1. Changing your music without
first asking for permission.


The first thing I do when i get a girl
over to my crib is put on some
music. Depending on the mood
I’m trying to set. As
I’m making drinks, if she goes to
the laptop, cuts off my music,
then pulls up some whack-ass shit, then
that's it. Even though she wants to
play “this one song,” I cut her
crap off and put mine back on. I
say, “If you wanted to listen to
your music you should’ve invited
me to your place.”


2. Giving you unsolicited
advice.


I don’t care if I have the
most obvious problem in the
world that can be solved with
just having some drinks, but if I don’t ask you
for help or at least show I’m open
to receiving help, then shut the
f**k up. You’re not my mom and
you’re not someone who has
more life experience than me, so
spare me your harebrained ideas
for solving a man’s real
problems.


3. Saying “you should.”


There is absolutely no reason for a girl to
tell a man “you should…” ever. It
insinuates that not only are you
currently doing something
wrong, but that she knows more
than you, which is extremely
unlikely. She is free to say, “Have
you thought of…” or “What do
you think about…” but the
moment she brings out the word
“should,” a synonym of “must,” I
know she’s a arrogant girl who
thinks she knows more than she
really does. The only things I
should or must do are work harder and die.


4. Not apologizing when she
texts or takes a call in your
presence.


If I’m on a first or second date with a girl, and she starts reading texts, sending
texts, or actually taking a call
without excusing herself first, she
will never see me again. Even the
most conceited girls will let off
an “Excuse me I have to take this
real quick.” Otherwise she
doesn’t deserve another meeting
with you, even if she puts out and
turns out to be okay in bed. You
let a girl disrespect you like this
and you might as well hand her
your balls.


5. If she shows up late in your first date.


this is so silly and very disrespecting for a girl to show up late in your first night out when a specific time had been fixed between you two. If she does that, she has clearly send a message to you that she wont take the relationship serious.


PS. If a girl does any of these, dump her.

Nairaland!!! Una own nor dey pass 'Dump her, Dump him'
Shey person na refuse dump ni?

Agree! But I say a capital 'NO' to number 5.

Op....what is eating you up; is actually within you

Brother Joseph..
U haven't stop dreaming..


Wake up jare..
Dis is the 21st century..

a godd fvcker like me cant be dump by my boyfriend. E go take am time before he go get correct girl like me.

Liability:
a godd fvcker like me cant be dump by my boyfriend. E go take am time before he go get correct girl like me.

keep on deceiving yourself when he is done nobody will tell you

No. 2 is very true. One of the biggest mistakes ladies make in relationships.