| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Nobody: 9:46am On Nov 08, 2014 |
ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.
men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.
The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully
Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.
If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.
The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love I don de catch una one by one. Thought you were only good with cars, lol. So true what you wrote here. I'll keep in touch cuz I like your deals in the auto section. Back to topic, the Op is misleading a lot of bachelors. The hunt for Eagle One is never an easy task even when served a family prescription(betrothed or otherwise). A lot of my friends are still on the hunt, even went as far as tracking sch sweethearts. Nothing good comes easy but I believe in the power of two ready hearts in love. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by LordReed(m): 9:48am On Nov 08, 2014 |
cj4someone:
A wife who is a helpmate is what you get when you get busy with your dream and vision....you don't stress over it! Like sewiously! You spell seriously as sewiously and expect to be taken seriously? 1 Like |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by akatekpe(m): 9:48am On Nov 08, 2014 |
God bless you ekel101...nice point |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by millionboi(m): 9:49am On Nov 08, 2014 |
ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.
men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.
The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully
Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.
If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.
The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love wich 1 is bad woman turns out 2be gud why gud1 turn out bad.....ope guyz dnt tek dis bulshit4rm u.God punish u,u go marry abad wife opein she will change!!then if u blow ur nose,u wil see blood.seriously |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by cecebliss: 9:49am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Some guys are been carried away by the beauty of gals and because of dat dey wil nt knw d one marry and wil end up marrying a gold digger  |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by osangaope: 9:49am On Nov 08, 2014 |
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| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by McLuhan(m): 9:52am On Nov 08, 2014 |
davdandam:
There's a high probability you'll get married to a gal you don't love that much,and forever think about a gal you loved and let go, it's just reality, most of Us don use wife do gf lol. ....but the fact is after love comes reality....a good wife material is someone who is compatible with you, goal wise and everything wise. But God help this present generation with all these runs gehs wey full town.heading to the Vatican to become a priest  LOL. Good luck to you, Vatican citizen. Pls pray for us o. And greet the Holy Father for me. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by davdandam(m): 9:55am On Nov 08, 2014 |
McLuhan:
LOL. Good luck to you, Vatican citizen. Pls pray for us o. And greet the Holy Father for me. Heheheheh God bless you. (Sign of the cross) |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 9:55am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Our gul r all busy observing this thread. Pls 4 those of u ladies who hv sumtin 2 say pls do that. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Emmadgud:
Our gul r all busy observing this thread. Pls 4 those of u ladies who hv sumtin 2 say pls do that. A lot of under aged girls in nairaland (I meant no offense) so bro you really don't wanna read their posts. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by victorazy(m): 10:00am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Lie |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by braine(m): 10:02am On Nov 08, 2014 |
cj4someone:
A wife who is a helpmate is what you get when you get busy with your dream and vision....you don't stress over it! Like sewiously! I thInk I'll follow this principle |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by pinkshell(f): 10:02am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Bro y take it personal?  Church aint d only place to find a spouse, so calm down jesus loves u. #Cheers! (quote author=johnstar post=27825474] den remain single[/quote) |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by pinkshell(f): 10:04am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Thanx for being candid! It all boils down to the kind of rapport u av wit ur patner. youngice:
I consider the man selfish
But did the lady tell the complete story |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by toshmann(m): 10:08am On Nov 08, 2014 |
davdandam:
There's a high probability you'll get married to a gal you don't love that much,and forever think about a gal you loved and let go, it's just reality, most of Us don use wife do gf lol. ....but the fact is after love comes reality....a good wife material is someone who is compatible with you, goal wise and everything wise. But God help this present generation with all these runs gehs wey full town.heading to the Vatican to become a priest If you think marriages are in trouble in Nigeria, try come America come see marriage Guy leave matter o, marry anyone wey you like, pray before and after getting married. Na God o. I tell you. 2 Likes |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 10:09am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Kirinwa:
I can relate with this as the frontpage material not what op put up. Op seems to be typing out what people usuallt say which is not always logical and correct.
If it were possible I would have asked oga Seun to replace op's post with this indepth comment.This is what I call thinking out of the box which comes with experience, observation and wisdom.
Op finding people in your line of work, dedication and aspiration doesn't necessary spell successful union.We have a lot of celebrities divorcing per hour.This is because they know their in and out and won't acccept lies like the common man.You can't tell him you went for audition in calabar when he has all the connections in calabar to verify.
Finding a girl in church choir doesn't make her good in character.
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| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 10:13am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Yes l agree wit u cos those days,l use 2 ban*g one of my church choir member then. She initiated it. But that was then shaa. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by braine(m): 10:14am On Nov 08, 2014 |
ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.
men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.
The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully
Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.
If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.
The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love Very very true! No one can say anything better than these points you have made.  you would be shocked at how bad attitude of today's ladies is, and their lack of intelligence! And, then again, men shouldn't look at beauty coz there would always be someone finer! Same to ladies; there would always be a guy richer and finer than your man! Its contentment that matters. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 10:16am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Leobreezy:
You're right. Currently I'm not even searching sef cuz I'm way too young make a good decision on who would make a compatible marriage mate. So till when I'm old enough to understand myself better it's all friends for now. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by folahann(m): 10:17am On Nov 08, 2014 |
I would have called this a trash but I'm in a good mood. |
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| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by pieces2(f): 10:19am On Nov 08, 2014 |
millionboi:
wich 1 is bad woman turns out 2be gud why gud1 turn out bad.....ope guyz dnt tek dis bulshit4rm u.God punish u,u go marry abad wife opein she will change!!then if u blow ur nose,u wil see blood.seriously you don seem to understand him his not saying one should marry a bad wife and hoe she turns good. What his actually saying is that some times some ppl do marry a good wife but over time with their bad attitude towards her she tends to become or starts acting bad like she no send again and vice vaser dats why he said depending on the angel they mEet or d devil they meet  some guys truelly go make u wan commit same as some girls na only God go help us. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 10:20am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Aiit bro, but at d sametym use dis tym 2 open ur eyes nd mind 2 gud female frnds who u can choose frm 2moro Ok. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by SmellOfSecondMonkey(f): 10:21am On Nov 08, 2014 |
I'M a GOOD WIFE
I
NEED
A
GOOOOOD
CORCK |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 10:27am On Nov 08, 2014 |
OrlandoOwoh:
If you are the type that have lived a promiscuous life, because you now feel you want to get married and start looking for a "wife material", God is going to bless you with a promiscuous lady. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Janetozi(f): 10:27am On Nov 08, 2014 |
davdandam:
There's a high probability you'll get married to a gal you don't love that much,and forever think about a gal you loved and let go, it's just reality, most of Us don use wife do gf lol. ....but the fact is after love comes reality....a good wife material is someone who is compatible with you, goal wise and everything wise. But God help this present generation with all these runs gehs wey full town.heading to the Vatican to become a priest you don't need to go to Vatican to become a priest, you can be what u want to be here. It's just like beating about the bush while u can go straight to the point. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Taolyn4lif(m): 10:28am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Too many hypotheses here that even the posters have not subjected to personal tests. To the married ones who believe that they found good wives, share with us the methods that worked for you. What were the features you wanted in your woman? And what steps did you take to make sure that you eventually get the woman of such features? 1 Like |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Emmadgud(m): 10:29am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Mr God is not d type dat pay evil wit evil. He is not man,so mind ur tougue. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by yemyemis(m): 10:41am On Nov 08, 2014 |
kreezzy:
Abeg Иα how to find a husband I want its also dere or are a learner?? |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by amnestylaw1(m): 10:47am On Nov 08, 2014 |
born2fuck:
Getting a good wife have nothing to do with decision, women can pretend, even olosho goes to church on Sunday, partake in choir. Roam around Lagos between 10 pm to 2 am, you will shout Allahu Akbar. See who is talking. Abeg check his username. |
| Re: How To Find A Wife Without Stress! by Edusouls(m): 10:47am On Nov 08, 2014 |
these are very bad times, terrible times, no sure formulae for finding a good wife! Unless u re lucky ur God just gives it to you... |
