EyeKandy:


If we close our legs, we'll be just fine.

You females know that isn't possible.... You want it more than we guys do

bebe2:


your analogy isnt any bette,r

u knw triplex window can be broken, it gets broken everyday. it broke dats probably how u came to life.
u are an adult so u have to take responsibilty for ur action.

yes u both enjoyed the game and she is going to bear the consequences too.
who is going to be pregnant? puke for months, stretch marks, labour pains, sore nipples, sleepness nights etc

and u expect to go free to go break another triplex glass, abi??

as for cleaning it up, who's life is at risk during and possibly after the procedure?? and u go about town breaking........

next time person say come and play the game of stone throwing, just say NO.

You still don't get it. I call it triplex glass because one party said odeshi and assured the other. On the part of the clean up...the injury treatment and clean up are equally risky. Why will one party take the decision on what risk to take especially where it affects the other negatively.

freecocoa:
Lol, abortion is one of the easiest thing everywhere, legal or not.

You said that people have the right to abort a child and I said that legally they don't have this right everywhere.

We were not discussing whether it was easy or not.

freecocoa:
To the ones saying, 'don't have $ex if you don't want babies/don't sleep with her if you can't wed her'.

I ask, so it's a must that you wed who you bed? So $ex is now only for procreation?

I say, so long as you are honest about your intentions, I don't see why there should be a problem.

No, it's not a must that you wed who you bed but it's better to slake your lust on love peddlars - less complications. Love peddlars usually can't afford complications like relationships, pregnancy or STDs. So most are very careful to not compromise their money flow. Over here, some sons from affluent families are severely cautioned to avoid complications from 'stray seeds'. The presence of a stray seed or two could compromise the son/s inheritance for 18 years and beyond, if the child's mother has a good lawyer.

Kanwulia:


Then the man/men should do what is necessary!
No man should be chained to a woman because of ANY child.

Move out of THAT country!
I know MANY Nigerian men who did just that!
I would!

Yes, he should have used some form of birth-control.
He NEVER wanted the child from day one.
Love is not by force!
Na woman dey carry belle. Make SHE deal with am!
Next time make dem babes CHOOSE men wey want pikin OR CLOSE DEM TOTOS!
Period!

True and the same goes for the men. I don't think any sensible woman would try to win mans love by taking him to court? Don't sleep with anything that offers you ass. At least like the person enough to have a meaningful conversation. A man running out of the country to avoid child support obviously has no plans to ever come back. Truth be told, most people regret not taking responsibility for their children later in life. The problem is that sex is so easy to get these days that people have convinced themselves that the pregnancy part cannot possibly happen. The system can only protect you so much.

1stCitizen:


You still don't get it. I call it triplex glass because one party said odeshi and assured the other. On the part of the clean up...the injury treatment and clean up are equally risky. Why will one party take the decision on what risk to take especially where it affects the other negatively.

If someone gave you a gun and tells you there's no bullet and then tells you to point it at your head and pull the trigger would you do it? Probably not. It would be very stupid to do so.

#Just Saying

There is a problem when you trap a man because of few financial gain
There is a problem when you knowingly disregard the importance of a child having a balanced upbringing
There is a problem when you knowingly reduce your chance of ever finding that life partner after your self directed journey into single motherhood

soulglo:


If someone gave you a gun and tells you there's no bullet and then tells you to point it at your head and pull the trigger would you do it? Probably not. It would be very stupid to do so.

If in a game of Russian roulette, someone gave me a 5-chamber revolver with just one round loaded in it - and assures me that he's also wearing a kevlar just in case...then yes, I will shoot.

soulglo:


True and the same goes for the men. I don't think any sensible woman would try to win mans love by taking him to court? Don't sleep with anything that offers you ass. At least like the person enough to have a meaningful conversation. A man running out of the country to avoid child support obviously has no plans to ever come back. Truth be told, most people regret not taking responsibility for their children later in life. The problem is that sex is so easy to get these days that people have convinced themselves that the pregnancy part cannot possibly happen. The system can only protect you so much.

True!
But na WOMAN dey carry BELLE.
So, anything wey she see. . . . .Na her wahala be dat o!
Most people regretting not talking care of the it children in later life is medicine after death.
Perhaps, they should think twice before having "H-ORGASMS""!

crackhaus:

If in a game of Russian roulette, someone gave me a 5-chamber revolver with just one round loaded in it - and assures me that he's also wearing a kevlar just in case...then yes, I will shoot.

Good. It's a choice. There's always a consequence. You cannot tell a judge that you took a chance and got unlucky.

jaybee3:
#Just Saying

There is a problem when you trap a man because of few financial gain
There is a problem when you knowingly disregard the importance of a child having a balanced upbringing
There is a problem when you knowingly reduce your chance of ever finding that life partner after your self directed journey into single motherhood

It's a myth that most times it is done for financial gain. It is just carelessness most times. Even the silly ones who try to trap rich men soon realize that they are living in a fools paradise. Halle Berry is back in court now to reduce the 16000.00 a month she pays in child support. She's paying the consequences for her actions. The system is fair. Be it male or female. Do your part and play smart