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10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by LEERICIST(m): 6:55am On Oct 25, 2014 |
There are things guys love to hear, and things that can leave them cold and bitter. Read these ten things girls should never say to guys to know more. #1 YOUR FRIEND IS SO CHARMING! : Did you meet a new friend of his who looks gorgeous or is so charming you felt your pants slipping down by itself? Just don’t tell your guy anything about it, especially if you haven’t complimented your guy about the same trait earlier. A guy would find it complimenting if you tell him he has really good friends. But if you compliment his friend with any traits that your own man lacks in, he’d feel more insecure and even get angry with you and his friend. #2 WHY CAN'T YOU ACCEPT THAT YOU'VE FAILED? : Guys are pretty competitive when it comes to succeeding, especially when it comes to work or earning more money. If your boyfriend’s trying something new and you see him failing miserably, don’t tell him that straight to his face. Ever heard of the midlife crisis? Well, that’s what happens to men who feel like failures. If you say it out loud that he’s a failure, he may hate you for it or try even harder and frustrate himself more. #3 MY EX DID IT, WHY CAN'T YOU? : Never say the word ‘ex’ and ‘you’ in the same sentence unless you’re complimenting your guy. Guys hate being compared, especially with your exes. Along the same lines, don’t tell him you’ve had sex with many guys or even compare him and his body parts with your past lovers. You’ll end up working him up and making him feel really insecure in bed. #4 CAN YOU INTRODUCE ME TO THAT GUY? : This is definitely dangerous grounds. Unless you’re asking your boyfriend to introduce you to a celebrity friend of his, never tell a guy this line. If you seem excited to meet a friend of his, or end up flirting with another guy in front of your boyfriend, there’s a good chance your boyfriend may walk away insulted or infuriated. #5 WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU, YOU IDIOT? : Don’t ever yell at him or put him down in front of his friends or family. Guys can’t take that very well. As much as they want to impress girls, they still like to be portrayed by their best sides in front of family and friends. If you ever yell at a guy in public or in front of others, you’ll emasculate him and he’ll spend a lot of time away from you, plotting ways to get even with you for humiliating him. You won’t be in a relationship anymore, you’ll be in a war zone. (A guy will only accept this poo from you if you're the "MAN" in the relationship) #6 I'VE DATED BETTER GUYS : This is a low blow of the worst kind. Of all the things girls should never say to guys, this is one that will definitely end up ruining the relationship forever. It’s almost like a one way street to the end of the relationship with no place to turn back. If you tell him he’s not good in bed or that he doesn’t turn you on, he may end up walking out of your life. After all, he’s humiliated, bitter and he’s going to remember those words every time he gets into bed with you. #7 NO, DON'T... I'LL DO IT MYSELF : Guys like feeling like they control the direction of the relationship. At the same time, they also like offering help or feeling important by advising you or helping you carry those big bags or fixing your window. If you stop him from helping you every time he tries to show off his protective instincts and strength, he’ll subconsciously assume that you don’t think he’s capable of doing anything important. #8 YOU'RE SO IMMATURE : This single sentence can change a guy from behaving like a spoilt child and transform him into a sober man who’s walking to someone’s grave. And that’s not a good thing either. He’ll hate you for always behaving like a mum and treating him like a brat. And chances are, he may even try to cheat on you just to feel himself again. (A girl told me this poo once, I dumped her ass right there and then!) #9 YOU ARE SO INSECURE : Your boyfriend may feel insecure often, especially when you’re a sexy girl who gets a lot of attention all the time. But he wouldn’t want to hear that line out loud, especially from you. It makes him feel helpless and weak. And if you ever say this line in the middle of an argument, he’s definitely going to get really annoyed with you and himself. And to make sure he proves he’s not insecure, he may avoid you and spend more time with other girls. And when you speak of it, he may urge you to speak with other guys too. And what starts off as a little argument could turn into an ego war that’ll hurt both of you. #10 WE NEED TO TALK :The fact that you want to talk about something serious with your guy is a good sign for the relationship. But when you walk up to him and say “we need to talk,” he’ll just clam up or go completely on the defensive because he’ll assume you’re going to accuse him of something bad. Instead of starting a relationship conversation with this line, try to ease the blow on him slowly by just talking about what you have in mind in an easy manner that would help him open up instead of shutting himself up. So the next time you’re having a fun conversation with a guy, remember these ten things girls should never say to guys and refrain from using it, unless you’re looking to pick a fight! |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by naijaboiy: 7:08am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Yea I hate hearing that number 8 |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by jashar(f): 7:11am On Oct 25, 2014 |
LEERICIST: Ok ooo. |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by djeezy(m): 7:12am On Oct 25, 2014 |
No 8 though. So annoying. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by leonard509(m): 7:15am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Jic |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by luvlyqueen(f): 7:18am On Oct 25, 2014 |
hmmmm,just passing |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by lokito: 7:22am On Oct 25, 2014 |
OP, u have not mentioned just one thing that every man hates to hear #ya dig# All these ones u mentioned above are just play-play ones |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Nobody: 7:25am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Very nice write up op |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by naijaboiy: 7:31am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by maryam6(f): 7:37am On Oct 25, 2014 |
op u are correct o. no 9 was d 1 i said but later regreted. |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Nobody: 7:38am On Oct 25, 2014 |
How about you stop doing the things mentioned above so u wont have to hear them. Especially you are immature where will the honesty be in the relationship, when one cannot speak her mind? |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Nobody: 7:43am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Mondisweets:men are semi gods, you don't need to tell them what's on your mind, just bottle it in for peace sake, sighs* 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by obamartins(m): 7:46am On Oct 25, 2014 |
11. I missed my period: please don't tell this to ur man, it ends the relationship faster than the 10 listed above. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Nobody: 7:49am On Oct 25, 2014 |
firstEVA:lol tell me about it |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by jejemanito: 7:51am On Oct 25, 2014 |
jashar: WTF is wrong with you? |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by jashar(f): 7:52am On Oct 25, 2014 |
naijaboiy: Uncle,e pain u? How e consign u? |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by defendedvictim(m): 7:52am On Oct 25, 2014 |
obamartins:She has to gaan find it abi..dat really isn't annoying, considering d fact dat both of u did d 'do'... how abt dis annoying question 'do you love me?' I hate hearing dat question sha |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by naijaboiy: 7:56am On Oct 25, 2014 |
jashar:Be matured jor |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by jashar(f): 8:11am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by jashar(f): 8:32am On Oct 25, 2014 |
naijaboiy: No need naaa. Aren't you mature enough for 2? Don't be stingy, share the maturity. |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by naijaboiy: 8:39am On Oct 25, 2014 |
jashar:go joor |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Dreyl(m): 8:42am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Hmmm |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by mesoade(m): 8:45am On Oct 25, 2014 |
jashar:is this why you quoted the whole post? |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Nobody: 8:46am On Oct 25, 2014 |
You see that no1, hian... The thing is, naturally I attract attractive looking guys/men . Intelligence is a plus for me, so I don't use 'fine intelligent guy' to joke o... If im fine for pocket too - na bumper package be that (handle with care) |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by mesoade(m): 8:50am On Oct 25, 2014 |
(11)When she's crying and you're countlessly asking her what the problem is and she keeps saying "nothing". |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Nobody: 9:02am On Oct 25, 2014 |
So true,those words are degrading.. those ladies should watch their tongue when angry,they can talk like a chatter-box when angry. |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by nnasalma(f): 9:19am On Oct 25, 2014 |
wat abt this: i av had enough of d shits in dis relationship. |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by ChiSun27(m): 9:46am On Oct 25, 2014 |
If you are an Introvert like me....nothing listed above will border you a bit. We easily overlook issues and bounce off girls that can't keep their mouth shut. We don't have flavours for talkatives and notice me babes. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by jashar(f): 9:52am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Tymax(m): 10:08am On Oct 25, 2014 |
jashar:So you had to quote the whole thing just to write that? Really? |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by Fraih(f): 10:51am On Oct 25, 2014 |
jashar: Really you dint need to quote the whole post, ur comment made no difference! |
Re: 10 Things Girls Should Never Say To Guys Ever.! by lawrenceunaa: 10:51am On Oct 25, 2014 |
All this op listed is a clue that she isnt interested in the relationship |
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