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Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by abysirius(m): 11:38am On Oct 19, 2014 |
There's a saying that the way you appear is the way other people treat you. Many ladies believe in this statement. No wonder they would want their guys to toil hard before getting their hands either in marriage or even on a date. A female friend was explaining to me the other day that one of the reasons her friend was being maltreated by her boyfriend was because the guy got her on a plata of gold. Whether she's right or wrong is not the arguement here. But what would you do to ensure you can say yes to the guy? Taking note that not all guys av the same waiting strength. Perseverance in love, I'm not sure if it is the same as before love. Guys easily fall for ladies that reciprocate their love and not the other way round. Most guys want a good, beautiful and intelligent lady that is not cheap. Yet not all guys can stand being held to ransom as they av to wait till eternity before the lady realises that she needs to giving in to their request. A serious minded guy would want his relationship defines before investing too much of his emotions and time (other things included). Also, the female folks want to be sure the guy is the right one by putting him through series of tests, one of which is the hard to get thing. Having said all that, guys let me first ask you if there was anything else you did apart from the confidence to come out clear and asked her out. More importantly, ladies should tell us if there's anything in particular they look out for in guys before saying yes or reciprocating the love. Is the hard to get play really necessary? If yes, hw long should or to what extent do you consider it necessary? No be GMAT oo.. Just want ur sincere views. Thnks! 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by Nobody: 11:39am On Oct 19, 2014 |
I will wait as long as my interest permit 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by djeezy(m): 11:44am On Oct 19, 2014 |
I don't wait more than necessary.....If she already likes you it won't take long. Between one week to two is okay for me. |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by yemmit90: 11:53am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Lacomus: And me too, as long as I'm still interested in chasing her. But for me to do that, she must not be a snub, happy to talk with me and treat me with respect. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by YungwizzzyChina: 11:54am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Girls still play hard to get? no wonder the younger ones are getting married every Saturday 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by since2005(f): 11:57am On Oct 19, 2014 |
YungwizzzyChina: And no wonder they divorce before their 5th anniversary 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by abysirius(m): 11:59am On Oct 19, 2014 |
yemmit90:what if she is and u like her. Does that mean u will just give up? |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by valdes00(m): 12:02pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Wait ke..... Must be dat same day ooo......anytin apart frm dat..... I don lose interest b dat Wohts d essence of playin hard to gt wen u wil later agree.... Its nt gonna stop d guy frm fuckin up if he wants to fuckup 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by iceberylin(m): 12:08pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Just 5seconds,i lack patience 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by Tallesty1(m): 12:12pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Back then............ When the old boy was young. He doesn't come out straight and ask women out. |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by helphelp: 12:15pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
I have waited long enough before asking, why do I have to wait any further... Meanwhile, people rarely ask each other out these days, you just start a friendship that leads to a relationship. And after much bleeping, you define the relationship... 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by abysirius(m): 12:20pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
iceberylin:haha!!! The most patient dog eats the fatest bone! Don't u believe? It pays sometimes to be patient especially if u're sure u want that thing. |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by mesoade(m): 12:52pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
If i truly love her,i'll wait bt not mor dan neccessary,conditions being that,she isn't d abusive type nd snubbish nd stil accord sum respect to me. But no matter how i love her,if i approach her and she kinds of abusive me. . Tchai tchai,me sef i go tok my own bak. . . Nd never return to her,she's now my vomit,won't go bak to her. |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by yemmit90: 12:56pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
abysirius: YES! I will give up like a speed of light! |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by happyjuliet(f): 1:03pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Na lie joor, who tell u dat one? |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by Sermwell(m): 1:07pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
She has 30sec |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by Pervert1(m): 1:11pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
5minutes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by tosyne2much(m): 1:24pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Different strokes for different folks.. There's no general law that states how long and patient a guy should wait so it all depends on our individual patience and tolerance level.. So many ladies have lost great opportunities and have driven away their future partners out of ignorance. However, many ladies believe a guy who truly loves you can withstand any pressure and would always come bck even when you kick him like a football.. As for me, there's actually no specified time to wait.. If I show you my love and you are putting me on a scale of rank with other make suitors and as soon as my patience has been stretched to the end point, **done with yhu** |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
*singing bob marley's I don't wanna wait in vein for your love* |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by skentelelady(f): 2:37pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tosyne2much:When a lady knows that a guy loves her, why is she then posing? I believe if a girl loves a guy she wont wait for ever to give her reply It is when she doesn't like you or she's hoping someone she likes will come for her that she plays you on hold. If you chase a girl for more than a month and doesn't agree please bone her. If she comes back it mean she doesn't have another option But bear it in mind that you are not her real option and if the real option comes around, she will definitely leave you after a while 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by izsmike: 2:43pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
abysirius:if the patient dog eat d fattest bone, who eats the flesh ..... The impatient one I guess carrying on jor iceberylin 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by iceberylin(m): 2:59pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
izsmike:My nigga.. na we get the Flesh.... Nobody gat time for "i'll think about it" 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by tosyne2much(m): 3:09pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
skentelelady:gbaaaaam ! Oya talk wetin u dey drink ? |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by skentelelady(f): 3:13pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tosyne2much:Drink |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by tosyne2much(m): 3:27pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
skentelelady:smirnoff, Gulder, Palmwine or Vodka.. Oya tell me, you deserve a reward |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by skentelelady(f): 3:31pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tosyne2much: None of the above but amstel malt |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by tosyne2much(m): 3:34pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
skentelelady:oya gimme ur bank account number make I help you put Amstel malt there first tin 2moro morning |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by Rapsainot(m): 3:35pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
I wooed a girl and she accepted after 3 months.... She's the loser though coz I already have 3 in-built girls before she accepted... She's now a third party, I don't give a damn about her. She keeps saying I'm maltreating her yet she didn't realize she'd maltreated me earlier. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by LaurelP(m): 3:41pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Most of d girls I've dated didn't have to give me a "yes" answer. we became friends and from there, I started acting as their boyfriend and they didn't have no choice dan to fall in line. If you're waiting for dem to tell u yes I agree, it might take forever. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by skentelelady(f): 5:41pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tosyne2much:Skentele Baby HSBC, paddington avenue 0123456789 Thank God bless |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by tosyne2much(m): 5:52pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
skentelelady:be expecting a credit alert msg on 2moro morning ** this is no joke ** |
Re: Guys, How Long Can You Wait For A Lady You Ask Out To Make Her Decision? by skentelelady(f): 6:07pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
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