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The Talking Phase by mahxiimus(m): 7:08pm On Oct 18, 2014
We are now in a weird world where the beginning of relationships
are broken into various degrees of seriousness. You have your
“Facebook Official”, towards the end. You’ve got your “#MCM” and
“#WCW” towards the middle. But the most confusing and
stressfully unknown part of the beginning of any relationship is the
“Talking Phase”.
Definition : The Talking Phase or “talking” is a time frame of a
potential relationship in which you both have shown mutual like for
one another and wish to expand upon those feelings, but not too
much and certainly not too fast.
The Talking Phase is the most socially stupid things that we do in
our generation. You think they had this about 20 years ago? Try
explaining the Talking Phase to anyone over the age of 30 and you
will sound dumb. Worse than Floyd Mayweather trying to read a
dissertation, or just the word “dissertation”. Whether it is stupid or
not it happens and it is very real. It surprisingly enough a very
critical part of any beginning relationship. Let me break it down for
y’all.
Signs of the Talking Phase:
1. You show interest in someone that shows interest in you.
2. You talk to each other every day
3. You send “Good Morning” texts (Very Important)
4. You Facetime with them more often than any other person
5. You creep on their Instagram page
6. You get upset when you don’t get a text back
7. You start to use nicknames (i.e. Boobear, Honeybutton) or call
each other bae
8. You get nervous when they hang with their friends of the
opposite sex
9. You subtweet them on twitter about how they make you feel
10. You start using kissy face or winky face emojis often
11. You share the last of your favorite snack or chip brand
12. You get jealous at heart eyes underneath their pictures
13. They are your top friend on Snapchat
14. You use that smirk face emoji that usually always means
something sexual.
15. Other people know that you talk on a regular basis
If more than 6 of those things are true, you are talking; whether
you know it or not.
During the talking phase you will learn just how much a person
likes you based on the degrees of the signs listed above. For
example: If you text each other every day but then you have a
conversation throughout the entire day, you are talking “heavy”.
Confused? Yeah so am I, but bear with me. There is still a lot more
to be looked at. If you want, take a nap and read the rest of this
later.
Hey welcome back! How was the nap? Good I hope. During the
talking phase you really have no obligation to the person you are
talking to. That’s because people our age are highly afraid of
commitments. Your degree of talking can also be measured in how
many people either you or your partner choose to “talk” to at a
time. If you are talking to multiple people, let’s say 3, it is very
unlikely that any of them will find a relationship with you. But if
you are just talking just one person, get that Facebook relationship
status changed ready because there is a good chance that he or she
is bae.
There is much more to the whole Talking Phase but in general that
sums most of it up and says a few things about people of our age
group. We are pussies afraid of getting our hearts broken because
we were either denied or rejected by the person we liked. Talking is
the easy and safe way out but it also yields little reward. Will that
change anything? Nah, probably not, but at least you have a little
more insight to what this all means. If someone hits you with the
“Are we like…. Talking?” question, just come here and reread this
about three more times.
Re: The Talking Phase by olagockay(m): 7:53pm On Oct 18, 2014
Hehehe so also i'm in d talkin phase
Re: The Talking Phase by mahxiimus(m): 8:13pm On Oct 18, 2014
olagockay:
Hehehe so also i'm in d talkin phase
LooooL ...maybe....maybe not
Re: The Talking Phase by urcutecrush(f): 9:51am On Oct 19, 2014
Summary pls
Re: The Talking Phase by mahxiimus(m): 8:10pm On Oct 19, 2014
urcutecrush:
Summary pls
u just have to read..
Re: The Talking Phase by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 19, 2014
I guess most of us just dont have anything important to do dats why, we get bored on thr long run and get lonely and fall victims pf illegal rships...
Re: The Talking Phase by mahxiimus(m): 8:24pm On Oct 19, 2014
Cutehector4u:
I guess most of us just dont have anything important to do dats why, we get bored on thr long run and get lonely and fall victims pf illegal rships...
yeah....v.true bro...

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