not being shy

The want for freshly-baked keep reducing everyday. Why not simply build him up, or is it the scare of breaking that makes the building up seem a futile task?

EroticAngelina:
nope, its not trust that's what they do.

I guess d old champions started dating from Uterus

even me op, mine,my shyness na worse, i was lucky like you, but the girl is who initiates every thing, even to kiss, the girl later got tired of teaching me everything

tosyne2much:
One thing you should ask urslf is, do you also want to start indulging in poo just to prove to ladies you aint shy ?..its not a bad thing being shy in as much as you are responsibly shy.. Just that you just have to work towards it and build your self confidence.. Despite the fact that am very confident and bold, I still get shy when need be.. Be assured that you might get critics from some people who do silly and awkward things under the cover of not being shy

You might mean different things with your two concepts 'indulgement' & 'poo'.
I indulge in varieties of things including what u meant by 'poo' just to prove instant breaking out of the shyness web which led to square 1. The s'h'.i't i encountered while trying to break away from d shell keeps me discourage

As you've said, me &my shy fellows would try working towards it. Thankss


Babes give us hope so we wont feel outta earth

Gbadegesin19:


You might mean different things with your two concepts 'indulgement' & 'poo'.
I indulge in varieties of things including what u meant by 'poo' just to prove instant breaking out of the shyness web which led to square 1. The s'h'.i't i encountered while trying to break away from d shell keeps me discourage

As you've said, me &my shy fellows would try working towards it. Thankss


Babes give us hope so we wont feel outta earth

alryt boss.. Just remember not to go out of your way just to portray the image of the worldly ones

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Shy guys or introverts?

You are shy simply because you don't keep or move oout with friends. Friends tend to bring you out of your shy shell. Build your confidence and start making new friends. #lobatan.

Hibiscuss:
You are shy simply because you don't keep or move oout with friends. Friends tend to bring you out of your shy shell. Build your confidence and start making new friends. #lobatan.

Brother,you have said it all

The Good (corporate, calm and confident)

The Bad ( bad, "badder" and shy)

The Ugly ( "baddest", rugged, gangster and ugly )


Life is like a ladder, look and evaluate your position and aspire to ascend to where you desire...some thou enjoys and like the bottom ladder

Op are you withdrawn/introverted? If yes then you gotta start from somewhere.

Why are you shy?

Hello guys and babes.am a shy guy.buh when ever I get too close to ladies they always end up fighting each other becos of me