It is quite normal these days when a guy is dating two ladies.....no big deal about it, but whats freaking me out is when the guy opens his buccal cavity to tell one of the ladies that....""ooh I want you to be my back-up plan so that when the other relationship doesn't work, you will be there for me.........are you insane?

Ok this is freaking me out.....its bad enough knowing or finding out your guy is dating another gal but for him to tell you what he's doing.....that's another ball game all together.

Bottom line is he doesn't love you..........

Guys how will you feel if your lady tells you this? Am I just over-reacting or is it normal for this to happen?

Ops,
U re very correct.

Why date two people at all? It's honestly not worth it.

echobee:
Ops,
U re very correct.

correct ke?
The OP doesn't know what his saying, what guy tells that to a lady??

Can you imagine that? op you're not over reacting. Dating 2 women or dating 2 men at a time is way too bad.
It's stressful.
it's keeps one uncomfortable.
You won't even be at peace with yourself.
It's more like a burden.

Hmmm, if some dude tells me, i'm his back-up plan, God knows i'll break his head with a big stick.

missberrypop5:
Can you imagine that? op you're not over reacting. Dating 2 women or dating 2 men at a time is way too bad.
It's stressful.
it's keeps one uncomfortable.
You won't even be at peace with yourself.
It's more like a burden.

Hmmm, if some dude tells me, i'm his back-up plan, God knows i'll break his head with a big stick.

hmmmm,smh...bt is it just you or re you generalizing it?...cos i think most ladies enjoy multiple relationships..just saying

missberrypop5:
Can you imagine that? op you're not over reacting. Dating 2 women or dating 2 men at a time is way too bad.
It's stressful.
it's keeps one uncomfortable.
You won't even be at peace with yourself.
It's more like a burden.

Hmmm, if some dude tells me, i'm his back-up plan, God knows i'll break his head with a big stick.

a big stick ...lwkmd

OP ,you are not overreacting o jare!


How will a guy open his big mouth and tell a girl "you're my back up plan" and the girl will still stick to him.
In this situation,the girl is to be blamed not the guy

urhoboman:
correct ke?
The OP doesn't know what his saying, what guy tells that to a lady??

Even guys in Yaba left dnt say such 2 a lady,Op is nt making sense.