I keep wondering where some guys keep their manners. You have a girlfriend/wife that:
1. She Pampers you
2. She Doesn't ask you for ANYTHING
3. She Keeps you up on everything that goes on in her life
4. She dosnt lie to you
5. She gives you all the attention you need
6. She cooks for you constantly
7. She barely nags
8. She calls you&messages you constantly
9. She gives you gifts
10. She is hopelessly inlove with you
11. She dosnt care about the size of your pocket
12. She would climb mountains to make you happy

It is exetrmely hard to get this type of ladies these days.. With all the decendants of jezebel lurking around looking for who to devour.

So if you "still" have this type in your custody, make an effort. You might loose her to some other guy that knows her value.

Take her to special places(not just out),write her love notes, send her long mails and tell how much you adore her, dont lie to her, dont flirt with other girls, give her all the attention she needs, buy her things, show her off(ladies love that), etc

I dnt want to end up with a psycho, thief, LovePeddler and a gold digger neither do you.
So lets appreciate what we have before we loose it.

so true.u dnt knw wat u hav till u loose it

I hope every guy reads and adheres to this. However,number 6 is a NO NO NO!
Ladies pls and pls again,don't cook for your guy constantly...you gonna be doing that all the time when you get married,so why start now when he hasn't put the ring on your finger.

Nice write up, @op. I subscribe to your position.

but the 'good ladies' and the virtues listed above are about 5% here in Nigeria.

the bad ones na im plenty pass. They're about 95% and are found every where in Nigeria. In most cases, they're from handy homes and very beautiful.

Women are like wrapped parcels bought from a market. You will never know the contents till you get home.

^^ exactly!

nyc1i even have one with me wish i can marry her soon but marriage is far from us now cos na rubbish ladies full everywhere