Have you ever wondered if there are guys out there that simply will not marry you? Are there certain men from whom you should just stay away because chances are, the relationship is going to be an exercise in frustration for you?

You are not alone -- many women think about this all the time. And yes, there are certain types of men that you should just avoid because if you were playing the odds, the odds say these guys are just not going to seal the deal with you.

Here are 10 types of men that I, as a professional matchmaker, would recommend you steer clear of:

Mr. "Still Hung Up On His Ex":

We have all been out with this guy. He says he is over his ex, yet at every turn, he talks about her and compares you to her. Please. He is not over her and until he is over her, he is not marrying you.


Mr. "I Am Not Ready For A Serious Relationship Right Now":

This is the guy who dates a lot and then when he gets too close or decides he isn't interested in you, he uses the excuse that he's not ready. The question about this guy is this: Is he really not ready, or is that just a convenient excuse to dump you and avoid the commitment?


Mr. "Bigger Better Deal":

You know this guy. He is the one who likes you a lot but is always wondering if there is a better version of you out there, somewhere in the universe. Honestly, do you need to be with the guy who is never going to think that you are good enoughto marry?


Mr. "I Hang Out With Guys 15 Years My Junior":

This is the guy who is 47 and a CEO of a company or a big-time executive and all of his contemporaries are married, so his BFFs are 25-year-olds and clubbing it. He is out until 3:00 a.m. several nights a week, looking to pick up and then he kids himself into thinking that when a 25-year-old girl says yes to a date with him, it's because he is such a good guy, not because she is dreaming of flying private.


Mr. "Still Trying To Figure Out His Career":

If he is 40-plus and having a midlife work crisis, believe me, he is not going to marry you. Men need to be settled in their careers or at least know which direction they are headed on the career front before they can settle down.

Mr. "50-Something And Never Been Married":

This guy is lurking everywhere. He is 50-plus and never married, yet he will swear to you that he is ready. When you ask him why he is still single, he will tell you it's because he hasn't met the right one. Then the question becomes that if he hasn't found her in the hundreds of women he has dated before you, what is going to make you so special that you are going to be his one? Probably nothing.


Mr. "Doesn't Believe In Monogamy":

This guy thinks he is very avant-garde progressive, but most people will say he is just looking for an excuse to cheat. Do you really want to be with a guy who tells you upfront that he won't be faithful?


Mr. "All About Me":

This guy is all about himself, 24/7, 365 days a year. Sharing your life with someone is hard enough, so do you really want to sign up to be with someone who is so into himself that they will never even notice you, your wants and your desires?


Mr. "My Kids Are The Only Thing I Care About":

This guy is a tricky one. When you first meet him, he is endearing because you admire how dedicated he is to his children. You think to yourself that you would like to be with a man who is that responsible. However, then you start to see that he doesn't have any room for you at all because he is only about the kids. If you are going to be with a man with kids, he needs to want to find a place for you, front and center, in his life at least some of the time.


Mr. "Dates Other Women Who Mean Nothing To Him":

This guy is really a commitment-phobe in disguise. Why does he need to date women who mean nothing to him if he is dating you and you supposedly mean something to him? You do the math.



What other types of men would you add to this list?

Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/samantha-daniels/10-types-of-men-who-wont-marry-you_b_2877662.html

Kachisbarbie:
but on a good day...all things being equal.
Why should a sister be with any of these men? ?

I wonder ooooo. Its even better to be single

eyes are blurry...*yawns*

Hmmm

you mke sense ...i was caught in the middle bt let sit down, will you go into marraige without having a well define career.. i cant suffer and still watch my kids do dsame oooo. But well av set a age limit do d career of a thing only that its not easy to say oyaa climb up d alter.
Am looking for an amazingly beatifull young talented respectfull girl ...if u tink u av thse all u can apply( jokes apart u did a gud job)

My girl always tells me that "A lady knows a guy that has a future"...and they dont hesitate in settling with such guy...no matter how poor, ugly or unromantic he might be at that particular moment.

Kachisbarbie:
but on a good day...all things being equal.
Why should a sister be with any of these men? ?

In the Africa of today? Getting married is just like seeking a job. Hold on to one till a better one comes along. Many ladies don't put their eggs in one basket these days.

chibikwe u also mke sense.....Surulere aint thre bus stop again, olorun shogo tnx

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THE PLAY BOY= A very vital point the op forgot to add...babes dating play boys have been on a long thing since 1518BC

Lalasticlala the list master and Front Page veteran is here again.

Incase

but the funing issue about these is that the nigerian girl knows this but would still venture into such relationship because they belive "she can change him"

i blame Naija girlz tho
the guys that truly like them would be told off,it's the unserious/bad guys they like
at the long run,they end up with guys that won't marry them....

(singing) WHAT CAN I SAY.....

It's surprising how the ladies would leave the nice guys and run after these ones.

Later, they'll open threads and complain.

Who dates those kinda guys? Well, the desperate ones might

eghos12:
but the funing issue about these is that the nigerian girl knows this but would still venture into such relationship because they belive "she can change him"

Some may not be to change him, but for the money. As long as money is involved, then the person is the perfect one.

valmunich:
Who dates those kinda guys? Well, the desperate ones might

Remember many Naija girls and their money attitudes?

My cousin was once in love with such a person who was perpetually comparing her with his ex. Each time she does something, d guy would tell her if it were his ex , she would have done it this way.

at a time, she started seeing him with other babes, she would tel my cousin that the others forced themselves on him that he doesn't love them at all. that she's d one he loved. yet he kept sleeping with them.

She later dumped him

jnrbayano:
Lalasticlala the list master and Front Page veteran is here again.

Gbam! E sure say dis one go reach FP.

@topic: I'm none of the above, so Ladies, do the needful

dmcdad:

Remember many Naija girls and their money attitudes?

Yea, exactly what came to my mind immediately I was done reading the topic. Most of girls will rather go for the 'bucks' not minding the points Stated by the OP

Such an appalling situation

Seriously, do these kind of guys still exist?

marieolae:
Seriously, do these kind of guys still exist?

Yes of cuz.

I have dated a couple of them but had to dump them when my eyes tear. thanxx to Mary my friend that let me know how I was been played.

Mr mummy boy.

Pray mummy loves you and accepts you. Or, ur sorry ar.se will be dumped, if mummy makes any complain about you.

diksucker:



Yes of cuz.

I have dated a couple of them but had to dump them when my eyes tear. thanxx to Mary my friend that let me know how I was been played.

wow. Then u have to be wise enough to avoid dem den

marieolae:
wow. Then u have to be wise enough to avoid dem den

yea. my eyes don tear. wouldn't allow such unserious guys to deceive me again.

diksucker:


yea. my eyes don tear. wouldn't allow such unserious guys to deceive me again.

good for you girl

Great write up

Good write up

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