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He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by miembamish(m): 5:06pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
2yrs ago, dz guy was crazy for dz girl and decided to approach her. De guy is good looking and de girl is an "angel" He became friends wit de girl and he asked her out oneday. De girl accepted but was always shy weneva she saw dz guy. De guy wil try everyting possible to make dz girl happy, but she'll juz be so overwhelmed by her own beauty koz she got other guys flattering her here and there. She decided to flirt wit guys while still dating dz boy. She'll always be meeting other guys but if invited by de bf, she won't go. One evening, de idle guy decided to invite his date to be wit her, but de girl gave de excuse dat she was busy at home. De guy decided to go strolling inde dark evening. As he was strolling, he saw his date and anoda guy in a dark shade, and he juz passed by, while he made himself so visible to de girl. A year passed and de both parted ways wit no formal brkup. De guy forgot abt de girl but oneday, de girl whatsapped de guy and told him dat she missed de guy. De guy was shocked in disbelieve dat he had to question who he was actually chatting wit. De girl den sent a voice note to proof it was actually her dat was chatting. De girl begged de guy for forgiveness due to de way she treated him, and asked de guy for anoda chance. De guy told her dat he had no problem wit her, dat he was ok without her, and de girl said she was a changed person. Dat she's realized her mistakes. De girl told de guy dat she still loved him and wanted to date him and him alone. De guy who still had feelings for de girl took her bk. De girl visited her dat evening without any invitation from de guy and de both showed dia luv by expression in *kissing* thinking all was ok, de guy fell again for her. Now, de girl has gone bk to her old life by always snobbing him on whatsapp and will neva call him even wen he sends her airtime. She'l promise to meet de guy and will keep de guy waiting till midnight sef, but she'l neva turn up and won't even call him to tell him she won't make it again. Its been happening dz way for 3months nw, yet de girl is neither schooling or working. She's always home doing nothing except to go out and meet friends. And de guy will be dying of disappointments from de girl always. De latest nw is dat, she won't reply him on whatsapp for wks but she's always online chatting wit oda guys. Yet she claims she's inlove wit de guy and dat de guy is her date. Tell me, is de girl normal ? And what should dz guy do |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by mraventurah(m): 5:09pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
maybe when u type well I will understand |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 5:17pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Na wa oo. Must everything be spelt in black and white before people learn? The girl obviously is using him as her backup boyfriend. Or maybe she loves him but just can't ignore the attention from other guys. I presume she's between 16 and 18. Just a confused mind that doesn't know what they want. And vulnerable too. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by miembamish(m): 5:20pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
MzPreshie:Very true.. She's btwn 16 and 17. And de guy is btwn 19 and 20 1 Like |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Anyi3(m): 5:50pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
mraventurah:My brother I just tire @op which kain writing be this 1 Like |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by mesoade(m): 6:34pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
This OP dey lie sha . . This whole story happened to you but you dey fear bashing . . Using "dis guy" instead of "ME" 1 Like |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by jahem: 7:24pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
O boy na by force to make write up? |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by arimahoseloka(m): 7:28pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Bunch of kids.. Y'all need 2 graduate and get a *fu.kin job |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Ab025(m): 8:01pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
#when fools fall in luv.... |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Afrok(m): 8:09pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
From the beginning right from the garden of Eden, it was proven that love was and is not meant for kids or immature minds. The guy should focus on his studies, by the time he is occupied with assignments, hand-outs, textbooks, practicals, tests, exams and early morning lectures, he'll forget about having whatsapp on his phone or one nonsense small girl somewhere that's playing with his feelings. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by rosebase(f): 8:44pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
meaningless |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by zitalin(f): 9:15pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
See d girl is either possed by an evil spirit or she has a spiritual husband.take her to cele church for delivrance. Nd by d way are u both not suposed to be readin ur books eh? Itz children lik u dat make nigeria record mass failure in waec. Smh 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 9:32pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
MzPreshie:It has little to do with age. My ex partly did same to me. A 28 year old woman!!!! |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 9:42pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
toke8:It's either you were her first love or she didn't really love you; was just using you as backup. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Barayeks(m): 10:03pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
And D guy now...den D girl now...and the guy now..when D girl now..as D guy now.... your write up is terrible. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 3:09am On Oct 28, 2014 |
I'm suspecting you're the guy you're talking about cos this your write-up is enough to make a woman lose interest in you in 1second even if you haven't seen each other in 1year. Ppl should understand dat there's something called attraction and it has a lot to do with charisma...dats why you see ladies dying to remain with a man while another man is getting dumped & redumped by the same girl. The girl probably thought you had changed for the better (charisma-wise) but found out you're still the same boring, low self-esteem guy she knew...hence she's putting you back in that zone... Here's my advise: Take time out alone to search through yourself...do a thorough mind-check and weed out all the negative thoughts hiding in your subconscious...get books that help change your mind-set..and by the time you're changed, she will come back begging you & you will realize dat dere are many fish in the ocean & you can most likely have as many as yiu want. This advise doesn't just work on women but its a life material that makes you attractive to PEOPLE! women, men, gay, lesbian, children etc.....check out "themodernman.com" for more info..I personally bought the book on "the flow" and can send the pdf to you free if you want it..cheers! |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 3:12am On Oct 28, 2014 |
MzPreshie: That girl in your profile pic is smoking hot especially in those jeans. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 7:19am On Oct 28, 2014 |
drlawizle:She get ebola oo. Shey you still like am? |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 7:46am On Oct 28, 2014 |
MzPreshie: She cant have ebola & still look that way...so I still like am |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 10:03am On Oct 28, 2014 |
drlawizle:Looks can be decieving oo. Dem no dey write am for face.:-P |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by miembamish(m): 10:15am On Oct 28, 2014 |
drlawizle:Truth is, am not de guy plsss, its a close friend of mine. Luv ya advice equally. I think that's the truth, koz the guy is juz a calm dude with no "bad guy" trait. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 12:26pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
MzPreshie: Fortunately Ebola is different from HIV in that even if the person has the virus, he/she is not infective until they fall & look terribly ill...now ordinary malaria is a sickness thats hard to hide let alone Ebola.... Any healthy looking person can't infect anyone even if they got Ebola. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 12:34pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
miembamish: Thank you for putting the bad guy inquote..ladies dont really like bad guys per say but only that bad guys give them what they want so they will rather settle for them than a boring, immature & low self-esteem good & good-looking guy. Anyway relay my message to your friend....the author also got a book on "better than a bad boy"....which talks about being a good guy and still giving girl's what they want. |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by miembamish(m): 1:34pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
drlawizle:Tanx much bro... |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Segzay(m): 2:11pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Everytn shldnt be related to immaturity,,,every sh*t ppl do shldnt be termd as immaturity,,whr una put individual differences nd attitudes?,,,,,well,,op,tel dat ur frnd wu is formin gud guy to stop expectin much frm d chickz,,,she dey do lik dt cos she knw say his arms is alwys welcomd to tak her bck,,,,jst tel him to play along wit ha,,,,,,I dey suspect say na u sef,,cos I even feel d passion 4 ur writin(d boy,d girl) |
Re: He Was Just There, And The Girl Came To Him by Nobody: 2:14pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
miembamish: Cheers! |
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