Been dating my girl for alomst a year now. The problem is she is very bonded to her friends. They go everywhere together. 90% of the her visits (even weekends) is always accompanied by friends. Even when I want to take her to shoprite or silverbird, she insist her friends come. (she wont mind going to a cheaper place). Each time I bring this up, it results in a quarel. We resort to quick sex (my car, toilet, kitchen, etc) sometimes the desire becomes so strong at night that we have to use bed sheets. When I quarel, she says I should go rent a flat. I dont need a flat for now. Due to the nature of my biz... I go out very early and come back very late. Im ok wit a self contain for the time being. Ive got to develop my land and reploy back into my business. I really love this girl. Dont want to lose her, but the intimacy is not there. We can,t spend time together, talk about ourselves, our future, make out, etc. Im 26 and she is 20 and just got into school. I graduated 4 yrs ago. This is the first girl Im really having feelings for. I tempted to be hard on her, but am scared of loosing her. Pls I need your advice. Thank you

NB: she accompanies her friends to their bf place, and the guys seems to be okay with it.

If you're not having a s€x sandwich with her friends you have to stop it.



I personally can't take that crap

You do Bleep her na...

passionate88:
You do Bleep her na...

Help me ask o...Nigerian men. Confusing themselves since the days of idi agbon..

Date one of her friend.

You are in a zone that's nt named yet

Give her some time,but keep drumming it into her ears that u'll want some time together alone.Also,try wearing boxers only d next time she comes around with her friends,talk freely about ur last intimacy,continue till she complains verbally,as in until she speaks out,u then reply her dat as far as u are concerned she is d only one around,and u'll keep on carrying out stuffs like she is d only one present. Let's see how she feels abt dat.

Meanwhile, day has break.

Op you know what? Next time you wana take her out or she wana visit invite any of your close paddy he will keep the other girl busy or may end up dating her. Try this anything she comes with her friends I believe she will stop

vizkiz:
I don't think you guys are dating...you are just like a friend with benefits to her

Really...

Lacomus:
You are in a zone we ve nt name yet

Its called the 'mugunized' sex slave zone

pete24:
Been dating my girl for alomst a year now. The problem is she is very bonded to her friends. They go everywhere together. 90% of the her visits (even weekends) is always accompanied by friends. Even when I want to take her to shoprite or silverbird, she insist her friends come. (she wont mind going to a cheaper place). Each time I bring this up, it results in a quarel. We resort to quick sex (my car, toilet, kitchen, etc) sometimes the desire becomes so strong at night that we have to use bed sheets. When I quarel, she says I should go rent a flat. I dont need a flat for now. Due to the nature of my biz... I go out very early and come back very late. Im ok wit a self contain for the time being. Ive got to develop my land and reploy back into my business. I really love this girl. Dont want to lose her, but the intimacy is not there. We can,t spend time together, talk about ourselves, our future, make out, etc. Im 26 and she is 20 and just got into school. I graduated 4 yrs ago. This is the first girl Im really having feelings for. I tempted to be hard on her, but am scared of loosing her. Pls I need your advice. Thank you

NB: she accompanies her friends to their bf place, and the guys seems to be okay with it.

lesbiannn alert! Run 4400000 bro! Candid advice

pete24:
Been dating my girl for alomst a year now. The problem is she is very bonded to her friends. They go everywhere together. 90% of the her visits (even weekends) is always accompanied by friends. Even when I want to take her to shoprite or silverbird, she insist her friends come. (she wont mind going to a cheaper place). Each time I bring this up, it results in a quarel. We resort to quick sex (my car, toilet, kitchen, etc) sometimes the desire becomes so strong at night that we have to use bed sheets. When I quarel, she says I should go rent a flat. I dont need a flat for now. Due to the nature of my biz... I go out very early and come back very late. Im ok wit a self contain for the time being. Ive got to develop my land and reploy back into my business. I really love this girl. Dont want to lose her, but the intimacy is not there. We can,t spend time together, talk about ourselves, our future, make out, etc. Im 26 and she is 20 and just got into school. I graduated 4 yrs ago. This is the first girl Im really having feelings for. I tempted to be hard on her, but am scared of loosing her. Pls I need your advice. Thank you

NB: she accompanies her friends to their bf place, and the guys seems to be okay with it.

she doesn't love you in the least. Stop wasting your time and resources and move on already. P.s- better not listen to any lady or wuss who advices you to continue to put up with that charade. You call a relationship.

pete24:
I tempted to be hard on her, but am scared of loosing her. Pls I need your advice. Thank you

NB: she accompanies her friends to their bf place, and the guys seems to be okay with it.

Correction, you don't lose a girl by being strict, hard or by sticking to your words you lose your lady when you have no backbone,when you can't make decisions and live by them, when you are scared of losing her,like you are now.

stevecantrell:


Its called the 'mugunized' sex slave zone

na you come give the zone name LWKM

Op why not invite one of your male friends anytime they are in your house. The guy go dey tidy the other girl inside toilet while you go get the whole room dey tidy your babe.

stevecantrell:


Its called the 'mugunized' sex slave zone

And that kind of sex can be annoying. You cannot twist and turn the way you want.

sorry,how did you go to her in her 1st place?I so hate girls that flock around with freinds




i spoilt 2phones in 3weeks

Ilovenigeria:
Op why not invite one of your male friends anytime they are in your house. The guy go dey tidy the other girl inside toilet while you go get the whole room dey tidy your babe.

Thanks but thats not the kinda rlsp am looking for.

Ipledge:
sorry,how did you go to her in her 1st place?I so hate girls that flock around with freinds




i spoilt 2phones in 3weeks

During vacation and she was alone then...

stevecantrell:


Its called the 'mugunized' sex slave zone

Hmmn

ancashy:
Give her some time,but keep drumming it into her ears that u'll want some time together alone.Also,try wearing boxers only d next time she comes around with her friends,talk freely about ur last intimacy,continue till she complains verbally,as in until she speaks out,u then reply her dat as far as u are concerned she is d only one around,and u'll keep on carrying out stuffs like she is d only one present. Let's see how she feels abt dat.

Dnt think it will work...

Homguy:
Correction, you don't lose a girl by being strict, hard or by sticking to your words you lose your lady when you have no backbone,when you can't make decisions and live by them, when you are scared of losing her,like you are now.

Very instructive. Though its hard...

pete24:

Thanks but thats not the kinda rlsp am looking for.

Then keep managing her like that.