Sexual intercourse is one of the most amazing experiences of life. It is a great tool that bonds couples. Powerful as sexual intimacy may be, though, it also has serious destructive capacity. The destructive impact of sexual intercourse is prominent in the realm of premarital sex. Casual daters may feel all right to have sex even on the first date. But for those who are looking for a meaningful relationship that is lasting, premarital sex is starting your relationship off on the wrong footing and faulty foundation.
Many dating partners have tried to grow their relationship on the wrong notion that sexual intercourse is love. Nothing can be further from the truth. Love is as far apart from sexual intercourse as love and hate is opposite of each other. You do not need love to get sex and you do not need sex to get love. Many gullible girls and sometimes boys have been cajoled, intimidated or deceived into believing that sexual intercourse is the same as love. Sexual intercourse and premarital sex is even calledlove-making.It may interest you to know that sexual intercourse is not even a sign of love.
There is nothing shameful about love. Love is a noble act wherever and whenever it is exhibited, given or received. Sexual intercourse on the other hand is only worthy in a legal and lawful marriage relationship. It is a shame filled act outside marriage, even for those who try to feel or state otherwise. The bonding effect of sexual intercourse is not possible outside marriage. The experiences of many clearly point to this conclusion.
There are many other reasons why you should avoid premarital sex. These include but not limited to the following(you can include yours)

1. Premarital sex reduces the value of the relationship – building a relationship with opposite sex is a delicate business. The effort requires consistent focus on the building of the foundational elements such as friendship, trust, understanding, etc. Premarital sex serves as a cog in the wheel of progress of this all important venture. It packages it as being cheap and the only reason the relationship was contracted in the first place. Sexual intercourse is one of the worst reasons for being in any relationship. Sexual intercourse no matter how thrilling cannot enhance or sustain a relationship. In fact, in most cases, premarital scuttles a relationships and destroys the possibility of it becoming meaningful.

2.Premarital sex denies dating or courtship partners the chance of properly studying their different background – dating and courtship are special periods in the relationship between the sexes. It is the period when both have opportunity to know the real stuff each is made of. At the initial stage of the male-female relationship, there are pretended courtesies and formalities intended to create impressions. But as the dating relationship progresses, it is possible for the observant dater to know the stuff each other is made of so that issues of compatibility could be settled. The moment, however, premarital sex gets in the way, studying gives way to feeling and all learning abilities vanish. One of the things that could warn those who are involved in premarital sex that their studying opportunity has been short-circuited is the fact that each meeting begins or ends in a sexual intercourse which becomes more and more meaningless each time. This preponderance usually results from the soul’s yearning to learn about the other person through the sexual act. Because this is not possible, this is why people date for ridiculous long periods without making up their minds to continue or leave the relationship. In this kind of learning situation, instead of knowing, the parties get confused.

3. Premarital sex cheapens the essence of this special gift from God called sexual intimacy –as noted at the onset, sexual intimacy is a beautiful thing within the bonds of matrimony. According toThe Family: A proclamation to the world issued by the First Presidency and Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, ‘sexual relationship between a man and a woman legally and lawfully wedded is ordained of God’. The experiences of many who have obtained sexual intimacy outside holy matrimony have shown that they felt cheap, used and foolish. No matter however arts, literature and other media describe sexual intercourse, the moment of truth which people must go back to after the theatricals are over, has only one bitter truth – those who have engaged in premarital sex have felt the three negative emotions of being cheap, used and foolish and possibly more worst emotions as a result.

The target of dating and courtship partners should be to grow the relationship to focus on the essential qualities a marriage needs to solidify it when it happens. This is called the foundation for joyful relationships. Working through this foundation enables dating and courtship partners to take responsibilities for the future they plan together by being able to communicate as two people who are committed to building an eternity together.
The wonderful opportunity to study your partner, know what his or her shortcomings are, understand his or her moods, attitudes as well as strength and weaknesses should not be sacrificed on the altar of sexual aggrandizement which is the only worth of premarital sex.

Yea.... Right on point

yea really on point

Ok

i hope to have all this in mind always

Yeah really on point... Even when I nor even read d content.. Since I don c d topic and tallesty1 and hollyb say its on point...

Hollyb:
yea really on point

seconded

Dayjhihannon01:
Yeah really on point... Even when I nor even read d content.. Since I don c d topic and tallesty1 and hollyb say its on point...

lols funny you

Hollyb:
yea really on point

And what makes it really on point.
This is pure tripe. There is no hard and fast rule.

Dayjhihannon01:
Yeah really on point... Even when I nor even read d content.. Since I don c d topic and tallesty1 and hollyb say its on point...

You ain't serious

Hollyb:
lols funny you

Tallesty1:
You ain't serious

Abi nah No time

Lawstudent:


And what makes it really on point.
This is pure tripe. There is no hard and fast rule.

i thought everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Lawstudent:


And what makes it really on point.
This is pure tripe. There is no hard and fast rule.

i thought everyone is entitled to their opinion. >:

Ok.

Summary will make me understand it beta, any good smarrian?

Ok this one is solid reasons, next might be Liquid reasons to do otherwise




Op remind me tomorrow to give u a gift for this

Hollyb:
i thought everyone is entitled to their opinion. >:

Yes provided the opinion is resonable otherwise you could be incarcerated for that.
The opinion you are entitled to shouldn't be stupid. Thanks.

priscaoge:
Ok this one is solid reasons, next might be Liquid reasons to do otherwise




Op remind me tomorrow to give u a gift for this

the "Liquid" got me laughing.

make i follow type on point

starlingleanets:
the "Liquid" got me laughing.

Lol

Am sure someone will open a thread on that soon I trust Nairalanders

priscaoge:




Lol

Am sure someone will open a thread on that soon I trust Nairalanders

Like most writers will say "lets see the drama unfold"

Konji na bastard


*Puffs my night weed*

Lawstudent:

Yes provided the opinion is resonable otherwise you could be incarcerated for that.
The opinion you are entitled to shouldn't be stupid. Thanks.

then it means you,re the silly one here. I found sense in what the op posted and i agreed with him. That you did not find sense in his post means only one thing. You're the odd one out or maybe you're blaming yourself for defaultin in wat the op wrote up there. And pls Mr student lawyer or whatever your name is don't transfer ur aggression of bad day at sch or work to me. Tks

Storyyyyyy! F dis shii mehn

naijaboiy:
#Yawns

dat nah d sleep dem say 'make we go slip ehn?

valmunich:
Konji na bastard


*Puffs my night weed*

wash am down man... ** exhales as usual**

Hollyb:
then it means you,re the silly one here. I found sense in what the op posted and i agreed with him. That you did not find sense in his post means only one thing. You're the odd one out or maybe you're blaming yourself for defaultin in wat the op wrote up there. And pls Mr student lawyer or whatever your name is don't transfer ur aggression of bad day at sch or work to me. Tks

Lass, let me idulge you a bit. So because you agreed with him, you think its the ideal thing? So if you agree with someone preaching bestiality or incest, does that make it slick?That is only subjective and not objective.

In the main, and objectively the opinion is bunkum.

Aside: Will refrain from denigrating you.

Lawstudent:


Lass, let me idulge you a bit. So because you agreed with him, you think its the ideal thing? So if you agree with someone preaching bestiality or incest, does that make it slick?That is only subjective and not objective.

In the main, and objectively the opinion is bunkum.

Aside: Will refrain from denigrating you.

dude, you have just shown how myopic your level of thinking is. But like the saying goes.... Silence is d best answer. Peace