hi humble nairalanders, pls assist with ur views, my friend is having difficult time now, her hubby never seem to appreciate her, not even her inlaws, whatever she does is for the good of herself and hubby and His family, but no appreciation, infact she feels frustrated whenever her in-laws are around. what can she do. pls advice, cos she is threatening to start behaving as she deems fit, they don't respect her, no sympathy and no nice words towards her. forgot to tell you that they have no children yet for 5 years now.

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The reason is in the last sentence.


TELL HER TO PRAY TO GOD.

no kidz..dat d reason dey are misbehaving towards ha buh d best i think she can do is to pray and believe dat all is goin to b well aftrall it was FOR BETTER FOR WORSE..

Divorce him and move on!

That's like NIGERIA-Amalgamation not Marriage

AirSultan:
Divorce him and move on!

divorce kwa

ifeajikap:
divorce kwa

Who has time to be nurturing one sided feelings in these times? I mean, it takes an individual with low self esteem to sit down and let people make you feel unimportant and all trash.

AirSultan:
Who has time to be nurturing one sided feelings in these times? I mean, it takes an individual with low self esteem to sit down and let people make you feel unimportant and all trash.

well dats marriage 4 u, 4 better 4 worse till death do u part

ifeajikap:
well dats marriage 4 u, 4 better 4 worse till death do u part

Well, i aint married so i know less.

AirSultan:
Well, i aint married so i know less.

dats y u shuldnt rush into marriage dats y I pity gals wey dy marry bcus he is rich nd last I checked d last pple to advice r couples cuz dere mata no consign u wen dem go reconcile u no go knw

Prblm of no kids may be 4rm d man, who knws. If d man luvs d wife, he shudnt allow his family into d matter.

tell her to keep doing good. what comes around goes around.

ifeajikap:
dats y u shuldnt rush into marriage dats y I pity gals wey dy marry bcus he is rich nd last I checked d last pple to advice r couples cuz dere mata no consign u wen dem go reconcile u no go knw

You are right.

criosly well my prayers are with her

She shd focus more on her self now

Dont please any one dat makes u feel less human

Wen she sees them greet answer wen u do nytin abeg tell her dat wen she does anything to dem she shd av it in her mind she is doing to God u kno so she wont b ready for any appreciation dat will reduce d worries

Concerning child she shd always b around kids love dem buy gift for them

Yoruba will say *ori omo lon mu omo waye*

Meaning its d destiny of a child to attract anoda child to d world

U want kids? Show love mercy compassion nd care to anoda person child

Children are d heritage of God's kingdom d light of d world wen God sees her love for other people's kids are own child will b giving to her

wat most women miss to do

She should appreciate herself.

if u marry wahala, if u no marry wahala. which way to go?